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Re: How To Overcome Sexual Immoralities On Campus by Wapnetrealmcom: 5:53pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
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Re: How To Overcome Sexual Immoralities On Campus by hopefulLandlord: 6:05pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
SarcasticMe: @bolded, You're pulling a fallacy called "Slippery Slope" Those that think premarital sex is okay aren't just being dictated to by "Oyinbos" and those Oyinbos didn't just wake up one morning and declared it okay then started trying to convince "blacks" to do the same. they arrived at it by thinking deeply and logically, they can defend the reasons when facing oppositions and argue their case, gather evidence that supports them and address opposing arguments This was how they got rid of slavery even though major religions around the world endorsed it or had nothing against slavery Now let me address this point "There was a time when people kept themselves till marriage, premarital sex was frowned upon and it did not breed a generation of dummies." This is a terrible look at history. premarital sex has always been with us. nobody influenced us into having premarital sex, its just that it was much more hidden and district in the past compared to now. Also marriage those days are much earlier and as soon as a girl has her first menses she's being pimped out for marriage or future marriage which brings its own unique issues Morality isn't set in stone. even if you go by religious books like the bible you'd see the morality in Old Testament differs a lot from the morality in the New Testament. morality would continue to change and there's nothing any religion can do about it. religion can slow or attempt to slow it down but at the end they're fighting a lost battle 3 Likes |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Immoralities On Campus by Jeferious: 6:06pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
SarcasticMe:Chairman...your comment is the exact gospel. I dunno how people think they can be selective when it comes to do wrong. Lemme first of all state that I myself have made mistake. There was a time I could watch porn like a cartoon and not think of wanking. In fact back I didn't know I could get sexual pleasure if I stimulate my organ myself. I knew about the word 'm@sturbation'...but then it was just a mere entry in the dictionary to me. I can't relate with it by real-life experience. Then I had a girl who stole my virginity. I now became aware of the concept of sexual pleasure. Mind you, I'm past 18 when this happened. Before then, I don't know the difference between a man and a woman. We were all human beings, according to my thought system. And it took time before I yielded to that girl because I don't understand what she was trying to do to me. But then she eventually succeeded, and the story changed. We f##ked like rabbits then(at least thrice a day), before going home for long vac. And it was during that particular long vac that I did my first masturbation, which was due to the fact that I had some dose of porn and have accumulated the urge for a while. Gradually I kept falling. Now I have contacts of several call-girls who attend to me at home on my phone and a number of normal girls who I lay with. And I have visited a brothel. More painful is the fact that someone must have done abortion for me. Right now, there is no sin I can't commit, so far as it would help me quench my primal urge, but deep down I know this isn't the right way. Humans are called higher animals for a reason. If we go about quenching every single primal hunger that we feel within us, then we are definitely in the same grade with goats, dogs, rats...and every other animal that we think we have an edge over. Even the kind sex sef is overrated. I never collect award for all my fucker¥. Once again, you are on point. |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Immoralities On Campus by MrPRevailer(m): 6:16pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Akjwyzepal: That's why we are called Christians, nor animals or the heathen who don't know about or have the urgency to fear God. We are superior morally, spiritually and otherwise because we endeavor to follow the footsteps of the greatest being in the Universe, not mere mortals /animals. |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Immoralities On Campus by mamuzoOMAH(m): 6:18pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
how will someone go to uni and not Bleep. such a waste of university. fucking is an integral part of uni. |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Immoralities On Campus by Nobody: 6:21pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Interesting15: The only people that can successfully avoid sex are Asexuals. |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Immoralities On Campus by belcom10(m): 6:30pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
What did you mean by " do it small small ". Wrong advice detected, my advice though. Abstain totally, be committed to the things of God and God will give you the grace and strength. According to 1 sam 2:9; He Will keep the feet of his saints, and wicked shall be silent in darkness ;for by strength shall no man prevail. |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Immoralities On Campus by Gerrard59(m): 7:52pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
SarcasticMe: Morality is different from religion. Morality is subjective. To you, having sex before marriage is immoral, however it's not same to me. @Post: One doesn't have to be very religious or even religious to be chaste. It's all about being determined not to have sex. |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Immoralities On Campus by vickydevoka(m): 7:57pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
LastDays777:Are u in the spirit. how do u know. tru masturbation u prevent a lot of unwanted things from coming our ways. like unwanted pregnancy, stds. n it helps in relieving oneselfs |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Immoralities On Campus by DavidEsq(m): 7:58pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Banter1:Oya share the experience |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Immoralities On Campus by hope4life: 8:27pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Akjwyzepal: You need deliverance. You can't explain away what God condemns |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Immoralities On Campus by flamingREED(m): 8:32pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
