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why would I try to overcome or even fight it..something that's sweeter than sex itself, and makes you sleep like a baby..theres nothing wrong in it,the only thing I can say is dat too much of it is very bad,much like every other thing... am even prepping myself right now for it....ciao, see ya in d morning

Obainoneandonly:
why would I try to overcome or even fight it..something that's sweeter than sex itself, and makes you sleep like a baby..theres nothing wrong in it,the only thing I can say is dat too much of it is very bad,much like every other thing... am even prepping myself right now for it....ciao, see ya in d morning

Continue deluding yourselves.But let me put it to you.There is no such thing as a healthy dosage of porn if you think watching porn moderately is good.Pornographic usage has been normalized in our society today because a great part of a society see no big deal in it.Maybe because they are oblivious to its proven negative effects or don't care about it.What most deluded folks say when defending their usage of porn is that porn is natural and a simple and free expression of sexuality.While others will says it helps to spice up relationship.But it has been proven that it's disadvantages of porn outweighs its widely perceived advantages as claimed by porn users.

Firstly,studies have proven that porn harms intimate connection.Porn has been shown to cause a decrease in committed relationship.This is because it strips away the deeply emotional and selfless connection that intimacy creates in a relationship and replaces it with self focused sexual desire.This in turn creates the perception that love is not worth it if one cannot get satisfaction for one's sexual desires.
Secondly,For those who think porn spices up relationship,Studies have shown that porn consumers imitate what they see in porn movies and also compare their partners to those porn performers they watch.Meaning that if their partner does not meet the standards of those who they watch in porn movies,Dissatisfaction will sets in the relationship.Subsequently,Emotional connection between those involved in the relationship is lowered which eventually leads to end of that relationship.
Thirdly,Porn usage causes PIED(porn induced erectile dysfunction).This is an abnormal condition in which a porn consumer is unable to respond sexually to a real life partner.This is because the porn user's brain has been conditioned to respond only to what they see in porn movies which subsequently leads to loss of interest in a real life partner.This is how porn has destroyed alot of marriages.Those for those who say porn is good for couples,they are only deluding themselves.
Nothing goods comes out of porn.Let me not even talk on masturbation because that one is a bigger evil.
Note I am not been hypocrital.I am only stating the truth.
Gracias.

Kimsokrates:
Continue deluding yourselves.But let me put it to you.There is no such thing as a healthy dosage of porn if you think watching porn moderately is good.Pornographic usage has been normalized in our society today because a great part of a society see no big deal in it.Maybe because they are oblivious to its proven negative effects or don't care about it.What most deluded folks say when defending their usage of porn is that porn is natural and a simple and free expression of sexuality.While others will says it helps to spice up relationship.But it has been proven that it's disadvantages of porn outweighs its widely perceived advantages as claimed by porn users.

Firstly,studies have proven that porn harms intimate connection.Porn has been shown to cause a decrease in committed relationship.This is because it strips away the deeply emotional and selfless connection that intimacy creates in a relationship and replaces it with self focused sexual desire.This in turn creates the perception that love is not worth it if one cannot get satisfaction for one's sexual desires.
Secondly,For those who think porn spices up relationship,Studies have shown that porn consumers imitate what they see in porn movies and also compare their partners to those porn performers they watch.Meaning that if their partner does not meet the standards of those who they watch in porn movies,Dissatisfaction will sets in the relationship.Subsequently,Emotional connection between those involved in the relationship is lowered which eventually leads to end of that relationship.
Thirdly,Porn usage causes PIED(porn induced erectile dysfunction).This is a condition in which a porn consumer is unable to respond sexually to a real life partner.This is because the porn user's brain has been conditioned to respond only to what they see in porn movies which subsequently leads to loss of interest in a real life partner.This is how porn has destroyed alot of marriages.Those for those who say porn is good for couples,they are only deluding themselves.
Nothing goods comes out of porn.Let me not even talk on masturbation because that one is a bigger evil.
Note I am not been hypocrital.I am only stating the truth.
Gracias.

