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My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving / My cousin who got married this year July is actually thinking of leaving the man (2) (3) (4)
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Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by OlufemiWhit(m): 3:21pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
it baffles me how the people who should be our guide scares us the most....... how pexon wan take advice dis matter sef |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by stiffy56(m): 3:24pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Humbly go home and apologize to them...and ask them to forgive you or take any elderly person that's close to your dad or mum to beg for you...... |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by Nobody: 3:24pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Tommy34: You messed up and need to get your life together ASAP.Please understand that your parents blessing is key.They raised you, suffered and sacrificed much to keep you alive.Imagine if you had been abandoned or simply neglected.You were given an opportunity but you simply blew it and still blowing it.If you do not retrace your steps my friend you will end up in a very bad place.A very very very bad place ,filled with regrets. |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by stiffy56(m): 3:26pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Go home and apologize to them |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by 400billionman: 3:28pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Tommy34:The richest people on earth did not waste time in a university IF you want life advice you can PM me 1 Like |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by Sanchez01: 3:47pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
midehi2:You'd make a horrible parent, no doubt. This is a case of a young boy who has been mentally abused by his own parents and is forced to be what the parents want, though through lies. A lot of us were raised in unpleasant ways. It doesn't make it right. He might have grown academically had he not received threats from his parents over failing JAMB. But no, you must reformat his brain because you were raised in such manner. |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by Sanchez01: 3:50pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
OlufemiWhit:The African parenting style might have worked on some of us but it does not negate the fact that it is crude, unhealthy and extremely dangerous. A child must be what the parents want or he is as good as dead. Then you begin to question why some parents are not so wise to understand that every child is supposed to grow at their own pace and it is their roles as parents to see that he comes out best and not subject him to mental abuse just because he failed. |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by tsamson(m): 3:54pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Tommy34: bro, the sad truth is that Many people can't understand how you feel, they would only judge you, bro, i know the pain, are you on Whatsapp, quote me with your number, lets talk, i would give you practical step to help you looking forward to hearing from you |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by Maj196(m): 4:02pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
How do you do it? doesn't your conscience pricks you whenever you are requesting for money knowing fully well its all a charade... Repent and face the consequences bro |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by Fordzzy(m): 4:08pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
rottencorpse: Thank God ya nor his parent
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Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by Nobody: 4:15pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Kai, don't it. Check this out instead: 1. 'You cannot win when you put on the ugly cloak of self pitty' 2.' A man is at his best when he is in trouble' You see, you need more of these personal development and inspirational quotes to stay on top of your challenges in life... |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by donfeluche(m): 4:17pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
just call me, I have a solution but private one |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by Horlamidei(m): 4:18pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
At age 22years, don't put too much of your focus on university.. tell them if possible get money from dem and start up an investment or business. My mum spent 260k in my first year in university and 100k per session for the whole 4years. Guess what is happening to me now after I am 2ru with service since April, am at home as a burden to dem still searching for job up and down even if na 25k job after 5yrs in sku.....if I have known, tell them to give me that my fees money which all was close to a million, I dd know what I will bring out of the money 2dai and till God knows. Education in nigeria is just like paper.......speak to dem, dey will only shout for a while and later, it will be story 1 Like |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by Nobody: 4:23pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
1zynnvn:That you failed miserably doesn't make it bad. Education is better than ignorance in all ramifications. |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by emelda86(f): 4:23pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Tell em the truth... they won't kill you bro I think u should talk to your mom 1st she'll be the one to bail the cat. |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by Tommy34: 4:29pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
tsamson:08100399737 |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by BabaIbo: 4:31pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
