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Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by techtip(m): 4:47am On Oct 27, 2018
My name is Olaegbe Basit. Am actually afriad of failing a lotta people.
Am this kind of person that a lot of people look up too, kid bro, friends, mom and dad too, i actually overheard my dad saying he was proud of me to someone, and my dad isn't the kind of person who tells you he is impressed.
And there was this my friend in school, we used to be competitors, I carry first, she carry second vice-versa. That year she wasn't able to write post jamb but she wrote jamb, this was due to a problem with the email she used to register for jamb.
I was in her house one day and she asked if I was reading for my post-jamb, and I said not really it isn't near yet. She was now telling that Basit, its you that shouldn't fail me now, you must enter school this year, so goan read your book and stop playing around.
That day my respect for the girl shot up.
And I made up not to fail her.

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Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Katier00(f): 8:31am On Oct 27, 2018
bosman502001:


Hello,
Mind sharing lessons learnt?. We might also learn from your experience.
some day I will, my friend

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Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by mctowel01: 1:14am On Oct 28, 2018
I m scared of myself
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by spankyflex(m): 5:22pm On Oct 28, 2018
The fear of starting an undergraduate degree again at age 28. Though it's a course I have passion for

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Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by DonTim1: 7:26pm On Oct 28, 2018
Fear of having a better yesterday!
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Eberechi24(f): 2:45pm On Oct 29, 2018
techtip:
My name is Olaegbe Basit. Am actually afriad of failing a lotta people.
Am this kind of person that a lot of people look up too, kid bro, friends, mom and dad too, i actually overheard my dad saying he was proud of me to someone, and my dad isn't the kind of person who tells you he is impressed.
And there was this my friend in school, we used to be competitors, I carry first, she carry second vice-versa. That year she wasn't able to write post jamb but she wrote jamb, this was due to a problem with the email she used to register for jamb.
I was in her house one day and she asked if I was reading for my post-jamb, and I said not really it isn't near yet. She was now telling that Basit, its you that shouldn't fail me now, you must enter school this year, so goan read your book and stop playing around.
That day my respect for the girl shot up.
And I made up not to fail her.


Your aspiration for greatness is commendable but it should not center on anybody. if you bend to please everyone you will lose yourself to depression. Depression comes in when we can't keep up with standards we let people set for us. Because we made them believe that we are infallible.

What happens if you don't get into university this time? You will be so much concern about what the girl, your father or even your family members would say and not how you are affected and how you gonna improve. Indirectly, you let people set opinions for you. You let them mould you without seeking validation from your emotion

Don't be too afraid to fail people, be too afraid to lose yourself. Be too afraid to fail yourself.
Give your best to whatever you are doing.
Set good example for your siblings, don't let them see you as a perfect god-we are human with flaws and we learn and improve everyday.

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Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Eberechi24(f): 2:49pm On Oct 29, 2018
spankyflex:
The fear of starting an undergraduate degree again at age 28. Though it's a course I have passion for
its one step at a time dear, undergraduate degree is not too late for anybody. take your time.
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Eberechi24(f): 2:54pm On Oct 29, 2018
DonTim1:
Fear of having a better yesterday!
You wont, plan ahead of yesterday. Yesterday start now
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by spankyflex(m): 3:28pm On Oct 29, 2018
Eberechi24:

its one step at a time dear, undergraduate degree is not too late for anybody. take your time.
Thanks.Am considering my background too. four siblings depending on me and am also looking at studying in a developed country.
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by AngryNigerian(m): 5:06pm On Oct 30, 2018
Eberechi24:

We are friends boo smiley

Sweetpea, I really want to get past this. I'm aware we're friends... but can we be more than friends? I'm hoping to share my life with you my dear
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by YourBoss1: 1:11am On Nov 06, 2018
I am scared of failure, and actually obsessed with the fear. sad
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Oma04: 8:10am On Nov 06, 2018
Fear of failure {in all areas of life}
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by AngryNigerian(m): 3:36pm On Nov 18, 2018
AngryNigerian:


Sweetpea, I really want to get past this. I'm aware we're friends... but can we be more than friends? I'm hoping to share my life with you my dear

Queenie, I've been following your responses to the fears expressed by nairalanders here. And I'm even more fascinated! You've swooped me off my feet...so brilliant and calm! We've not met yet, but I look forward to it...desperately.
Pls dear Nairalanders, help me to convince this sweet angel...that I love her so much & wish to spend my life with her.

