cococandy:


Yea that’s only in Nigerian movies.

In Nigeria real life,[s] MOST women have to work and support the home as much as the husband in addition to doing everything else[/s]

what nonsense are you typing about Which Nigerian? This Nigerian or another Nigerian.

Prognose:

Aye

Like, I read long shiit. But that shiiit was too long mehn.

Sophyrocks:


Hahahahahahaha. This part of your post made me laugh soooooo hard. I keep repeating this in this forum over and over. Women will always be architects of their own misfortune. My goodness! Nigerian women are doomed. I don't think a lot of them value their lives that much. Too bad. Such women can't be helped. They are best left in their miserable lives and their sobbing and nagging are best ignored.

MrBrownJay1:


women's reality?! what woman do you know in Nigeria that is married to a gainfully employed man, and has herself a 9 to 5 job, that would then come home to pick up a broom to start cleaning the house? if they have children then someone else is raising these kids and if the house is dirty someone else is cleaning that house.

indeed a blessed day to you too sista.

TonyeBarcanista:


My Dear, that nonsense can NEVER apply to me.

Thank you!

Most of you really dont know the job of a father cos the past nigerian men did not really do much for us, so to u, a father is a man who does not deny a pregnancy and shows up every now and then and that's bullsh!t

many women have damned themselves by association to men who are easily influenced by pressure and dont have a mind of their own. they leave women stranded and embarrassed always.

cococandy:


You’re out of touch with women’s reality in Nigeria. How can we have a discussion?. Have a blessed day sir

oolongtea: and to women because of course i saw some of u on those threads talking rubbish, men will not treat u better even if u reduce yourself to nothing. having no standards with a man does not make u quality, it makes you a non-entity, u deserve nothing and will probably end up with that. oya hard facts for the ladies, the reason men cheat on u is not cos they cant help it but

CHoccolaTE:


If I say I am not starting to lose hope in women I would be lying, I don't even understand if they like being treated like sheet. Many stupid Nairaland women have started accepting crap treatment and crap standards from men instead of asserting themselves one of them started a thread yesterday to say that Nigerian men owe women nothing just cos she wanted male approval. How on earth can a gender that claims to be superior not owe those they lead anything? Her writeup was so pathetic and devoid of self worth I wanted to vomit. Funny thing is that men would NEVER EVER say that women owe them nothing, they would say women owe them respect and submission and even owe them the duty of providing for men but stupid women who seek male approval have absolved men of any responsibility towards the women in their lives.

On nairaland month after month you see worthless boys starting topics to insult women and belittle their contributions to the family and society and these stupid boys say that before a woman can truly be respected she must take over the duty of providing from the man. Lazy pieces of sheet that want to be called leaders and heads of house but they don't want to work for it, they want to sit on their behinds and wait for women to do everything while they beat their chests and claim to be superior to everybody. And Nairaland women have started to support this school of thought and run their fellow women down.

CHoccolaTE:


If I say I am not starting to lose hope in women I would be lying, I don't even understand if they like being treated like sheet. Many stupid Nairaland women have started accepting crap treatment and crap standards from men instead of asserting themselves one of them started a thread yesterday to say that Nigerian men owe women nothing just cos she wanted male approval. How on earth can a gender that claims to be superior not owe those they lead anything? Her writeup was so pathetic and devoid of self worth I wanted to vomit. Funny thing is that men would NEVER EVER say that women owe them nothing, they would say women owe them respect and submission and even owe them the duty of providing for men but stupid women who seek male approval have absolved men of any responsibility towards the women in their lives.

On nairaland month after month you see worthless boys starting topics to insult women and belittle their contributions to the family and society and these stupid boys say that before a woman can truly be respected she must take over the duty of providing from the man. Lazy pieces of sheet that want to be called leaders and heads of house but they don't want to work for it, they want to sit on their behinds and wait for women to do everything while they beat their chests and claim to be superior to everybody. And Nairaland women have started to support this school of thought and run their fellow women down. Hahahahaha.....But do men owe women anything?Stop encouraging entitlement is it breeds laziness.The only men that owe women are their fathers,husbands and maybe relatives ,the rest men should give at their own discretion,Haba!
The Op should stop calling Nigerian men lazy and irresponsible cos I know the hustle a lot of guys undergo to make money

bryanarchie:


I have kids, I have no maid, I work 9-5 and I split bills with my husband equally.

I do 9o% of the house chores.

CHoccolaTE:
Ignore that guy he doesn't even live in Nigeria, just comes to a Nigerian forum to vent his woman hate.

MrBrownJay1:


then better clap for yourself because you are a "unicorn".... but while on the subject, may i ask: "why do all the chores if you both work a 9 to 5?!"



ARRANT NONSENSE from deluded women who dont use their damn brain and focus on only my post that are against them. i never see you complain when i write something in defence of women, but quick to believe that i will never use my brain and should stand for women ALL THE TIME, whether i believe it is right or not.

btw i didnt know that living in Nigeria was a prerequisite to being on NL.

babeosisi:
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This is my mantra
Unfortunately few Nigerian women agree with this
The church will tell them to stay and fight for their marriage, even when a man moves in another wife,they foolishly stay. I don't get it.
The men know they will stay so they treat them like crap because they get away with it.

If a man cheats on me,he has broken our contract, it's over.

cococandy:
She’s not a unicorn

My mom worked full time to provide as well
And did all the mother duties of the home.

Growing up, I didn’t know any of my friends with stay at home moms. And only a few had house helps.

Don’t say unverified statistics

MrBrownJay1:


up til this day i have NEVER EVER been to a household in Nigeria where there was not a minimum of one housegirl/boy, even when the madam was unemployed.... i guess i must be going to the wrong households.

MrBrownJay1:


up til this day i have NEVER EVER been to a household in Nigeria where there was not a minimum of one housegirl/boy, even when the madam was unemployed.... i guess i must be going to the wrong households.