tragergeorge:where you see Ghana for my reply? |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by BabaIbo: 4:34pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
TonyBankz:Thanks, I appreciate 1 Like |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by 1zynnvn(m): 4:42pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Datazone:And as educated as you claim to be you find it so hard to make a simple reply without cursing. School isn't the only place to you can get education. Maybe you don't understand the concept of education. A miserable failure as you called me shouldn't be the one to tell you this. And don't curse people you don't know. Bye |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by HRHQueenPhil(f): 4:42pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
take this 5 steps: 1. apply for a job .i.e go from shop, to company , to houses.. weda house boy , washer man, or attendant, even gateman or driver. the pay must be minimum of 30k. factory work too 2. save minimum of 50k, come to aba (ohanku, ndoki areas) and buy bale of clothes 3. resign, and start this business. with the profit, rent a self contain and continue saving ur profits 4. start school but dont stop ur business 5. dedicate ur life to our MASTER, Jesus Christ..and stop lying and trying to please people. just do all this, after 2 years, u will come and write a better story than dis on nairaland. Tommy34: 1 Like |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by 2buffagain(m): 4:50pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Be true to yourself and to things always. Why put that stress on yourself? It is not a crime to not make JAMB cut off. Hopefully this will be a lesson to help you realize that lying is never worth it. |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by Nobody: 4:57pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
You have done a silly thing! Go back to them and tell the truth. You need a counselor btw, it’s clear why you are yet to secure admission! |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by bareal(m): 4:59pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Simple! Lie again that you are leaving home. |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by Flexben(m): 5:10pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Tommy34: MY ADVICE TO U IS BE TRUE TO YOURSELF COS IT TOOK ME 6 LONG YEARS TO GAIN ADMISSION BUT CAME OUT WITH 2ND CLASS UPPER AND I BELIEVE AM NOT DOING SO BAD COS THOSE THAT GRAD B4 ME STILL PONDER ON AW I GET TO WHERE I AM 2DAY ...... SO BE TRUTHFUL |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by dehmmorlarh4: 5:12pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
i tnk u knw what to do |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by nnamdiosu(m): 5:14pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Tommy34: Hi. Its gonna be well. Just relax. 1. Look for a family member or person that your parents respect. Pastor might be best 2. Relate what you just told us to the person. .3 commit the matter to God 4. The things u do that label u black...stop doing them. |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by Nobody: 5:17pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
1zynnvn:You don't even know the basis of Education. It is divided into two viz: formal and informal. Formal Education is very important. Sorry for the insult man, any unserious person may see that post of yours and may agree with you about the formal education aspect. Try not to give young ones that advice. |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by HigherEd: 5:30pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
There's nothing wrong in failing or falling. Just pick your self and try as many times as you can. As long as that is what you want.... |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by tragergeorge(m): 5:43pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
BabaIbo:lol,I mean say make e enter Ghana na, school no b force and e don fuuk up already,,,,,,besides e age don graduate so make e imagine am say e don finish school |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by BabaIbo: 5:49pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
tragergeorge: no be lie... Oil dey your head. BTW Education is important if no be this country wey make am tough for graduates Better days ahead for us 1 Like |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by Parable007: 6:12pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
Tommy34:I'm Uncle Mike and i offer best advice for anyone seeking advice. first of all do you have a family pastor or someone the family respects? if yes open up to the person and the person opens up to your closed parent (by that I meant the cool headed one) and then finally let the other person know stating your intentions to be in school and be serious about it. I believe if you do this, it will be easier but trying to succeed while living in deceit will be a successful failure, it never too late or too early to correct your past mistakes. |
Re: I'm 22 Years Old And A Burden On My Family, I'm Thinking Of Leaving Home. by papascode: 6:16pm On Jun 12, 2018 |
NoSidonLook: Dear Tommy the best thing to do now is to enrol in a computer school like aptech, NIIT, and others immeditely as this would help reduce the shock. Your mum might be hypertensive and it is an instant cum gradual killer. You won't want to try that. After you do that take along one of your instructors and your uncle or aunty to them(your parents) to explain. Plead with them that you intend writing jamb again even though you failed. Bros na your parents they can't disown you not when your mum is alive. And remember even if they shout at you don't stop begging until they forgive you and if they do one special day within the month you were forgiven, go do a job even if it means becoming a labourer in a building site in other to buy your father a wine and your kneel down to ask for his prayer laying his hands on you. GOD BLESS YOU 1 Like |
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