There's this girl i have dated for 3 yrs now,She comes from a modest background,each time we are together,She keeps telling me how much she loves me & how she wants me so badly,But when apart,she doesn't call nor text me,except i call her & when ever i ask why? she says she doesn't have credit to call,each time i sent credits to her,she will flash me,at times she calls for like 30seconds to say thanks afterwards she goes dim,Infact am the one keeping the communication line active,So,my question is,Can this be love? Fella z help

no my guy, it cant be love. you just another of them guys shes stringing along. move on with your life, she aint for u.

When you love someone, you always want to hear from them. I would have said maybe she doesn't have the resources to call you but the fact you send her recharge cards and she still doesn't call plays a diff tune! Something's wrong somewhere.

Its either u call her per second/everytime so she dosnt have the spare time to call u (which makes u feel ur doing all d calling) . . . or ur just being played . . .

lol

You have to understand that it's not so easy cooking up new stories to talk about every minute. You do a lot of talking when you're together and so she probably takes the time off, when she's on her own. It's kinda weird anyway if she calls every 30mins to tell you that she would die for you, don't you think? I'm just saying.

two lovers crazilly in love!

She does not love you my dear.
She is simply using you.
Love is more about sacrifice.
She obviously has someone else she is in love with that she uses your credit to call.

should i call this love in denial?
its pathetic.
@poster just put yourself together and stand for what you believe in!

it's a GamE | wake up

u sleeping

been in a similar shoes before, this simply means she doesnt dig you one bit.

stop calling her and move on with your life. If she asks why have u not been calling, tell her u've been busy.

move on, she will keep on using ur credit for anoda man.


do it today now, before its too late.

Thanks y'all,for ur advice so far,most of the things U guys hv said act as a spring Board to my intended actions.




@poster
been in a similar shoes before, this simply means she doesnt dig you one bit.

stop calling her and move on with your life. If she asks why have u not been calling, tell her u've been busy.

move on, she will keep on using your credit for anoda man.


do it today now, before its too late.


Been thinking the same since,jst that i wanna get to the root of who she's been giving her time & resources to.

so the thread hv emerge again

Now as much as it is not beyond some girls to go out of their way to make sure U do al the work just to feel like Ur proving Ur love, this Ur girl sounds to me like the exception. U send her credit and she flashes? E be ike she wan mugurize U.

but una dey Bleep, wetin remain again? you continue fucking pussy dey go

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Been wondering how to get this gal to understand the way i feel for her cos time is really running out on me to settle down,and i think i love her,just that am scared she might not be the best for my life,i think am allowing my feelings blind my sense reasoning but can't still do any reasonable thing to change her,am so lost cos am scared of having marital problems.

hahahahaha ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d

@poster
stop calling her and wait patiently to see how long it will take her "love" to start noticing your lack of interest. if it reaches a week, i suggest you drop her like she's hot!

RULE 121 OF DATING: if someone claims that the reason they dont call you is her lack of credit and yet, when you send the said credits she STILL act the same way then you know that the reason she gave you is garbage and that she is full of shiit.

Typical naija small gals style

thanks bro

Can this be love, he asks.

I doubt it.

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B@n!mz:

Was just thinking of opening this kinda thread myself,

Only difference is dat she doesnt complain of credit, but dat she doesnt see why she shuld call when i'm doing all the calling. Then, when i suddenly stop calling to allow her to call, she says I refused to call her so she wont call me,

VERY ANNOYING!!!! AM STILL SEARCHING FOR A SOLUTION.

This is typical of what am passing tru now,But am beginning to think that any gal that does not make out time to call or text,above all express commitment in a reasonable way in a relationship is not worth your own time & attention cos obviously that gal has got some things she's so obsessed with,So i suggest u should borrow my advice,use your time wisely & get along with your life cos thats exactly what i hv rsolved to do.