Humans are indeed selfish when they want to choose a partner to marry. Some put high qualities & high standards, & some don't bring there standard down at all. The issue here is, if you get exactly the person you want to marry, does the person want to marry you?? Imagine a runs girl talking about marrying a responsible, faithful, rich, focused, homely & sexually strong guy; and imagine the guy praying for a decent, faithful, virgin & prayerful lady. Will it work The issue here is that no one is an angel, and since you are not an angel, you need to reduce your standards. If you have a bad past such as abortions done, extreme sexual life, play boy & so on; don't you think it is unfair to bring a very high standard for your intended partner

I want to admonish you. Before you choose the best partner, make sure you are your partner's best partner.

Gbam.. Signed and endorsed

true talk.