You mean the truth as you see it.

Bidobado:


You mean the truth as you see it.

Question or statement?

Kimsokrates:
Question or statement?

Deduce.

What is bad, is bad no matter how we try to paint it to appear good in our sight. If you're mindful of your walk with Christ then is a no go area cos the holy spirit departs immediately you indulge in this act and you feel/ know it if you are observant or mindful.Your body is the temple of the living God. Sorry oh am not preaching.

Kimsokrates:
Continue deluding yourselves.But let me put it to you.There is no such thing as a healthy dosage of porn if you think watching porn moderately is good.Pornographic usage has been normalized in our society today because a great part of a society see no big deal in it.Maybe because they are oblivious to its proven negative effects or don't care about it.What most deluded folks say when defending their usage of porn is that porn is natural and a simple and free expression of sexuality.While others will says it helps to spice up relationship.But it has been proven that it's disadvantages of porn outweighs its widely perceived advantages as claimed by porn users.

Firstly,studies have proven that porn harms intimate connection.Porn has been shown to cause a decrease in committed relationship.This is because it strips away the deeply emotional and selfless connection that intimacy creates in a relationship and replaces it with self focused sexual desire.This in turn creates the perception that love is not worth it if one cannot get satisfaction for one's sexual desires.
Secondly,For those who think porn spices up relationship,Studies have shown that porn consumers imitate what they see in porn movies and also compare their partners to those porn performers they watch.Meaning that if their partner does not meet the standards of those who they watch in porn movies,Dissatisfaction will sets in the relationship.Subsequently,Emotional connection between those involved in the relationship is lowered which eventually leads to end of that relationship.
Thirdly,Porn usage causes PIED(porn induced erectile dysfunction).This is a condition in which a porn consumer is unable to respond sexually to a real life partner.This is because the porn user's brain has been conditioned to respond only to what they see in porn movies which subsequently leads to loss of interest in a real life partner.This is how porn has destroyed alot of marriages.Those for those who say porn is good for couples,they are only deluding themselves.
Nothing goods comes out of porn.Let me not even talk on masturbation because that one is a bigger evil.
Note I am not been hypocrital.I am only stating the truth.
Gracias.

AKUKO NKOZI....since I started doing it ,have never for one day experience the trash you mentioned up there.. am not an addict and I only indulge in it twice or thrice a week,and I can tell that I need no study to tell that it has improved my sexual lifestyle beyond my own imagination.. the results are just so astonishing that it beat my own imagination....studies too have proven that over 90% of men masturbate, are you among the under 10% that don't ,or you are an SU

chiommy123:
What is bad, is bad no matter how we try to paint it to appear good in our sight. If you're mindful of your walk with Christ then is a no go area cos the holy spirit departs immediately you indulge in this act and you feel/ know it if you are observant or mindful.Your body is the temple of the living God. Sorry oh am not preaching.

quote me a verse in the Bible that condemn it explicitly, and not indirectly

Obainoneandonly:
AKUKO NKOZI....since I started doing it ,have never for one day experience the trash you mentioned up there.. am not an addict and I only indulge in it twice or thrice a week,and I can tell that I need no study to tell that it has improved my sexual lifestyle beyond my own imagination.. the results are just so astonishing that it beat my own imagination....studies too have proven that over 90% of men masturbate, are you among the under 10% that don't ,or you are an SU

My brother tell that clown to stop copying crappie unproven reports online, I too masturbate 2 times in a week and I still have regular sex even when I am with a woman, the problem the clown writing this this story is that his little brain thinks that everyone indulging in it is an addict, FYI masturbating 2 times in a week is not bad for the body only when you do It daily that it is harmful, finally i love masturbation as it helps me think when I'm stressed up and helps me sleep easy without bothering myself in this life

Immaculatesnow:


My brother tell that clown to stop copying crappie unproven reports online, I too masturbate 2 times in a week and I still have regular sex even when I am with a woman, the problem the clown writing this this story is that his little brain thinks that everyone indulging in it is an addict, FYI masturbating 2 times in a week is not bad for the body only when you do It daily that it is harmful, finally i love masturbation as it helps me think when I'm stressed up and helps me sleep easy without bothering myself in this life

God bless you bro

James 4:7
'Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you'. U must submit totally to the Lord.

