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I Should Have Served As Corper But For Reasons I Couldn't, I Need Ur Advice. by Sirjendon(m): 9:36am On Jun 13
CC, olawalebabs, lalasticala, Richiez, mynd

Good morning my co nairalanders, moderator, and guests. I am In my late 20s, I got admission to a polytechnic in year 2012/2013 section, to study quantity survey,I couldn't get good grades for some reason (1)I don't understand what I was been taught by lecturers (2)my mind Was not Concentrate on the study To much things to worry about (i) I want to put on the best clothes, best perfume, spend money for my Cus mate, inshort word to see me as big boy, so I always go for huzzling every Thursday and come back on Monday afternoon, so that I can see my gal friend In the city. We were about to write exams, all tertiary institution in 2013 went to strike for months so I was happy Cus the exams was Prosponed I went back to DE city to face huzzling I don't read at all, after the strike we start writing exams after initial two weeks for revision, I performed woefully Cus my mind has been devided, I don't even bother to write one exam. Cus I don't know what to write, I suffer heart breaks from My gal friend who was dating a taxi driver, if am reading I we be thinking of the gal. I checked my result i got 2.13 (Pass) with three carry over in 3 unit Cus, I was ashamed, most of my Cus mate were in upper credit, I left school for my huzzling thinking I we make it good but I was busy parking the money for my gal friend so as to leave the taxi driver for me. But instead she was collecting from me and the taxi driver, until she told me she got admission to college of education at ondo state then my brain open..after Counsel and prayer, Cus I know something is wrong with me. Mind you my parents were not aware I left school, I left the gal and focus on my way, I lefty huzzling cus is inhuman, I got a good job at quarry site I was being paid 18k, so I told my parents am doing my I. T, I told them am going for my H.N.D, I was given money I use it to get jamb, I
passed it And got admitted to another poly but I was given geology, similar to my initial Cus, I did well I pray, stay away from gals, bad friend, no huzzling while in school, I focus on my study. And I excel, I have no carry over. so I finish with upper credit 3.20. And through out nobody new that am in N. D at home , Lucky for me after my school I got a casual job, for 20k, at a construction company At the same state I school. thanks God for that, but now my father keep asking me when to serve as corper, Cus all most all my mate are serving now, but I told him by August 2018, my mother doesn't have problems with me she just want me to be successfu, not minding service or Youth corper, and she trusts me and she can never believe I can do such thing. But my father don't leave with us right from beginning he only send us money in fact I saw my father last five years ago (2013), when I was in ND one in my previous school. please my brother and sister I need ur advice on what to do?
Re: I Should Have Served As Corper But For Reasons I Couldn't, I Need Ur Advice. by Tboymessiah(m): 9:43am On Jun 13
Sorry about that, I we just advice u to continue ur huzzling in time u can start up a business then further

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Re: I Should Have Served As Corper But For Reasons I Couldn't, I Need Ur Advice. by Timekeeper: 10:02am On Jun 13
Try hustle more and finish Ur education.. Thank God u repented from your lavishly spending life.. God bless you

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Re: I Should Have Served As Corper But For Reasons I Couldn't, I Need Ur Advice. by BoboKush(m): 10:02am On Jun 13
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Re: I Should Have Served As Corper But For Reasons I Couldn't, I Need Ur Advice. by maxnedu11(m): 10:23am On Jun 13
recently I had a fight with almost everyone around me it lingered for some time until one day I saw a post somewhere " the decisions of your youth will determine how your children will feed, the school they will attend, the house they will live in and most importantly how happy they will be". I went inside the bathroom sat down, shade tears wiped my face, came out called everyone,apologized and told them some certain things and today i am far happier with rest of mind, I suggest you do the same.

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Re: I Should Have Served As Corper But For Reasons I Couldn't, I Need Ur Advice. by Sirjendon(m): 11:42am On Jun 13
Sorry about that, I we just advice u to continue ur huzzling in time u can start up a business

Thanks sir
Re: I Should Have Served As Corper But For Reasons I Couldn't, I Need Ur Advice. by Sirjendon(m): 11:46am On Jun 13
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maxnedu11:
recently I had a fight with almost everyone around me it lingered for some time until one day I saw a post somewhere " the decisions of your youth will determine how your children will feed, the school they will attend, the house they will live in and most importantly how happy they will be". I went inside the bathroom sat down, shade tears wiped my face, came out called everyone,apologized and told them some certain things and today i am far happier with rest of mind, I suggest you do the same.

