pocohantas:


That's her problem at highlighted. She needs to understand she isn't in a competition with men. Allow husbands/fathers get their due accolades.

I don't know why some women are selfish like this, even on Father's Day, you will see them celebrating themselves. I have never seen a single dad celebrate himself on Mother's Day.

There would always be some 'special passes', it has a lot to do with traditional roles and expectations of both parents. If you look at it without a bias or competitive mind, maybe, just maybe, you won't think it is a special pass. Just a man being appreciated for being a good father. It is not easy to be a good father. If a man is a good father and a good husband, ahbeg, he deserves accolades.

highqueen:
I'm telling you!
A man baths his child, woow!! he's so caring.
really?what the Bleep is wrong in a man bathing his child??

Biglittlelois:
The reason why they are celebrated is cos it's rare for them to do that, all they care about is making money and meet food on the table when they get back from work let them enjoy it , we all know at the end of the day, the kids would always put their mother first

LuvU2:
People congratulate men for having time for their own kids, wow what a world.

eyinjuege:
Why are people comparing childbirth to taking your child to the park or bathing your child?
People congratulate new parents for the new addition to their families. Its not only mothers that are congratulated for a newbirth.
New mothers have just had a major health change in their bodies, some have had major surgeries, some have had instrumental deliveries. People will definitely go and greet them in hospital. Same way they will go and greet a man 2ho has just had his appendix removed or heart surgery..
If you are going to compare things, pls compare the comparables. As if women don't take their children to the parks or bath their kids.
Why not praise and aww over women who are paying their children's school fees and meeting the needs in their homes. There are plenty of such women around. But the truth is they don't deserve special accolades for paying for their children's needs. They're your children and your responsibility

asdfjklhaha:
hiv

eyinjuege:
Why are people comparing childbirth to taking your child to the park or bathing your child?

eezeribe:
We(especially husbands) should also stop celebrating and congratulating women who stayed with their husbands and boyfriends when they were broke..

We(especially husbands) should also stop congratulating women and buying them gifts when they give birth.

Women and double standards... Tụfịakwa

HeWrites:

A lady on Twitter took to her Twitter TL to advise other women to stop congratulating men for taking care of their own children.

See more of her tweets below;
"Please let’s stop congratulating men for taking care of THEIR children.

A man takes his child to the park “aww. This is so cute”.

We should give him a lollipop for what exactly?

Please let your “aww” be on the same energy level when a mother takes her child to the park.

Stop � giving � men � special passes.

In middle management all over the world, the number of women thins out steadily (even in the most developed countries). This is directly related to child bearing ages of women. Women take on an unfair burden of childcare & this impacts their careers.

So please let’s stop this narrative that a man is doing something exceptional when he spends time doing things that are expected of a parent."


https://www.torimill.co/viral/9397/lets-stop-congratulating-men-for-taking-care-of-their-children-lady-argues.html

revolt:
health challenge ke...women are built for child birth and sadly in the process some lose their lives ...ermm rats,cats, dogs, do yhe same...also lets not forget men have a responsibilty for caring for their kids and guess what MORE MEN DIE IN THE PROCESS !!! Early death. So if men arent supposed to get encouraged cos of feminist man hating stupid ideals then lets do the same. Afterall men never come comparing and whinning about howmuch sacrifice they made for kids.

STARKACE:
dude remind me to never beef with u on nairaland, you just silently and slowly destroy that beautiful lady

MossLuv:
The way women especially your ladies of this generation think and behave this days, I will advice young men that want to marry to have a concrete agreement with his lady before going into marriage. Let everything be share equally both financial and domestic chores. if I bring 10k you bring 1ok, if you cook today, I cook tomorrow.... yes na! nobody is husband (head) or wife.

mars123:
women dont listen to this confused lady, I bet you she isnt married...My father didnt give a damn, I made it on my own, and with mama prayers. Good fathers are not as commonplace as you think. If your man is responsible, cherish him, celebrate him. Dont do the opposite like this fool is advising.

danilmo:

luvU2 is coming for u

virago:



This is so lame

highqueen:
I'm telling you!
A man baths his child, woow!! he's so caring.
really?what the Bleep is wrong in a man bathing his child??

HeWrites:

A lady on Twitter took to her Twitter TL to advise other women to stop congratulating men for taking care of their own children.

See more of her tweets below;
"Please let’s stop congratulating men for taking care of THEIR children.

A man takes his child to the park “aww. This is so cute”.

We should give him a lollipop for what exactly?

Please let your “aww” be on the same energy level when a mother takes her child to the park.

Stop � giving � men � special passes.

In middle management all over the world, the number of women thins out steadily (even in the most developed countries). This is directly related to child bearing ages of women. Women take on an unfair burden of childcare & this impacts their careers.

So please let’s stop this narrative that a man is doing something exceptional when he spends time doing things that are expected of a parent."


https://www.torimill.co/viral/9397/lets-stop-congratulating-men-for-taking-care-of-their-children-lady-argues.html

AnonyNymous:
Goes both ways. Women like to be praised for carrying out basic motherly functions. There are tons of songs and poems written for that reason.

highqueen:
I'm telling you!
A man baths his child, woow!! he's so caring.
really?what the Bleep is wrong in a man bathing his child??