U need more word(the word of God) inside of u n build ur life with d word. Bible speaking He sent His word n delivered them all.

I don't why unmarried folks talk bad about masturbation but will never talk bad about fornication.

some women claim, their knowledge from knowing how to have good Sex is from pornography. is it really from pornography Or from having frequent Sex. Pls make una no dey deceive una sef.

chiommy123:
What is bad, is bad no matter how we try to paint it to appear good in our sight. If you're mindful of your walk with Christ then is a no go area cos the holy spirit departs immediately you indulge in this act and you feel/ know it if you are observant or mindful.Your body is the temple of the living God. Sorry oh am not preaching.

lol.. But u ar just clarifying d message

Immaculatesnow:


My brother tell that clown to stop copying crappie unproven reports online, I too masturbate 2 times in a week and I still have regular sex even when I am with a woman, the problem the clown writing this this story is that his little brain thinks that everyone indulging in it is an addict, FYI masturbating 2 times in a week is not bad for the body only when you do It daily that it is harmful, finally i love masturbation as it helps me think when I'm stressed up and helps me sleep easy without bothering myself in this life

You are not addicted to masturbation but you need it to help you think when you are stressed up and also help you sleep.Does that make sense to you?You are just contradicting yourself.
Let me expose your fallacies.There is no way masturbation can help you think because it has been shown to cause brain fog which is one's inability to think clearly and as well as difficulty in concentration.Ex maturbators and even those who masturbate can attest to this.Why they deny it is because the pleasure they derive from it clouds their sense of reasoning.
Secondly,You say that masturbation helps you to sleep easy.Is that not a pointer to addiction?Logically we can conclude that without masturbation,You find it difficult to sleep.You have already programmed your body to see masturbation as the only route to an easy sleep.You are not any different from those who depend on drug to sleep easy.MASTURBATION HAS BECOME YOUR DRUG.
So baba peruse what you write before posting to avoid self-contradictions.

Kimsokrates:
You are not addicted to masturbation but you need it to help you think when you are stressed up and also help you sleep.Do that make sense to you?You are just contradicting yourself.
Let me expose your fallacies.Masturbation has been shown to cause brain fog which is one's inability to think clearly and as well as difficulty in concentration.Ex maturbators and even those who masturbate can attest to this.Why they deny it is because the pleasure they derive from it clouds their sense of reasoning.
Secondly,You say that masturbation helps you to sleep easy.Is that not a pointer to addiction?Logically we can conclude that without masturbation,You find it difficult to sleep.You have already programmed your body to see masturbation as the only route to an easy sleep.You are not any different from those who depend on drug to sleep easy.MASTURBATION HAS BECOME YOUR DRUG.
So baba peruse what you write before posting to avoid self-contradictions.

Young man first of all you do not know my body at all and what I go through in life to stay happy so please stop writing crap about people's body as if you are their private doctor, if crappy religion and these internet stolen analysis you wrote up there are your bases on what you think people who masturbate experience, then dude you are clueless and are blinded to the way the world works, wake up and see that 80percent of men in this world masturbate and because there do not say it out loud to the public or write about it on this forum because of our society judgement and fake lives we live in Nigeria doesnt make people in this act sick people, GROW UP KID AND LEAVE IN THE REAL WORLD

pornography and mastubation has done more harm than good even if you make promises to abstain from these practices, you'd end up hating yourself. Pornography and mastubation are more dangerous than fornication cos they are 100% addictive

chiommy123:
What is bad, is bad no matter how we try to paint it to appear good in our sight. If you're mindful of your walk with Christ then is a no go area cos the holy spirit departs immediately you indulge in this act and you feel/ know it if you are observant or mindful.Your body is the temple of the living God. Sorry oh am not preaching.

