Hi, i am jus wondering how y'all feel abt ur bf/gf or spouse, bringin d 'ex' stories into rily important conversations?. especially d ones they jus broke up wit b4 u?. My Bf does it sumtimes, nd it rily shuts me off completely, though i try not 2 show it so dat it doesnt luk lyk im jealous over nothin. Am i alone in dis kind of situation?, Thanks.

D ex tin i dnt reli tink it exist nymor once ure out dat al life continues bliv mi wen i say life is simply

@Hawizy, i kno it does. bt i dnt kno hw 2 move past it. sumtimes we ll be havin a rily nice tym nd den i ll tell boyfee dat im gonna prepare sometin rily nice 4 him, nd he ll be lyk "oh good, do u kno dat when my ex girlfriend was around we use 2 do dis or do dat", or i suggest we go somewhere nd he is gonna tell me how he use 2 do dat a lot wit his ex. its rily uncomfortable sumtimes i swear!.

^^^^^^^what about telling him directly that mentioning what he did with his ex makes you feel uncomfortable/jealous? or are you too proud to say it?!
he cant read your mind so talk about what you like and what you dont for the good of the relationship.
if he keeps mentioning her name AFTER that then he must be missing her or something.

don't mean to divert this thread but hawizy speak english. You are better off typing pidgin english than that thing you did there

lol

Agluvs9ja:

Hi, i am jus wondering how y'all feel abt your bf/gf or spouse, bringin d 'ex' stories into rily important conversations?. especially d ones they jus broke up wit b4 u?. My Bf does it sumtimes, nd it rily shuts me off completely, though i try not 2 show it so dat it doesnt luk lyk im jealous over nothin. Am i alone in dis kind of situation?, Thanks.

ur definately alone, some of us, know how to put a stop to that crap b4 it progresses b4 the sentence is finished.
here are some tips,

1. after intimacy, shoud u be indulging, you can go, oh you're good, but not quite like my ex.
2. when he brings up her name, say, wonder why you're not with her if she's so wonderful,
3. say, 'keep going like this, and next time it'll be my name you mention to some girl'
4. just stare blankly at him, and not reply @ all, if he cares he'll ask y no reply, say, i thought you weren't talking to me,
5. WALK AWAY, when he asks why, tell him, I'M HERE, SHE ISN'T,

capish,

@OP

You are not sending an sms, please type clearer next time.

I will advice you tell him nicely that you don't like it. Communication is key in every relationship.

If he continues, you can follow 28Schweet' advice.

Simple dont bring it in at all.