Pls Angel, if loving you is the sky, I'm ready & will strive to touch it!

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Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Eberechi24(f): 5:02pm On Nov 21, 2018
spankyflex:
Thanks.Am considering my background too. four siblings depending on me and am also looking at studying in a developed country.
Well, you shouldl engage them into something that will fetch them money at the end of the day/month (that's if they are old enough) By so doing they will know the value of money and savings too. It will give you time to plan yourself.
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Eberechi24(f): 5:07pm On Nov 21, 2018
YourBoss1:
I am scared of failure, and actually obsessed with the fear. sad
Oma04:
Fear of failure {in all areas of life}

No, you won't fail as far as you set your mind/goals to succeed. Have faith in your abilities
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Eberechi24(f): 7:31pm On Nov 21, 2018
AngryNigerian:


Queenie, I've been following your responses to the fears expressed by nairalanders here. And I'm even more fascinated! You've swooped me off my feet...so brilliant and calm! We've not met yet, but I look forward to it...desperately.
Pls dear Nairalanders, help me to convince this sweet angel...that I love her so much & wish to spend my life with her.

Pls Angel, if loving you is the sky, I'm ready & will strive to touch it!
We are still friends. you don't need to strive for it boo
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by spankyflex(m): 7:32pm On Nov 21, 2018
Eberechi24:

Well, you shouldl engage them into something that will fetch them money at the end of the day/month (that's if they are old enough) By so doing they will know the value of money and savings too. It will give you time to plan yourself.
Thanks for the advice. I really appreciate.

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Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by okoroemeka(m): 7:58pm On Nov 21, 2018
Chubhie:
Once you are well prepared and armed with the right tools, there's actually nothing to fear about. Not even death itself. Melt away the fear of fear with the greatest force in the universe which is Love.
my greatest fear is not having money in my pockets,if I don't have it I will not even look your face talk less of love.
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Diamond23(f): 9:50pm On Nov 21, 2018
My greatest fear is FEAR itself
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by AngryNigerian(m): 9:49pm On Nov 26, 2018
Eberechi24:

We are still friends. you don't need to strive for it boo

Sweetpea, we should be more than friends!
Give me this chance to prove what I confess, please... & our worlds won't regret it. Maybe you need this to make up your mind...
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by Eberechi24(f): 7:32pm On Nov 30, 2018
AngryNigerian:


Sweetpea, we should be more than friends!
Give me this chance to prove what I confess, please... & our worlds won't regret it. Maybe you need this to make up your mind...
We are friends and am not regretting it kiss
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by illegal7(m): 1:57pm On Dec 02, 2018
Am 100% scared of those girls parading the streets with gonorrhea infested � Pussy.
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by AngryNigerian(m): 7:43am On Dec 14, 2018
Eberechi24:

We are friends and am not regretting it kiss

Hmmm...it's obvious that my feelings ain't going to be reciprocated. Maybe you have a date or fiancé...
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by ankit3302: 8:42am On Dec 14, 2018
There are infinite things in the world that cause fear in the individuals. We must cope with up with all the odds to remove the fear in ourselves.
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by AngryNigerian(m): 8:10pm On Feb 14
Eberechi24:

We are friends and am not regretting it kiss

Darling, are you saying we can't be friends beyond online chats? I understand-he has taken your heart hostage. Good night dear
Re: Whats Your Fear? Share Them by elmagnifico411(m): 1:53pm On Feb 15
Hmm. Make I talk about my own fear.

See ehn, I and wifey put in much work to take of our kids(2), pay bills , and keep the family going. We've agreed on not having kids again, though we have 2 boys, but we agreed cos this country isn't making things easier..

My fear ghanghan;
I'm having it in mind now to cheat on my wife. This is becos she hardly gives space for sex. Before we had our second baby, I talked and talked about it, but was given plenty excuses. If I get sex 2 times in a month, that will be like chopping naijabet for me. I've done 3 months of nothing. She's always tired like she works in a factory of which she doesn't. It's only when shes honey that she thinks u should and it makes me feel she's selfish.
I've told her times without number that marriage ain't all about paying bills, feeding and co, and its not as if she showed those traits while we were dating. Now I'm afraid if I begin to kick out the way I used to do when I was in Uni, I might not even see her when she comes calling for her session. The thing dey pain me walahi..

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