Yes you are and you shouldn't apologize for it. You made a lot of sense

Op here,

Truth be told. There must be a spiritual influence on masturbation and porn that makes it extremely. One day, one is promising oneself that he'll stop and never do it again; few hours later an urge comes from whatever (a sex scene, dirty word or nothing at all) and one is back. Something that started as a result of a bad day months back is now becoming a way of my life.

I've tried everything, praying and fasting, willpower, reading scriptures, nofap program (went 9 days without relapsing once). Please don't tell me to go and have sex. I'm an unmarried christian with an evil habit.

It affects everything ranging confidence, spiritual life, causes general anxiety. So I decided to ask here to see if there were people in the same shoes with me or were formerly in my shoes. Should please show me the door out.

For people saying it's not bad, addicting, it's normal. Try going a month without it, you'll see, it's addicting.
Common, deep down, you know, it's unnatural, it's unhealthy, it's sinful, it's shameful.

chiommy123:
What is bad, is bad no matter how we try to paint it to appear good in our sight. If you're mindful of your walk with Christ then is a no go area cos the holy spirit departs immediately you indulge in this act and you feel/ know it if you are observant or mindful.Your body is the temple of the living God. Sorry oh am not preaching.

Very correct sis

Kimsokrates:
Continue deluding yourselves.But let me put it to you.There is no such thing as a healthy dosage of porn if you think watching porn moderately is good.Pornographic usage has been normalized in our society today because a great part of a society see no big deal in it.Maybe because they are oblivious to its proven negative effects or don't care about it.What most deluded folks say when defending their usage of porn is that porn is natural and a simple and free expression of sexuality.While others will says it helps to spice up relationship.But it has been proven that it's disadvantages of porn outweighs its widely perceived advantages as claimed by porn users.

Firstly,studies have proven that porn harms intimate connection.Porn has been shown to cause a decrease in committed relationship.This is because it strips away the deeply emotional and selfless connection that intimacy creates in a relationship and replaces it with self focused sexual desire.This in turn creates the perception that love is not worth it if one cannot get satisfaction for one's sexual desires.
Secondly,For those who think porn spices up relationship,Studies have shown that porn consumers imitate what they see in porn movies and also compare their partners to those porn performers they watch.Meaning that if their partner does not meet the standards of those who they watch in porn movies,Dissatisfaction will sets in the relationship.Subsequently,Emotional connection between those involved in the relationship is lowered which eventually leads to end of that relationship.
Thirdly,Porn usage causes PIED(porn induced erectile dysfunction).This is an abnormal condition in which a porn consumer is unable to respond sexually to a real life partner.This is because the porn user's brain has been conditioned to respond only to what they see in porn movies which subsequently leads to loss of interest in a real life partner.This is how porn has destroyed alot of marriages.Those for those who say porn is good for couples,they are only deluding themselves.
Nothing goods comes out of porn.Let me not even talk on masturbation because that one is a bigger evil.
Note I am not been hypocrital.I am only stating the truth.
Gracias.

you may be right though.
However you ought to be mindful of your choice of words. You can't expect a person to change their wrong orientations by referring to them as deluded.

Teacher1776:


you may be right though.
However you ought to be mindful of your choice of words. You can't expect a person to change their wrong orientations by referring to them as deluded.

You are very right.

chiommy123:
What is bad, is bad no matter how we try to paint it to appear good in our sight. If you're mindful of your walk with Christ then is a no go area cos the holy spirit departs immediately you indulge in this act and you feel/ know it if you are observant or mindful.Your body is the temple of the living God. Sorry oh am not preaching.

And so what if you're preaching? What you said is the absolute truth.