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Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by Jaqenhghar: 7:01pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
Let me guess, she is probably single |
Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by Nobody: 7:02pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
She’s has a big point. Only in A black man will you see such despicable level of uncaring attitude towards his children. His ego, immaturity and cheating nature will not allow him act like a decent husband. White men are better, they see nuturimg as a way of life and not just for women. Lazy blaxk mans excuse will be, I work to take care of the finances, but hello, dumb fools, women work also and combine it with giving birth and raising kids. Black men are disgusting especially Nigerian ones. Tufia. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by duchessphils: 7:02pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
pocohantas: @Pocohantas Your head is filled with better oil You go marry beta husband and get beta children!!!!! Amin!!!! 1 Like |
Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by Jaqenhghar: 7:03pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
highqueen:Same way society goes wow whe a woman is the one bringing home the bacon |
Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by obowunmi(m): 7:05pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
this one will never marry. |
Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by revolt(m): 7:07pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
Biglittlelois:ohh dear yre so wrong. I ddnt put mine first(mum). I love them separately in different ways... My mums legacies are emmotionally based and non tangible. My dads legacies are houses and some real estate...even in death (r.i.p) his legacies can still serve generations to come. So maam spk for thyself. Plus the older i get as a man i apprec8 my dad more and more. Its not a competition. 1 Like |
Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by Nobody: 7:07pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
Typical Egoistic Nigerian Men's replies. |
Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by Nobody: 7:07pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
When we learn to celebrate others life becomes simpler 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by John237: 7:09pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
THIS IS ONE OF THE SIDE EFFECTS OF THE LATEST TREND IN OUR SOCIETY CALLED SINGLE MOTHER / SINGLE FATHER UPBRINGING OF CHILDREN |
Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by hi3: 7:10pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
LuvU2:yes, we deserve the accolades 1 Like |
Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by jayAjoku(m): 7:11pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
In the same vane lets also stop congratulating women for gettig pregnant and giving birth. |
Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by eyinjuege: 7:14pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
Why are people comparing childbirth to taking your child to the park or bathing your child? People congratulate new parents for the new addition to their families. Its not only mothers that are congratulated for a newbirth. New mothers have just had a major health change in their bodies, some have had major surgeries, some have had instrumental deliveries. People will definitely go and greet them in hospital. Same way they will go and greet a man 2ho has just had his appendix removed or heart surgery.. If you are going to compare things, pls compare the comparables. As if women don't take their children to the parks or bath their kids. Why not praise and aww over women who are paying their children's school fees and meeting the needs in their homes. There are plenty of such women around. But the truth is they don't deserve special accolades for paying for their children's needs. They're your children and your responsibility. Not mine. Your husband might praise and hail you, na una family problem. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by revolt(m): 7:21pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
eyinjuege:health challenge ke...women are built for child birth and sadly in the process some lose their lives ...ermm rats,cats, dogs, do yhe same...also lets not forget men have a responsibilty for caring for their kids and guess what MORE MEN DIE IN THE PROCESS !!! Early death. So if men arent supposed to get encouraged cos of feminist man hating stupid ideals then lets do the same. Afterall men never come comparing and whinning about howmuch sacrifice they made for kids. |
Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by Tedassie(m): 7:23pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
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Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by pocohantas(f): 7:26pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
eyinjuege: Anyone comparing childbirth to taking a child to the park is a very stupid person. No apologies. |
Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by Nobody: 7:29pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
eezeribe:You are talking trash.Does a man caring for his kids come with same responsibility as a woman staying with her husband when they broke or when a woman gives birth? |
Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by sweetilicious(f): 7:29pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
Least of the things we should be wasting time debating on. |
Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by Navalsadiq(m): 7:34pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
Provably she wants people to congratulate her Father instead |
Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by akinszz: 7:35pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
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Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by londoner: 7:38pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
She is 100% right though. I do the same thing of making it seem cute when a father is with his child. It's actually wrong to act as if they are doing something extraordinary because they aren't if we look at it closely. It's just that so many men are just not stepping up to their responsibility to their children. It makes the most basic things seem so magical. It's sad really. 1 Like |
Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by eyinjuege: 7:42pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
revolt: How have men died from caring for their kids? Please don't mention blood pressure and all other diseases which can be prevented by modifying risk factors such as obesity, smoking, alcohol , exercises etc. Women equally make all the sacrifices men make, and more. Many women in Nigeria work, and contribute to the finances of their homes. They still look after their children You can't say childbirth is just a walk in the park, and for you to trivalise it and compare it to the loss of life of animals is deplorable. When other countries have things under control, the Nigerian man is celebrating the high maternal mortality in its women. You have problems o, big one and you have nobody to tell you. Your counterparts of other races with low maternal mortality, and generally longer life expectancy look after their children, take care of their homes and also work. Here you are comparing the lives of your women to cats, rats and dogs. Tufiakwa. We can see why Nigeria is the way it is. This has nothing to do with feminism btw. Just common sense. Family planning is important for you women o. If you die, you die. The world will move on. If you die for any man, they will spit on your grave. Your health should come first before any expectations of society. Its your body, your life, your womb. Use family planning o. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by Nobody: 7:50pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
STARKACE:I have my moments 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by NdiaraIGBO: 8:02pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
MossLuv: Exactly, that is how it works in ALL western countries. |
Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by Talibanis: 8:04pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
God bless u jo. mars123: 1 Like |
Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by bossvicks06: 8:33pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
Life! Nawa oh ...som pops neva give a minute 2 dia kids, and stil dont provide shit...yt wen d kids bcom succesful tomoro, they gt 2 b called by dia surnames!! I respkt nd praise mine a lot, evn wen i virtually made it witout im...cos i realised dt there are some tins u cud do more easily wit him being present..ask arwnd.. most peepz huz pops ar l8 stil on crtin days wish d nigg ws alive fr one reasn or d oda! Merhn..fr men hu provid, nd giv kids time fr play, i nid tips mbok |
Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by LuvU2: 8:59pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
danilmo:Lol |
Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by Ksatriy: 9:15pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
virago:Is the lady's statement about not congratulating men also lame? |
Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by Maghan37: 9:41pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
highqueen:What d bleep is wrong with a woman taking care of are husband when he is broke without broadcasting it to d rest of d world. |
Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by Maghan37: 9:51pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
Women are so biased. That is why in most cases men are More suitable for ruling than most women. There are very few songs that celebrate fathers but so many songs,poems and so many artistic forms dat give accolades to women, in fact an average Nigerian man will break ur head for insulting is mom but join u in scolding is dad(humour). |
Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by marvinsync(m): 9:55pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
HeWrites: please don't listen to this lady oh she's not married!!! |
Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by emorse(m): 10:14pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
AnonyNymous:Talking about songs, someone once said that the only song done for fathers is only sung at funerals. "a ti GBE baba re le..." lol 1 Like |
Re: "Stop Congratulating Men For Taking Care Of Their Children " - Lady Argues by generationz(f): 10:16pm On Aug 12, 2018 |
highqueen:same way when you see a lady mechanic, engineer, firefighter or CEO you shouldn't congratulate her for thriving in a role that is dominated by the opposite sex. After all work na work its her duty we shouldn't throw a party for her she isn't the first human being to be there. |
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