Please I will appreciate a good advice on how to deal with this situation.

How can you deal with a relationship that was ended abruptly without any reasonable reason?

My problem is not that she just ended the relationship in a fit of anger, but the fact that both of us are on the same team working on work related project ....So we will be seeing each other everyday for the next couple of months..

I want to feel normal and OK but I don't know how I will pull that off with Monday fast approaching...

I wish I can start off with someone else almost immediately to push this off my mind, but that's not the case...

I will appreciate any advice that will help..

Thanks in advance

Is it so hard to keep a straight face and mind your business

I know where this is going

Don't be surprised if you two get back after the season of anger is over

Wake up tomorrow morning, go to the bathroom with your vaseline, log on to pornhub and waank off. Freshen up, get dressed and leave for work.

Got to work? on seeing her, look her in the face, greet her, smile and get down to work!! She’s now like any other colleague at your work place! Deal with it and move on!

If you can’t face it, go on knees, cry heavily and start begging her to take you back! Dazzal

stupidity:
Wake up tomorrow morning, go to the bathroom with your vaseline, log on to pornhub and waank off. Freshen up, get dressed and leave for work.

Got to work? on seeing her, look her in the face, greet her, smile and get down to work!! She’s now like any other colleague at your work place! Deal with it and move on!

If you can’t face it, go on knees, cry heavily and start begging her to take you back! Dazzal

Of course!

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THERE'S UNCONFIRMED RUMOUR THAT PRAYING TO THIS LADY WILL HELP YOU MOVE ON.


THANKS.

Kikikiki

Just ignore her....
Shebi she ended it without explanation, then you owe her nothing even if u are hurting ... act like she does not exist ..
If she is interested she will come bk and feed you sub story ..
Or

She is just not that into you

y'all 'll get back together,I assure you.

ITbomb:
I know where this is going

Don't be surprised if you two get back after the season of anger is over

The primary issue of our rift is that she want us to be in an aimless relationship...when i refused to hang around in a relationship that have no clear goal, she woke up the next day, accused me of many things and then called it quit.

Even though she have tried chatting me up after her quit rant, i have largely ignored her but it will be difficult once i face her tomorrow because i genuinely loved her......

Lalas247:


Just ignore her....
Shebi she ended it without explanation, then you owe her nothing even if u are hurting ... act like she does not exist ..
If she is interested she will come bk and feed you sub story ..
Or

She is just not that into you

Actually first on Wednesday to be precise after a mild disagreement over somethings she wanted to buy and how to buy them, she went on FB messager even though both of us were in the same place and downgraded the relationship to a mere friendship claiming lack of understanding between us...................I was shocked becos the incident was just mild and i never took it to mean anything

Then from that Wednesday i started ignoring her, i tried distancing myself in conformity with her demand that we become mere friends, yet she wouldn't let me fit into that asking me if we are quarreling and why i'm avoiding her etc.....

So we went back and forth between that Wednesday and Saturday morning when she finally dropped a long epistle for me on messager and then said Goodbye while maintaining that she now love me with the Love of God and not the other Love......

stupidity:
Wake up tomorrow morning, go to the bathroom with your vaseline, log on to pornhub and waank off. Freshen up, get dressed and leave for work.

Got to work? on seeing her, look her in the face, greet her, smile and get down to work!! She’s now like any other colleague at your work place! Deal with it and move on!

If you can’t face it, go on knees, cry heavily and start begging her to take you back! Dazzal

For now i will take the second part of ur advice....and see how it goes

RuddyFusion:
Please I will appreciate a good advice on how to deal with this situation.

How can you deal with a relationship that was ended abruptly without any reasonable reason?

My problem is not that she just ended the relationship in a fit of anger, but the fact that both of us are on the same team working on work related project ....So we will be seeing each other everyday for the next couple of months..

I want to feel normal and OK but I don't know how I will pull that off with Monday fast approaching...

I wish I can start off with someone else almost immediately to push this off my mind, but that's not the case...

I will appreciate any advice that will help..

Thanks in advance

When you are advised never to date a colleague, you guys will never listen, it would look as if somebody no like u. You just have to deal with whatever u see. Since you cant totally avoid her, things are bound to be awkward between u two, just work on the mental aspect of it, its a thing of the mind.

Apina:

When you are advised never to date a colleague, you guys will never listen, it would look as if somebody no like u. You just have to deal with whatever u see. Since you cant totally avoid her, things are bound to be awkward between u two, just work on the mental aspect of it, its a thing of the mind.

Actually it's the project that brought us together, after it everyone heads off to their station...thanks for the advice sha