women love love.They are taught from a very young age that being in love is a defining factor but, unfortunately, many women lose the men they love because they are too in love with love and not in love enough with themselves.



Put your life first and establish a social life outside of the relationship.



The quickest way to lose a man’s interest is to make him your number one priority. This is not attractive to men who inherently need, desire and want a challenge. Too many women give up their lives for their man and in doing this they become uninteresting. Keep your lives ladies. You have wonderful lives, friends and passions. Never sacrifice those things for a relationship. The more full you are and the more you love yourself, the more your man will love you too.







1. Break routine

We are all creatures of habit and familiarity can feel really good. But don't allow your relationship to get stagnant by always doing what you think your boyfriend wants. Be committed to your life first and then fit him in. This will make you much happier as a person and more attractive to him.



2. Be confident and turn away from him at times

If you feel your man is becoming distant or not as interested, this is a sign that he is becoming bored in the relationship. If he is bored and you check yourself, you will probably see that you are also bored, so all it takes is a little turning away from him, be a little aloof and he will come looking for you. Remember, men are like cats, if you ignore them, they will come and purr at your feet but if you constantly give them attention, they will go away into a solitary place.



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women are foolishly taught from a very early age that marriage is a do or die mission, so they certainly should DISREGARD loving themselves and instead learn how to be obedient and submissive (thats the only way to successfully stay married)... loving themselves is just a way to jeopardize their union because they (and their thoughts) are SECONDARY.

its women who value themselves and have a brain that can think of themselves BEFORE ALL

MrBrownJay1:
women are foolishly taught from a very early age that marriage is a do or die mission, so they certainly should DISREGARD loving themselves and instead learn how to be obedient and submissive (thats the only way to successfully stay married)... loving themselves is just a way to jeopardize their union because they (and their thoughts) are SECONDARY.

its women who value themselves and have a brain that can think of themselves BEFORE ALL

You are right.

So i tell the women folk:

Break the bonds of society by reading a lot. You build yourself psychologically, emotionally and intellectually when exposed to different books.

Value yourself above any other, that way you will respect your body and not make yourself a cheap commodity.

Marriage is not an achievement, it's just a step towards achieving more of your dreams.

The responsibility of making a marriage work isn't just for the woman, but the man too.

Except absolutely necessary, don't forgo a promising career just to raise babies. You will end up regretting and resenting.

Make a conscious decision to submit to your husband, but never be a doormat.

Above all raise your children up with a different set of values that will make the better humans in this current world.

Peace..

You are definitely going to lose your mind if you keep reading and practicing articles like this.
You own nobody. It's a thing of choice if people decide to stay or walk away from you. Your part is to make available what can keep them but they decide if what you have to offer is enough or not.

megareal:


You are right.

So i tell the women folk:

Break the bonds of society by reading a lot. You build yourself psychologically, emotionally and intellectually when exposed to different books.

Value yourself above any other, that way you will respect your body and not make yourself a cheap commodity.

Marriage is not an achievement, it's just a step towards achieving more of your dreams.

The responsibility of making a marriage work isn't just for the woman, but the man too.

Except absolutely necessary, don't forgo a promising career just to raise babies. You will end up regretting and resenting.

Make a conscious decision to submit to your husband, but never be a doormat.

Above all raise your children up with a different set of values that will make the better humans in this current world.

Peace..

it is more difficult than you think....NO BOOKS can teach you how to go against your parents teachings.... NO BOOKS can teach you how to suddenly value something that you have been brought up to believe that it was worthless without a man (aka you yourself)... NO BOOKS can teach you to look in the mirror and love who you see, after being told all your life that you aint shiit until a man pays your bride price and decide to put you up in his place.

THE SOCIETY these damaged women live in, is fukced up....thats what needs to be fixed before you can remotely think of fixing these women. how can you raise kids properly in a failed environment? is that not that same failed mindset that they will be taught in schools? is that not the same failed mindset that friends family and grandparents will teach them? is that not the same failed society that they will grow up in?