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”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by dammy13(m): 12:02pm On Aug 10
Media personality, Toke Makinwa has advised women to leave abusive marriages even if they are not financially capable.

Toke who divorced her husband in 2017 wrote

Staying in a domestic marriage because of financial gain or the lies you tell yourself about surviving is lame, I’m yet to see anyone leave a bad situation do badly, it’s the fear that keeps you from your potential

http://kikiotolu.com/toke-makinwa-staying-in-an-abusive-marriage-because-of-financial-gain-is-lame/

Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by Savagedguy(m): 12:15pm On Aug 10
Guys abeg
The date and month of DOB filled by typist in my JAMB result doesn't correspondent with the real, but the year is cool.

Will it affect me during clearance?
Urgent advice please.

I'm a stream 2 corper

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Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by Josh44s(m): 12:26pm On Aug 10
An advice to young ladies in Nairaland. If y’all follow advice from People like one and many others who couldn’t stay in Marriage, then y’all will end up like them. The only difference is they are rich can still be happy with their hoeMoney and y’all broke as hell. No marriage is perfect, especially with this generation of men who can’t seems to stay with just one pussy no matter how much they love their wife. Those who have ears let them hear.

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Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by latest90: 12:27pm On Aug 10
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Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by Aderewah: 12:27pm On Aug 10
Stfu


Only married people should give advise about marriage.

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Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by Shegzdave: 12:28pm On Aug 10
From a divorcee

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Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by sotall(m): 12:28pm On Aug 10
Savagedguy:
Guys abeg
The date and month of DOB filled by typist in my JAMB result doesn't correspondent with the real, but the year is cool.

Will it affect me during clearance?
Urgent advice please.

I'm a stream 2 corper
Better go with an affidavit to that effect.

Don't let your village people succeed

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Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by JONNYSPUTE(m): 12:28pm On Aug 10
You are right about the fear of the unknown. So why did you leave urs ? For different dicks abi?.

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Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by BruncleZuma: 12:29pm On Aug 10
grin grin grin grin

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Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by yeyerolling: 12:30pm On Aug 10
Not all.women can do olosho work lik u. So they chose tp stay

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Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by Yinxies(f): 12:31pm On Aug 10
Divorcee advising the married ones... Only in Nigeria

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Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by popcykaylah(m): 12:32pm On Aug 10
She's right but nobody takes anything she says serious anymore ..

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Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by initiate: 12:36pm On Aug 10
popcykaylah:
She's right but nobody takes anything she says serious anymore ..

So why does she end up on front page?

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Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by Josh44s(m): 12:36pm On Aug 10
latest90:
Okay.

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Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by srclark: 12:37pm On Aug 10
This one should stfu leave one man and still have to depend on another man after leaving the first one just like she depends on married men and peoples fathers .We need more of marriage counselling in these country not going to family members and pastors or older couples the church should employ real counsellors and the government also ,then couples should not wait till trouble comes before visiting the counsellor it should be a regular stuff maybe monthly

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Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by chriskosherbal(m): 12:41pm On Aug 10
Savagedguy:
Guys abeg
The date and month of DOB filled by typist in my JAMB result doesn't correspondent with the real, but the year is cool.

Will it affect me during clearance?
Urgent advice please.

I'm a stream 2 corper
it may or it may not depending on the circumstances and the official you are dealing with at that point in time .

However, my best advice is for you to go to court to swear an affidavit to back up your claim in case of incasity, you cant tell.. undecided

Goodluck to you..

Meanwhile.... in response to the above topic yes it is good women should be financially independent especially in case of emergency, be that as it may, toke should not coerced a woman who has 5 children for a man to leave the home just like that there are other ways this type of thing can be taken care of..

No home is free of one disagreement or the other , no one is promoting domestic violence here, but we must also put into cognizance the emotional and psychological damage the split will do to thier children..I swear it must have a negative toll on thier future. ..

Nevertheless, men should learn to love thier wives ( even though we don't know the Genesis of it and we have not heard from the man too) and women should learn to respect thier husband ( a very rare case with most of this modern day ladies. ..except when cash many huh ).