Do you mean I should tell my parents
Re: I Should Have Served As Corper But For Reasons I Couldn't, I Need Ur Advice. by Sirjendon(m): 11:48am On Jun 13
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Sirjendon:
Sorry about that, I we just advice u to continue ur huzzling in time u can start up a business

Thanks sir

That's what am thinking to do, but have what about my father dat want to know about my service
Re: I Should Have Served As Corper But For Reasons I Couldn't, I Need Ur Advice. by Princealex1(m): 2:10pm On Jun 13
Sometimes the hardest decisions in life are the right ones. Trust me without mincing words the best thing to do at this point is to tell those concerned the truth, it will not be easy but you will gain two things for sure; peace of mind and the "values" of truth.
Remember "say the truth and it becomes part of your past, tell a lie and it becomes part of your future."
Re: I Should Have Served As Corper But For Reasons I Couldn't, I Need Ur Advice. by maxnedu11(m): 3:21pm On Jun 13
Sirjendon:
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Do you mean I should tell my parents
yes
Re: I Should Have Served As Corper But For Reasons I Couldn't, I Need Ur Advice. by Sirjendon(m): 5:28pm On Jun 13
Princealex1:
Sometimes the hardest decisions in life are the right ones. Trust me without mincing words the best thing to do at this point is to tell those concerned the truth, it will not be easy but you will gain two things for sure; peace of mind and the "values" of truth.
Remember "say the truth and it becomes part of your past, tell a lie and it becomes part of your future."

Really! Thank you sir I we definitely think about it
Re: I Should Have Served As Corper But For Reasons I Couldn't, I Need Ur Advice. by akunna(f): 6:50pm On Jun 13
Sirjendon:
CC, olawalebabs, lalasticala, Richiez, mynd

Good morning my co nairalanders, moderator, and guests. I am In my late 20s, I got admission to a polytechnic in year 2012/2013 section, to study quantity survey,I couldn't get good grades for some reason (1)I don't understand what I was been taught by lecturers (2)my mind Was not Concentrate on the study To much things to worry about (i) I want to put on the best clothes, best perfume, spend money for my Cus mate, inshort word to see me as big boy, so I always go for huzzling every Thursday and come back on Monday afternoon, so that I can see my gal friend In the city. We were about to write exams, all tertiary institution in 2013 went to strike for months so I was happy Cus the exams was Prosponed I went back to DE city to face huzzling I don't read at all, after the strike we start writing exams after initial two weeks for revision, I performed woefully Cus my mind has been devided, I don't even bother to write one exam. Cus I don't know what to write, I suffer heart breaks from My gal friend who was dating a taxi driver, if am reading I we be thinking of the gal. I checked my result i got 2.13 (Pass) with three carry over in 3 unit Cus, I was ashamed, most of my Cus mate were in upper credit, I left school for my huzzling thinking I we make it good but I was busy parking the money for my gal friend so as to leave the taxi driver for me. But instead she was collecting from me and the taxi driver, until she told me she got admission to college of education at ondo state then my brain open..after Counsel and prayer, Cus I know something is wrong with me. Mind you my parents were not aware I left school, I left the gal and focus on my way, I lefty huzzling cus is inhuman, I got a good job at quarry site I was being paid 18k, so I told my parents am doing my I. T, I told them am going for my H.N.D, I was given money I use it to get jamb, I
passed it And got admitted to another poly but I was given geology, similar to my initial Cus, I did well I pray, stay away from gals, bad friend, no huzzling while in school, I focus on my study. And I excel, I have no carry over. so I finish with upper credit 3.20. And through out nobody new that am in N. D at home , Lucky for me after my school I got a casual job, for 20k, at a construction company At the same state I school. thanks God for that, but now my father keep asking me when to serve as corper, Cus all most all my mate are serving now, but I told him by August 2018, my mother doesn't have problems with me she just want me to be successfu, not minding service or Youth corper, and she trusts me and she can never believe I can do such thing. But my father don't leave with us right from beginning he only send us money in fact I saw my father last five years ago (2013), when I was in ND one in my previous school. please my brother and sister I need ur advice on what to do?
Re: I Should Have Served As Corper But For Reasons I Couldn't, I Need Ur Advice. by akunna(f): 7:05pm On Jun 13
Sirjendon:
CC, olawalebabs, lalasticala, Richiez, mynd

