What is misunderstanding?
Misunderstanding is simply failing to understand someone or something perfectly.

What causes Misunderstanding?
Lack of adequate communication and good listening skills.

Anywhere there is a problem, anywhere there is bitterness, anger, rancor, animosity, grudges, hostility, antipathy.. There is NO COMMUNICATION or do I say there is no Adequate Communication.
All problems that lie between individuals in the world is rooted in inadequate communication,
Two people disagree because
1. BOTH have not studied themselves properly.
2. Both have limited themselves in listening.

It takes TWO to disagree, and it takes TWO to agree.

The two major ways to Solving all disagreements and Avoiding Fights are:

1. Know yourself: It is amazing that We know alot about sports, politics, fashion, education, marketing, business, children but We don't know about ourselves, of course we know what car would fit our desires, what food would suit our appetites, what dress would fit our bodies, what gets us angry, what makes us happy but we don't know how to qualitatively control our minds and our thoughts- and this has stemmed from low self esteem which has grown with us from childhood, All the times we see everything wrong in everything around us but we fail to see anything wrong in How we See everything wrong around us, and all the times it is how we see that is marvelously unique and weird-this is because every man would always proclaim his own goodness but only when God's words is placed as the standard would we see our frailties.
When we know ourselves, we would realize that it takes two people to disagree, so most times, when we are angry with others over what they said or what they did, we should take into consideration what we have also said too and how we have also acted too, it takes two to tango, in this way, when we honestly acknowledge our roles and honestly judge our actions not phariseetically(sic) but objectively through God's word then would we be steering towards the road of never misunderstanding others' in our day to day activities. The ultimate and best way to knowing ourselves is direct interaction with the creator who has the manual and controls our rising up and laying down every day in his eternal blessed Word - The Bible. Daily, Non-judgmental, Non-hypocritical and Persistent interaction with the Bible reveals our weaknesses, shows us how it can be corrected and sets us on the path to Freedom, Wisdom and Building Superb Interpersonal relationships with our Spouse, Family members, Colleagues and Neighbors.


2. Communication:
Communication is the Seed of Intimacy. Anything you don't communicate or talk with, you don't have any intimate relationship with that thing or person.
Every Break in Relationship you have experienced or you are experiencing is because of break in relationship.
Break in relationship is a two way thing, anything could have caused it - which could be trivial, but once any break in communication occurs, it is better sorted out instantly by communicating, the use of words such as 'I'm Sorry' even when we perceive ourselves blameless is NOT A SHOW OF WEAKNESS AS PERCEIVED GENERALLY BUT A SHOW OF STRENGTH, why is this?
You simply place a better premium on the Relationship of the two parties involved than on your personal gratification - you value the relationship of you and your spouse, you and your friend, you and your brother, you and your colleague, you and your neighbor ahead of your personal and selfish feeling of being right and always right. Ego and Pride never promotes relationship, it demotes and weakens relationship ties, Humility promotes and strengthens relationships in any place anytime.

3. Love: Herein lies the Solution to ALL the World's problems. The World was Created in Love and by Love since God is Love.
The True Characteristics of Love towards One's Fellow Man As Given By God through the Great Sage Paul are:
-Not Envious
-Patient
-Kind
-Not Jealous
-Not Boastful
-Not Pride and Haughty
-Not insisting on one's rights
-Not touchy, Not resentful
-Not recording every wrong of a fellow man
-Not rejoicing at wicked acts
-Believes the best of Every Human Being
-Endures everything
-Always Wins
The Perfect Solution to All Misunderstandings, Human relations breakups lie in All the vital 3 criteria listed has proven to solve all human relationship problems and Would Solve All present and future relationships problems.

Thanks for reading.

Adetolu Timothy olufemi.