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Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by phr33man(m): 12:27am On Aug 24, 2018 |
MiztaFabulous: 40% Of monthly income 1 Like |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Matinho: 12:27am On Aug 24, 2018 |
20 Nera |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by milemimi93(m): 12:27am On Aug 24, 2018 |
MiztaFabulous: Give her more than she can spend. Money was made to be spent. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Nobody: 12:28am On Aug 24, 2018 |
Matinho:oh boy be like sey na leaf you go chop |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by kokomilala(m): 12:29am On Aug 24, 2018 |
@NwaiyiAkaetiti, the untruth you just flipped should be flipped back. It's the Word of God. It said ANYONE , not ANY man. Why did you contort the Word of God to fit your self-willed life? You're one of the unconscionably-driven, women of this indomic generation. A very selfish, self-serving and self-excusing age. One can give anyone money. I have no problems with that. But paying a girlfriend salary raises my hackles. This girl would dump this guy like a worn out jacket in a heartbeat if he inherits the misfortune of losing his job or income. I've searched throughout history and I've never seen a generation as selfish,greedy, self-centered as this passing generation of Nigerian women. 5 Likes |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Classictee89(m): 12:29am On Aug 24, 2018 |
tee59: God bless ur thinkin. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by spiritedtete: 12:29am On Aug 24, 2018 |
Magnifik18: Bros... This doesn't apply anymore forget that thing... All this ladies claiming right with each passing day.... It's good when you to spend on your home and be the Head... However give a woman some little sense of entitlement... To spend sometimes. If your dad had gone broke.. I am sure your mum would have still stayed.... Try going broke now and see you yeye on social media. For me the way I run my home. We have our utility account which we make sure has enough every month. Irrespective of whoever put money there. I don't even know how much is in the account. I am sure she doesn't too... We just made it like some kind of piggy accounts but for bills. This doesn't stop me or her from buying things we need in the house... With our individual money.... Morealso we have access to each others accounts. Not to go in and take without permission oo... But just a sense of being free with one another. On the flip side... Things like school fees... House rent... Should not elude you.. You as man should make it your responsibility. Even if your wife is capable too. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by generationz(f): 12:32am On Aug 24, 2018 |
cruchenutii: 60k too much ? it depends on where the lady shops. for some a single human hair wig costs between 15k - 150k , depending on your class and a woman can't have only one weave she will be fixing continuously. she may have like 5 to ten different styles and would change them every six months depending on the price types she buys. A single designer bag is between 45k - 120k .I'm talking of Chinese ( fake) designer o lol not the real deal. she can't have less than two of that. clothes is another list of expenses, shoes , makeup ,treats etc so all these depends on her class. for a simple lady 60k is a million bucks but for some 60k is just a night at a three star hotel. 4 Likes |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by generationz(f): 12:34am On Aug 24, 2018 |
victorian: this your friends husband is an IBO or middle belt man abi |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Nobody: 12:36am On Aug 24, 2018 |
nextstep: You're right on this man. May you continue to grow in wisdom and intelligence. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by generationz(f): 12:37am On Aug 24, 2018 |
Jiang: shuo 5k for a woman that isn't working per month? even as a struggling student I wasn't get that as allowance . na die be DAT hehehe 1 Like |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Oluwolex2000(m): 12:50am On Aug 24, 2018 |
Okay 1 Like
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Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Unlimited22: 12:54am On Aug 24, 2018 |
tee59:Babe, God will bless you. |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Bigdeeee: 1:02am On Aug 24, 2018 |
MiztaFabulous: It depends on your type of person and your reward system for people’s value. My type of person, hmm, used to run a joint account with my [ex]wife, so she had full access because of what she meant to me back then. Now, with my current girlfriend, like between $6 - $15k each month, depending! And it’s just because she’s the LOML, and I value her so much, even though she’s gainfully employed (respiratory nurse) in the US, (not on welfare or anything of such). So reward her according to the value you place on her, y’all be fine 1 Like |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by bameyi(m): 1:03am On Aug 24, 2018 |
Who ask this question our income level differs so is our domestic need as per house upkeep. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Buffalowings3(m): 1:08am On Aug 24, 2018 |
victorian:So you've a different arrangement in your household that works and thank God, you've got no problems. Instead of using your own experience as an example, you chose that of your friend. Madam, be careful. 3 Likes
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Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Buffalowings3(m): 1:08am On Aug 24, 2018 |
tee59: |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Nademdeyrushusk: 1:09am On Aug 24, 2018 |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Buffalowings3(m): 1:15am On Aug 24, 2018 |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by OyinO: 1:16am On Aug 24, 2018 |