Good morning my co nairalanders, moderator, and guests. I am In my late 20s, I got admission to a polytechnic in year 2012/2013 section, to study quantity survey,I couldn't get good grades for some reason (1)I don't understand what I was been taught by lecturers (2)my mind Was not Concentrate on the study To much things to worry about (i) I want to put on the best clothes, best perfume, spend money for my Cus mate, inshort word to see me as big boy, so I always go for huzzling every Thursday and come back on Monday afternoon, so that I can see my gal friend In the city. We were about to write exams, all tertiary institution in 2013 went to strike for months so I was happy Cus the exams was Prosponed I went back to DE city to face huzzling I don't read at all, after the strike we start writing exams after initial two weeks for revision, I performed woefully Cus my mind has been devided, I don't even bother to write one exam. Cus I don't know what to write, I suffer heart breaks from My gal friend who was dating a taxi driver, if am reading I we be thinking of the gal. I checked my result i got 2.13 (Pass) with three carry over in 3 unit Cus, I was ashamed, most of my Cus mate were in upper credit, I left school for my huzzling thinking I we make it good but I was busy parking the money for my gal friend so as to leave the taxi driver for me. But instead she was collecting from me and the taxi driver, until she told me she got admission to college of education at ondo state then my brain open..after Counsel and prayer, Cus I know something is wrong with me. Mind you my parents were not aware I left school, I left the gal and focus on my way, I lefty huzzling cus is inhuman, I got a good job at quarry site I was being paid 18k, so I told my parents am doing my I. T, I told them am going for my H.N.D, I was given money I use it to get jamb, I
passed it And got admitted to another poly but I was given geology, similar to my initial Cus, I did well I pray, stay away from gals, bad friend, no huzzling while in school, I focus on my study. And I excel, I have no carry over. so I finish with upper credit 3.20. And through out nobody new that am in N. D at home , Lucky for me after my school I got a casual job, for 20k, at a construction company At the same state I school. thanks God for that, but now my father keep asking me when to serve as corper, Cus all most all my mate are serving now, but I told him by August 2018, my mother doesn't have problems with me she just want me to be successfu, not minding service or Youth corper, and she trusts me and she can never believe I can do such thing. But my father don't leave with us right from beginning he only send us money in fact I saw my father last five years ago (2013), when I was in ND one in my previous school. please my brother and sister I needs ur advice on what to do?
I advice u "let the cat out of the bag" for those in question, ask of them to forgive u, make them understand u've really realized ur wrongs and how sorry & sober u are. Then plead with them to support u with ur HND

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Re: I Should Have Served As Corper But For Reasons I Couldn't, I Need Ur Advice. by Princealex1(m): 7:55pm On Jun 13
Sirjendon:

Really! Thank you sir I we definitely think about it
Please do
Re: I Should Have Served As Corper But For Reasons I Couldn't, I Need Ur Advice. by RemedyLab: 9:26pm On Jun 13
cool
Re: I Should Have Served As Corper But For Reasons I Couldn't, I Need Ur Advice. by Sirjendon(m): 10:16pm On Jun 13
[color=#006600][/color]I advice u "let the cat out of the bag" for those in question, ask of them to forgive u, make them understand u've really realized ur wrongs and how sorry & sober u are. Then plead with them to support u with ur HND [/quote]

They won't support me again cause my younger brother has gotten admission to university, so all the house focus on him
Re: I Should Have Served As Corper But For Reasons I Couldn't, I Need Ur Advice. by InansBobo(m): 10:18pm On Jun 13
at late twenty do u still give a Bleep?
Tell them wutsup and continue.

but in case u really want to LIE...


Tell them you pursued a second Diploma to boost your knowledge and chances after NYSC so u have two ND's and just about to apply for HND. that u see that would be good for you that u are sorry for not letting them know earlier, that u thought they'd kick against ur decision ...
they should be pleased a bit u had good thoughts of what will be good for ur future.
Re: I Should Have Served As Corper But For Reasons I Couldn't, I Need Ur Advice. by Sirjendon(m): 11:46pm On Jun 13
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InansBobo:
at late twenty do u still give a Bleep?
Tell them wutsup and continue.

but in case u really want to LIE...


Tell them you pursued a second Diploma to boost your knowledge and chances after NYSC so u have two ND's and just about to apply for HND. that u see that would be good for you that u are sorry for not letting them know earlier, that u thought they'd kick against ur decision ...
they should be pleased a bit u had good thoughts of what will be good for ur future.

If I tell my father, he will tell the whole world about it, cause he has been suspecting me since,
Re: I Should Have Served As Corper But For Reasons I Couldn't, I Need Ur Advice. by phenzy(m): 2:49am On Jun 14
You better open up to them since they cannot kill you
Re: I Should Have Served As Corper But For Reasons I Couldn't, I Need Ur Advice. by Sirjendon(m): 10:33am On Jun 14
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phenzy:
You better open up to them since they cannot kill you

I we do dat
Re: I Should Have Served As Corper But For Reasons I Couldn't, I Need Ur Advice. by InansBobo(m): 3:45pm On Jun 14
Sirjendon:
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If I tell my father, he will tell the whole world about it, cause he has been suspecting me since,
thats bad but u just have to face it and see what happens. if u do, u will be at rest

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