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Fathers Will Tears Familly Apart. by suggyspic: 4:55pm On Jun 08, 2010
fellow naira landers, Am the first child (male) in a familly of (Two boys and a girl) my late father left behind his properties in my care. This i got to know through his lawyer. The Truth is that i don't want any piece of my fathers properties but, its has been willed to me. Am ok with what i have and am doing very well with my wife, i have asked the lawyer to rewill it to my younger brother who also refused.

The reason is because my dad belong to a cult group (ROC) which made my mum to leave him with her children 20yrs ago. In his will he said his first child must join the group and a clause that his properties must not be given to charity or his relatives.

We have managed all these years without him and his wealth. His relatives have vowed to deal with us if we give out his wealth to charity homes or anyone outside his relatives, which is exactly the options we have in mind if we accept it under pressure. The lawyer have insisted that my fathers will must be obeyed to the latter.

My Question is that, must my father's will be Obeyed.
why did he not get his properties to his fellow brothers in his group. Please i need good advice on this issue before my dads buried.
Re: Fathers Will Tears Familly Apart. by spikedcylinder: 5:34pm On Jun 08, 2010
Maybe you should sell it all and give the proceeds to charity.
Re: Fathers Will Tears Familly Apart. by dominique(f): 5:34pm On Jun 08, 2010
i don't know about your culture or tradition.  but if it says that you as the first son has to inherit the property. you should go ahead and receive the property. then you can give it all away (that's if you're not carried away with the money)
Re: Fathers Will Tears Familly Apart. by Outstrip(f): 5:58pm On Jun 08, 2010
According to the will he cannot give it to charity. He can choose to just not touch it. If the government. It cannot be forced on him.
Re: Fathers Will Tears Familly Apart. by iice(f): 4:20am On Jun 10, 2010
Ironic. . .some people have their fathers wills contested by the siblings of the father. Here they are only contesting you giving it up to charity.
Re: Fathers Will Tears Familly Apart. by Nobody: 7:35am On Jun 10, 2010
Re: Fathers Will Tears Familly Apart. by Nobody: 7:44am On Jun 10, 2010
My guy i like your discipline. So many people will jump at this opportunity when presented to them. I advise you keep to your word.

Let his relative or his occultic brothers takeover his properties if they like. Keep working hard with your family and God will reward you. You will get as much or better than your father through hard work. Don't forget to go for deliverance and be strong in the Lord because he has pronounced your name before their god as his first child.

Nigeria needs more people like you who can stand against occultic influence.
Re: Fathers Will Tears Familly Apart. by suggyspic: 12:50pm On Jun 10, 2010
chaircover (f) Re: Fathers Will Tears Familly Apart.
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Call a family meeting, pick the most vocal & most difficult relative, and in front of the rest of the family formally hand over all the documents/deeds of the properties. Tell the relative that the rest of the will stipulates that they must join the cult. Its then up to them.

just a quick question, didn't your father remarry?

yeah. he has a wife. just one girl outside my immediate family.
Re: Fathers Will Tears Familly Apart. by spikedcylinder: 1:03pm On Jun 10, 2010
chaircover:

Call a family meeting, pick the most vocal & most difficult relative, and in front of the rest of the family formally hand over all the documents/deeds of the properties. Tell the relative that the rest of the will stipulates that they must join the cult. Its then up to them.

just a quick question, didn't your father remarry?

He cannot give it to relatives either. I think he can just contest it as I said earlier and give it all to charity anyways.
Re: Fathers Will Tears Familly Apart. by OAM4J: 11:34pm On Jun 10, 2010
Simple! Don't accept it, don't reject it, don't sell it, don't give it to anyone or charity

[b]Simply ignore it [/b]and move on with your life. Whatever happens, am sure you'll care less.
Re: Fathers Will Tears Familly Apart. by mamagee3(f): 12:35am On Jun 11, 2010
No wonder the elders say. . ."Money can divide a nation but wisdom can prevent the apartheid"
Re: Fathers Will Tears Familly Apart. by Osama10(m): 2:15am On Jun 11, 2010
OAM4J:

Simple! Don't accept it, don't reject it, don't sell it, don't give it to anyone or charity

[b]Simply ignore it [/b]and move on with your life. Whatever happens, am sure you'll care less.

Seems to be a nice game plan.

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