It pains my heart when I see the rate of unmarried people who are strongly to get there future partners.Why this?

This problem has become a mountain making lives unbearable for many.The many who are above 30 and still praying hard to get a true life life partner has given a great cause for concern.

I got married when I was 25 and my lady was 23.Was that to early.

I want to find out from you great Nairalanders,at what age should a guy or a lady marry?

Loveaflame:

It pains my heart when I see the rate of unmarried people who are strongly to get there future partners.Why this?

This problem has become a mountain making lives unbearable for many.The many who are above 30 and still praying hard to get a true life life partner has given a great cause for concern.

I got married when I was 25 and my lady was 23.Was that to early.

I want to find out from you great Nairalanders,at what age should a guy or a lady marry?

I say a big congratulation to you & your wife. No bi small thing ooo. But could you pls answer the followin questions b4 i make my comment? (1) How old are you now? (2)How many children do you have?

i think the right age is 25 on 20 or 25 0n 23

^^^I think 20 or 23 is too young to get married cuz some ppl still don't know what they want at that age or are not mature enough to get married. I believe 25 to 27 is a good age.

^^^ 25-27 for ladies,
25-33 for guys

however,age is not a key factor or perfect timing to go into marriage

^^Yeah, you're right

get married wen you are financially, emotionally and physically ok

My dear is not about age ooo is about meeting d right person and having the resource to maintain the married life that is more important

Iceugwa:

get married wen you are financially, emotionally and physically ok

I agree with this.


The average age to marry in the UK is 28 to 32 for a Woman and 33 to 35 for a Man.

The reasons for the above are, most men expect more from a woman than just beauty and the other, for example the average woman should own their own home, have a good job/career and at least be financially secure.Long gone are the days when the average man should be the sole provider.

Marriage at an early age has it's advantages, less pre-marital sex for one .

30-35 for men 25-32 for women

When smone is financially ok but for lady 20-25 is ok

age is just a number.

people mature at different stages.

people accomplish their dreams at different stages.

people are ready to settle at different stages.

so what is the big deal about age? i clearly dont see one


its just a different world

women 50 -53 men 30s. /

i know of a man married at age of 70 and d gurl dey 18 in abia state. dats cool also

I am 33 want to get married by 35yrs.
The ideal age 4 a guy to get married is when, he is financially, emotionally, physically OK.
For a girl it is advisable to hook up in your mid-late 20s. The reason is;
Once you cross the 30yr threshold as a girl, the law of diminishing returns sets in in terms of ur physical attributes( whether girls admit it or not).
But the opposit is the case for guys. Guys suffer from their teenage years to their mid- late 20s(normally), but from the late 20s on, they mature and becopme more stable emotuionally and financially.
Thus the many instances of girls leaving guys in the hard young years to marry made men. These men in turn, come of age and marry younger girls. VICIOUS CYCLE. Anyone who gets married in the mid 20s in Naija of taday, must have a daddy who has done the hardwork for him

ufos77:

I am 33 want to get married by 35yrs.
The ideal age 4 a guy to get married is when, he is financially, emotionally, physically OK.
For a girl it is advisable to hook up in your mid-late 20s. The reason is;
Once you cross the 30yr threshold as a girl, the law of diminishing returns sets in in terms of your physical attributes( whether girls admit it or not).
But the opposit is the case for guys. Guys suffer from their teenage years to their mid- late 20s(normally), but from the late 20s on, they mature and becopme more stable emotuionally and financially.
Thus the many instances of girls leaving guys in the hard young years to marry made men. These men in turn, come of age and marry younger girls. VICIOUS CYCLE. Anyone who gets married in the mid 20s in Naija of taday, must have a daddy who has done the hardwork for him

correct talk

for a guy,25 to 30, for a lady,same-same!!!
what's all the fussle about?

[size=15pt]for guys, 30 -35
for babes,23-25 [/size]

i think if u are matured enough.u can get married weda u re 19or20

I say a big congratulation to you & your wife. No bi small thing ooo. But could you pls answer the following questions b4 i make my comment? (1) How old are you now? (2)How many children do you have?

i was 27 years in 2003 when i married and my wife is 25 years by then , and by that time some people think that it was too early , but by now i have three handsome baby boys and i own my own house in the village and in the city as well ,i own a car and my wife own one as well and i have being taking my responsibilities in my family , but i am not a politician but i t gives me joy when i see my children and i can still lie to some chick that i am single cos am still young physical .so your responsibilities will make you responsible and a better person in life.

I am now in my thirties with two lovely children,a boy and a girl and living a peaceful life.It e has been wonderful amidst the trials and temptation.God has been faithful to me .

why is everybody writing down thier life story? the thread says '' At What Age Should A Guy/lady Marry? '' not
'' how's your family life?'',

Loveaflame:

I am now in my thirties with two lovely children,a boy and a girl and living a peaceful life.It e has been wonderful amidst the trials and temptation.God has been faithful to me .

chimoney1:

I say a big congratulation to you & your wife. No bi small thing ooo. But could you pls answer the following questions b4 i make my comment? (1) How old are you now? (2)How many children do you have?

i was 27 years in 2003 when i married and my wife is 25 years by then , and by that time some people think that it was too early , but by now i have three handsome baby boys and i own my own house in the village and in the city as well ,i own a car and my wife own one as well and i have being taking my responsibilities in my family , but i am not a politician but i t gives me joy when i see my children and i can still lie to some chick that i am single cos am still young physical .so your responsibilities will make you responsible and a better person in life.

everyone with his/her own views and opinion. I really quite appreciate what carolece has said, it different for everyone.

300 is ok.

for ladies-27
Guys-31

omo see the chart 23-27? does that mean i should start dating older men, cah z boyfriend is only 7 month older i can assure you he's not getting married at 24 only if i jazz him of course