Being in love involves more than just emotion. Yes, you feel, but you don’t let emotions guide your love life. You let the principles of love fill you up and nourish people around you.

Here are 11 Love theories you need to know about love;


1.THERE IS NO LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT, BUT THERE CAN BE ATTRACTION AT FIRST SIGHT
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Most times I hear people say “it was love at first sight”. It’s not so. Love is so deep to be explained just by looking. If you ever had a butterfly feeling in your stomach when you first met this person, calm down, its an attraction. Do not get it twisted. An attraction can lead to the process of falling in love, yes, but the attraction is not to love.

2. INFATUATION IS NOT LOVE.

INFATUATION is the state of being carried away by the short-lived passion for someone or something. Why should it be love? It’s an irrational feeling that makes you think you are in love with someone. It makes you see someone so perfect. It makes you expect perfection even when it’s quite impossible.

The complicated thing about infatuation is that it comes as though it is love. It’s very far from love. Kill that feeling.


3.LOVE IS NOT DOMINEERING

Love does not seek to control. You don’t control someone you love. You don’t dominate their lives. Even when you both have issues, some people consciously start to keep malice or become unfriendly so that the other partner sees reasons why he/she was hurt. Now you make the person feel bad so they can return pleading for your love. That’s an indirect way people use to control people they claim to love these days. It’s a wrong way to handle situations.


4 .LOVE IS SELF CONTROLLED

When you love a person, you inhibit or restrain yourself from doing some certain things which you know can dampen the relationship. If you have the urge to hit her, you restrain because you love this person. If you are tempted to judge or curse your partner, you control it. If your sexual urges come up and it’s not the right time, you avoid giving in because you are truncating the value of your partner. That’s self-control. Keep it.

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