These days, you will meet single men and women the world over, who have the mindset that being in a relationship with someone they deem financially comfortable, automatically means they do not have to pay for their own stuff anymore.

They feel entitled to their partners’ money. Raising hell if said partner gets to a point where they feel used. A lot of people have opinions on this ranging from the fact that someone says I love you to them means s/he owes them the good life and if they cannot provide it, its ‘on to the next one’.

Not to be gender specific, because this situation goes both ways, however, it is quite common to see many young single ladies adopt the same mindset.

They attach so much importance to a man being financially responsible for all their needs, especially the young ladies who have no specific means of regular income.

The question is however, does a man truly need to cater to all his woman’s needs while they are dating? Is this not an unnecessary burden on him?

Doesn’t this ‘mindset’ being proliferated even to younger girls, a way of demeaning a woman in a relationship?

See more http://lingoafrica.com/as-a-single-are-you-really-entitled-to-your-partners-money/

Hmm

space booked

Money is good

Good night

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If he willingly accepted the responsibility then who am I to say no.

chiommy123:
If he willingly accepted the responsibility then who am I to say no.

No harm in that, just make sure you make your own money too, to avoid stories that touch

lingoafrica:


No harm in that, just make sure you make your own money too, to avoid stories that touch

no doubt. We don't depend on guys this days. They ain't loyal. Lol

chiommy123:
no doubt. We don't depend on guys this days. They ain't loyal. Lol

Abii o

A girlfriend cannot be entitled to my money neither can I think of being of picking up her atm card.

Marriage. . hehehe she and my daughter,hopefully it will be a daughter ,can run me down financially .I'm OK by it.







God give me a chance to exist for my family and ambition alone

Igbokiller:
A girlfriend cannot be entitled to my money neither can I think of being of picking up her atm card.

Marriage. . hehehe she and my daughter,hopefully it will be a daughter ,can run me down financially .I'm OK by it.







God give me a chance to exist for my family and ambition alone

I second this

KingLinglee:


I second this

Fantastic!

Igbokiller:
A girlfriend cannot be entitled to my money neither can I think of being of picking up her atm card.

Marriage. . hehehe she and my daughter,hopefully it will be a daughter ,can run me down financially .I'm OK by it.






God give me a chance to exist for my family and ambition alone

Smart man

:/

Recently, fiance who makes more money than i do, was telling me she needed to get some things at the supermarket with her own money, she called me to ask for what i want, i said nothing. She came back telling me about all the things she got, (in my mind i was just plusing, plusing, plusing and plusing....Holy shiet this is too much baby, you could have given me this money to get some necessary stuffs for my job)...tho i didnt say that out loud.
Fact is, i'm not entitled to her money. She can help me with some money of which i will accept it with respect and gratitude but then i'm not expecting anything from her.

Till

Its not worldwide...

Be honestly specific, its NIGERIAN females

Haha. Perhaps, someone got to you?

Igbokiller:
A girlfriend cannot be entitled to my money neither can I think of being of picking up her atm card.

Marriage. . hehehe she and my daughter, [b]hopefully, it will be a daughter, [/b]can run me down financially .I'm OK by it.







God give me a chance to exist for my family and ambition alone

Is it because of the bride price?

Igbokiller:
A girlfriend cannot be entitled to my money either can I think of being of picking up her atm card.

Marriage. hehehe she and my daughter, [b]hopefully, it will be a daughter, [/b]can run me down financially. I'm OK by it.







God give me a chance to exist for my family and ambition alone

Is it because of the bride price you will receive?

khiaa:


Is it because of the bride price you will receive?

sorry.I don't believe in bride price

Igbokiller:
sorry.I don't believe in bride price

Since when don't Africans believe in bride price?

khiaa:


Since when don't Africans believe in bride price?

since the fact emerged that bride price is cross continent practice not just African

Igbokiller:
since the fact emerged that bride price is cross continent practice not just African

I didn't ask about the other continents I asked about Africans.

khiaa:


I didn't ask about the other continents I asked about Africans.

just answered u.when African saw how other people practis bride price .they cared less

Making ur own cash is the surest bet yet...anyways check our signature handle for some 18+ naija contents

Igbokiller:
just answered u.when African saw how other people practis bride price .they cared less

Why must there be a bride price anyway, it looks as though the woman is being purchased like a slave/property?