Marital chaos, woes, problems and dissolutions will never end but will keep rising in this age of fake-life because we have imbibed Oyibo people strange, unnatural, divorce-bound and counterproductive cultures into Africa. Back in the good old days of the ancestors, both man and woman worked and provided for the family. NO MONTHLY SALARIES! Basic Needs are met on demand. And they lived together in peace, love and understanding till old age when one person died. No rampant divorce! What is monthly salary or pay when you are already stuffing the kitchen, paying school fees, paying electricity bills, medical expenses, house rent, etc.? Is there anything outside these? Oh i forgot, there are lots of things in our days. Senseless and wasteful make up cosmetics for make up vain beauty, hairdo and all manner of fancy jewels and clothings which are not necessary except for show-off at church and social gatherings. Then, one day, when things go wrong and home monthly wife salary is suspended, your wife uses her beauty and kpekus to seek another paymaster or give you endless woes. Give your wife money to buy food stuffs for the kitchen and money for her basic needs. Do shopping for her and the kids from time to time. Leave salary out of it because when your source of salary ends, you will harvest eternal misery in your marriage. Such monies are only given when husband is travelling out of town, and the amount depends on how long he will stay away from home or the expenses speculated. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by islandmoon: 1:21am On Aug 24, 2018 |
this question doesn't make any sense, we are not earning the same thing and our taste differ, seun need to engage moderators that have more sense to do critical thinking, how do you even determine posts that should be move to the front page? we can not even say percentage of our earning, what if I earn over 200 million weekly? op, can you afford it, give your wife 200k monthly, oh! we don't even know of you don't have a child, or may be the whole family is staying with you, well, I suggest we ask the Oracle for you, but for those who doesn't have job or broke, they should go andd rob to give their wife 50k per month? and what about those earning the minimum wages? 1 Like |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Nobody: 1:22am On Aug 24, 2018 |
OyinO:Bro u just said it all I have a friend who is wallowing in his marriage becus of this same issue... Wife is a professional federal worker same with husband both earning nothing less than 210k infact wife earns more becus of her rank but the man burst to tears one day.... Watin e wife day use money do becus she doesn't contribute to any of d warefar of d house...... And still some person are still asking how much should u pay ur wife every month..... It is like some people want to pack to d village after 10months of marriage o 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Buffalowings3(m): 1:26am On Aug 24, 2018 |
Bluezy13: Bros, think now. Rather than give you a personal experience example which is different, She would rather you follow her friends example. |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Mikeparlo12(m): 1:32am On Aug 24, 2018 |
As God blesses you. The more you give her the more you get blessed 1 Like |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by babeosisi: 1:38am On Aug 24, 2018 |
The whole salary |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Nobody: 1:48am On Aug 24, 2018 |
If she is unemployed, give half what u earn. If she is earning, give 1/3. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Paschal2legacy: 1:50am On Aug 24, 2018 |
lolz. That's woman for you bro. The stuff tire me oo I like you. I would have fallen for you if you were single. You successfully and effortlessly disclosed your friend's own, but you didn't disclose yours. And that's unjust. So, tell me; how much do you get monthly from your husband??[/quote] |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by overseasnbeyond: 1:50am On Aug 24, 2018 |
MiztaFabulous:What is upkeep? Come to america to give upkeep by the time you turn homeless, your sense will reset. Its simply because you dont pay bills and have excess to waste 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by hopexter(m): 1:51am On Aug 24, 2018 |
15% of your salary if she's a jobless house wife. 4% if she's an illiterate house wife. Money for food stuff not included. |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Grupo(m): 1:53am On Aug 24, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: Growing up, my both parents were working class. My dad is retired now while mom is still in active service. My dad wasn't giving money to my mom for up keep per se. Why would he do that? He was already paying the school fees of 6 children who he single handedly trained to university level. He built a house that everyone was living in. He would buy foodstuff in bulk and keep at home - bag of rice, yam, garri, and Co. With the above all ready, my mom needed not any money. Which money does she need again when she earns salary? 5 Likes |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Mcglisten(m): 1:54am On Aug 24, 2018 |
00000000000000000000 00000000000000000000 |
Re: How Much Is Reasonable Enough To Give Your Spouse Monthly? by Nobody: 2:00am On Aug 24, 2018 |
generationz: Ha! 150k wig is on the high side & 60k is too much If a man earns less than 500k to be honest. Let's note that 60k is not the whole money for the home in a month, It's just the stipend for the Wife alone so It's a lot. Also the issue is, women can assume a particular class even when they are not. I always ask to know a lady's background before I judge. You can't be earning 150k Net income as a lady & be using 150k Wig, it doesn't work that way. So anyways, which one are you? - A simple lady or the flamboyant type? Lemme know now before I propose to you oh, because I'm ready; so no medicine after death 2 Likes |
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