I've discovered that God is true on Bleep matters, Though I've not laid any lady yet. Immorality ends with the quote 'there's nothing in it'. It's appealing but *composedly trivial. |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Immoralities On Campus by Revolva(m): 8:49pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
story almost all naija babe on campus are hustlers https://mobile.facebook.com/naijaolosho/ see dem here I just banged two dis week jare forget sexual immorality I no send dat one alone naija gal de hustle |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Immoralities On Campus by Nobody: 8:59pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
try and make the Bible your cherished book and study it daily with hunger for God's mind and prayer then u will see yourself living above immorality. |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Immoralities On Campus by mikaael(m): 9:41pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Akjwyzepal: Well...to be consensual doesn't mean it is legitimate |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Immoralities On Campus by SarcasticMe(m): 9:42pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
hopefulLandlord: Slippery slope, maybe... but, you have to admit that if the legalization of abortion could face such a stern opposition despite the logical thinking and enlightenment of man, it is because many of us never believed such a thing could become so trivial it would be passed into law. Yea, that's what immorality does... it slowly unfolds, revealing layers of atrocities, never thought of. It is true that premarital sex is not a new thing but as you also noted, it was an act that was discreet and most probably frowned upon. The discreteness alone will cause deterrence for many, who otherwise, will plunge into the act without remorse. Alas, the discreteness is fading now. We are no more frowning. Instead, we are endorsing it, by creating captivating terminologies such as 'sex education' (you also hear something like 'control parenting')... My point on Africans being influenced by the whites was made in reference to what the other person said, when he claimed that African mentality will not let us advance to the point of logically thinking that premarital sex is not immoral. But, the fact remains that, whether we're following the path of the white or not, we'll give the same reasons they gave if we're going to be logical about premarital sex. Lastly (and I apologize for the long epistle) my religion, Christianity, teaches us to live a morally upright and holy life regardless of changing world order. You're right, the old and new testament differ in many 'moral' regards, but this was done to make life easier for us, by the coming of Jesus Christ... (this might become esoteric so I'll stop unless you're willing I continue.) P.S... The Bible is not a book that revolves around holy people and morally upright people. In fact, most of great people we revere were people who fell short and the Bible shows us these flaws and teaches us not to make same mistakes. Religion - Christianity, if I'm to be precise - is not fighting a battle against moral civilization or change in worldly beliefs, it teaches us how to live uprightly, regardless. So, premarital sex is a norm, has always been... but, it is a urge that we must fight. I'm really sorry for the long read, if you bothered to. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Immoralities On Campus by SarcasticMe(m): 9:55pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Gerrard59: True, morality is subjective and quiet distinct from religion. But we can't go ahead and use that as a justification for any of our acts, whether they look harmless or not. Believe me, a serial rapist or killer is morally upright in his own rights and if he's given enough time to defend his actions, it will boil down to the fact that he has an incessant urge within him to kill/rape, thus, he succumbs. It's true, we don't need religion to be chaste neither are religious people necessarily chaste. But, that's the difference between a man who really takes it upon himself to fight his primal urges (for some, it is premarital sex; others, stealing, cheating, raping, killing...) and a man who surrenders to such urges. Religion helps those who are willing... |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Immoralities On Campus by SarcasticMe(m): 10:01pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
Jeferious: Tnx boss... we're all sinners, chasing redemption. Even I am fighting my own demons day after day, hoping to break free from the cycle of 'back and forth'. God help us... |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Immoralities On Campus by Akjwyzepal(m): 10:01pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
mikaael:when is sex legitimate? |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Immoralities On Campus by SarcasticMe(m): 10:28pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
zinizta:Not an easy fight bro... but the holy spirit is our strength. We'll conquer. |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Immoralities On Campus by LastDays777: 11:26pm On Jul 29, 2018 |
vickydevoka: Vicky, we have to avoid it with all cost. You might think it's okay in the physical but it sends signals to Incubus and succubus spirit you can't see with your naked eyes. |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Immoralities On Campus by MRMOF98(m): 7:32am On Jul 30, 2018 |
A ROUND OF APPLAUSE 4 U.
I AM INSPIRED |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Immoralities On Campus by vickydevoka(m): 11:17am On Jul 30, 2018 |
LastDays777:y I stop having see with gals is dat, each time I have sex with them I start experiencing bad luck. my account turns 0.0 naira |
Re: How To Overcome Sexual Immoralities On Campus by LastDays777: 3:35pm On Jul 30, 2018 |
vickydevoka: That's why people have to flee from fornication. You don't know the kind of spirit those ladies/gentlemen carry. Now that doesn't mean you should look at masturbation to satisfy your sexual desires. The energy and sperm released is used by demons for witchcraft. What you have to do is kill that sexual desires and learn how to control yourself to avoid them getting hold of your destiny. Most people find it difficult to control it and stop masturbation because they fuel their sexual desires through 'worldly' music, reading romantic sexual stories that create sexual fantasies in their mind,the friends you listen to ,the movie you watch etc. All these pours into your soul and control your mindset. Once you are able to make your mindset pure(gradual process), how to satisfy yourself is the last thing that will cross your mind. 1 Like |
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