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11 Important Rules To Follow For A Healthy And Happy Relationship by khalhokage(m): 3:49pm On Jul 22, 2018
Good relationships require work.

What makes a relationship truly extraordinary? And what weakens, or even destroys, a relationship? For the love to remain alive forever, both partners have to take initiative and always adhere to certain simple rules. In that case, here’s what you should always do for a happy and healthy relationship.

1. Learn from your own relationship, not that of another couple.
You and your bae are different in your own way. No relationship is alike. Instead of learning from someone else’s relationship, learn from your own relationship’s successes and failures and adjust accordingly.

2. Be playful.
All stiff relationships end at some point. No need to treat your partner like they are a Maths teacher. Behave like children now and then. No matter how grown you are, a few pillow fights, running around the house or cute wrestling can never hurt anyone. But it can help both of you enjoy the relationship.

3. Be your partner’s biggest fan.
I used to have a girlfriend who felt that writing was a shitty career. And trust me, that made me break up with her. No one is perfect, but you should be your partner’s biggest fan, not their harshest critic. A little gentle suggestion, here and there, of things that perhaps they could do differently, is fine, but constant nit-picking and put downs are not the way to nurture a happy relationship.

4. Forgiveness.
Learn to forgive and let go without holding grudges. As hard as it may be, forgiveness is one of the qualities of true love that matters most in a relationship.

5. Don’t say the truth if it hurts.
Trust me, your bae is better off not knowing some things. Depending on the situation, being totally transparent might do more harm than good. Sometimes the truth hurts badly. Say a white lie when you need to, especially if it’s a little lie that won’t change your relationship, but will make your partner feel happy.

6. Celebrations.
Make sure to always celebrate the special days. Birthdays and anniversaries may repeat itself too many times, but it’s these milestones that create memories.

7. Never get too comfortable with your looks.
Always look sexy for each other, and that includes a flat tummy. Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you should let yourself go and look shabby.

8. Never argue in public.
Arguments should always be done between the two of you. No one else should see. When you argue in public, one person will always feel like they were embarrassed and that that might create a lasting grudge.

9. Stay faithful.
No matter what anyone says, fidelity in a relationship is vital and infidelity is rarely really forgiven. Once you have crossed that boundary and cheated, you will never feel the same about your relationship, let alone how your partner will feel.

10. Follow traditional relationship roles.
When it comes to roles in relationships, tradition works best. If you are a lady, don’t mind cooking, cleaning and handling home affairs and if you are a man, provide without asking your woman to contribute even if she earns a lot. You’ll see the magic.

11. Never stop treating each other like sweethearts.
Talk to each other as sweethearts. Do things that sweethearts do. Work together in achieving your goals. Do things just to make the other one feel loved, especially when he or she might be feeling a little down. Take pride in the way you look and act, for yourself and for your partner, but never let external values have more importance than the internal feelings of your heart.

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Re: 11 Important Rules To Follow For A Healthy And Happy Relationship by Hardamz(m): 11:50pm On Jul 22, 2018
FTC Here, Nice Article OP.
Re: 11 Important Rules To Follow For A Healthy And Happy Relationship by ritylove(f): 11:53pm On Jul 22, 2018
and someone will be telling me a relationship cant survive without sex here is ok
Re: 11 Important Rules To Follow For A Healthy And Happy Relationship by mimimile93: 1:59am On Jul 23, 2018
Fvck these rules
fvck people in relationships
fvck people talkin others into relationships
Re: 11 Important Rules To Follow For A Healthy And Happy Relationship by samtinx(m): 2:04am On Jul 23, 2018
ritylove:
and someone will be telling me a relationship cant survive without sex here is ok
sweetheart what if the "orge" for sex comes,how will i quench it?,when am in a relationship

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