Nothing can be as painful as heartbreak to a woman. Imagine after a long period of waiting, you get married, defile yourself on marital bed (right) and end up going back to hunting. The reason is not far-fetched, thats why we encourage those blinded by the boyfriemd and girlfriend thing to guid themselves not to be lure into marriage. Take a look below:
a) They never knew each other, they were driven by lust and artificial things. If you always see a soulmate in a boy or girl you dont know too well, you are likely to divorce.
b) They lied to themselves during courtship, they never revealed their real self to each other
c) Their relationship was based on passion and emotional thereby hypnotising theirselves, by passing their critical thinking
d) Their relationship was shallow, they never wanted to get married but cant open up because of the way they treat each with love and respect. just a few among others. What's your own view on this?

fact

Marriage requires a two person effort. If you guys don't like each other you can both put a little effort into the matrimony to make sure it lasts at least four to five years. Both partners should actively play their given roles, not one alone slugging things out for the two participants. If the marriage crashes after a few years you both can save face. A crashed marriage of two months will make both individuals laughing stocks in the society.