A friend of mine met a guy online and they've been talking none stop every day. He buys her credit and sends her cash without her asking, send sms all day and literally talk throughout the day. . . My friend is worried she asked him to stop but he won't he'll just continue saying he loves her and he'll do anything for her that she's his responsibility. This has been going on for weeks, he doesn't want her near any guy. She wants to give in but not sure. . . The funny part is the guy hasn't seen her in flesh and blood, just her pic. He wants her to come visit him but she refused and asked him to come over which he plans to do. . . Now to me this is obsession, I mean wat kind of a guy will love a girl he hasn't seen? Is this love or obsession. . . What do u think people?

Loneliness, Boredom, grooming for ritualistic needs etc the list is endless to the almost obsessive-like love this man is showing. Tell your friend to be very careful infact I would cut ties with him if it were me. I just hope she didnt give this man her home/office address because from what little you have described of him, he has possessive and stalking tendencies too. So many freaks out there on the WORLD WIDE WEB.

4 words 4 u, RUN 4 UR LIFE!!! This is pure Obsession especially if he doesn't want you arnd other guyz, u no go get male friends again haba! See me c trouble oh!

The guy has traces of jealousy and it's not love but lust and obsession. She had better cut it off even if it means buying another sim card,