In conclusion I hope we are not here for another feminist episode cos we know you toke ..


Peace ..

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Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by barristerzinny(f): 12:56pm On Aug 10
Josh44s:
An advice to young ladies in Nairaland. If y’all follow advice from People like one and many others who couldn’t stay in Marriage, then y’all will end up like them. The only difference is they are rich can still be happy with their hoeMoney and y’all broke as hell. No marriage is perfect, especially with this generation of men who can’t seems to stay with just one pussy no matter how much they love their wife. Those who have ears let them hear.
so you want women to stay in an abusive marriage and not be independent? She is right, women should try to be independent and run away from domestic violence.

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Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by OboOlora(f): 12:56pm On Aug 10

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Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by deliveryboy: 12:56pm On Aug 10
Look who's talking
Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by dasphinx1(m): 1:01pm On Aug 10
JONNYSPUTE:
You are right about the fear of the unknown. So why did you leave urs ? For different dicks abi?.

Her marriage did not work because her husband impregnated another woman outside their marital home. Its not everyone that will endure such pain. Besides, its her ex husband that eventually filed for divorce, not her. Just clearing the air on that aspect

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Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by dasphinx1(m): 1:03pm On Aug 10
barristerzinny:
so you want women to stay in an abusive marriage and not be independent? She is right, women should try to be independent and run away from domestic violence.

Thats the problem with most peeps. They dont try to see the message being passed. They rather use all their energy to crucify the messanger instead.

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Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by Josh44s(m): 1:04pm On Aug 10
barristerzinny:
so you want women to stay in an abusive marriage and not be independent? She is right, women should try to be independent and run away from domestic violence.

No I don’t want any woman to stay in an abusiive Marriage but most of these so called celebrities are the abuser and they have ways of misleading young and married girls of this generation.

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Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by Nobody: 1:05pm On Aug 10
Listen to the message not the messenger.


If you're independent men will be afraid to treat you like trash because they know you can leave.

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Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by JONNYSPUTE(m): 1:05pm On Aug 10
dasphinx1:


Her marriage did not work because her husband impregnated another woman outside their marital home. Its not everyone that will endure such pain. Besides, its her ex husband that eventually filed for divorce, not her. Just clearing the air on that aspect
.. But she didn't see anything wrong in bleeping a grandfather? Abi DAT one no reach her to vex?

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Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by loosecanon50(m): 1:07pm On Aug 10
Savagedguy:
Guys abeg
The date and month of DOB filled by typist in my JAMB result doesn't correspondent with the real, but the year is cool.

Will it affect me during clearance?
Urgent advice please.

I'm a stream 2 corper

It won't affect you, I had the same issue 2years ago during my service year.
Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by nabegibeg: 1:12pm On Aug 10
Savagedguy:
Guys abeg
The date and month of DOB filled by typist in my JAMB result doesn't correspondent with the real, but the year is cool.

Will it affect me during clearance?
Urgent advice please.

I'm a stream 2 corper

How you manage graduate baffles nairalanders

Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by dasphinx1(m): 1:14pm On Aug 10
JONNYSPUTE:
.. But she didn't see anything wrong in bleeping a grandfather? Abi DAT one no reach her to vex?

That aspect is none of my business. You or me have got no right to judge her. lifestyle.
Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by ifyalways(f): 1:19pm On Aug 10
Good advice but coming from a woman that stayed with a walking std enclopedia (according to her) makes it funny grin

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Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by JONNYSPUTE(m): 1:32pm On Aug 10
dasphinx1:


That aspect is none of my business. You or me have got no right to judge her. lifestyle.
... That's why we are all hypocrites. She couldn't share her husband with another woman but found it comfortable to be with another woman's husband and father.
Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by Tycike: 1:45pm On Aug 10
Taking nude photos for financial gain is lame.

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Re: ”Staying In An Abusive Marriage Cos Of Financial Gain Is Lame” - Toke Makinwa by chineduemmao: 1:57pm On Aug 10
The most hated book by feminists... but full of truths.

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