My name is joseph.i am 19years old.i met a very beautiful girl in school.She was a sociology student while i read law.immediately i saw her,i knew she was the one,i knew we were meant 2 be.there was no doubt about it,it was cristal clear.i asked her out,of course d initial answer was outright no.i never gave up until she finally became mine.but they was a little problem confronting me,she was 2 years older than me.i felt since luv knew no bound,age can never b a barrier to our relationship.i gues i was wrong.little did i knw that such a relationship was never in her calender.i shielded the truth about my age from her for 6 mnts.i made sure i neva lied 2 her,bt also ensured she neva knew.of course was very inquisitive.yesterday i became fed up wit her inquisition and told her.u can gues wat her reaction was.she was practicaly shocked and fild wit disbelieve.believe u me,i never saw dis coming.although she was finding it hard 2 tel me it was over,i could infer from her conduct that it was over.i spoke to a female friend who adviced me to talk to her again.gues what i was told?'i should go on wit my life and forget her'.please doctors of the heart i need ur advice.i did a wrong thing which i admitt,but i dont want 2 loose her,not now.she means everything 2 me.please where do i go from here?

The girl is not yours.

I guess she wud hav stayed if ur pocket were 'older' than u, ya kno? She had notin 4 u ab initio. On d oda hand I tink u 'forced' her to agree to ya request, which is a wrong premise, IMO.

Why would you want to marry your Elder Sister in first place, I hope is not sending messages around like helping her to buy recharge cards or foodstuff

damn the girl is dramatic. Two years difference and she's acting as if the guy has murdered someone
na wa for some girls.

@poster you really do not need any advice here, you have already told her. What's next?
if she love you she will come back.

swear an affidavit n increase ur age by 2 yrs, u wud officially be mates!!!!!!!!!!!

but seriously talk to her n let her know, ur the one to be concerned not her n u dont mind one bit that u have actually both passed that level of age stopping u guys love

Gentleman, i suggest you get over her and move on. you are 19 and am assuming you are in your 200Level. Knowing guys and who we are, you will get tired of the lady at the long run and will definitely want new adventure with another chic.


just move on and wait for the next set of JAMBITES September is not so far away

Grow up first and when you do, you will realize that she was too old for you. I think the constant probe to know your age might be that you were acting your age or lower than that. You know women tend to grow emotionally and physically mature than men of their age. So my dear move on and face your studies which is the most important thing for now.

rokiatu:

damn the girl is dramatic. Two years difference and she's acting as if the guy has murdered someone
na wa for some girls.

@poster you really do not need any advice here, you have already told her. What's next?
if she love you she will come back.

^^^Agree, drama, drama, drama.

@ Poster!

You should'nt have lied to her! it's her decision to make if she wants to date someone younger than she is, not yours!

You made the decision for her by lying and that is wrong!

People who go into relationship under false pretences are bound to come out with a broken heart!

I hope you learn from this mistake!

joebrass:

please where do i go from here?

For goodness sake you're only 19! Your life is just starting and 'you've got the whole world in your hands'!

Shey u be mumu?,if one girl live u , u no fit talk to another one abi dem gum ur mouth.Abeg no disturb us

Pick up the piece of ur life dude

i'll go call her back 4 u.

pls go look for ur mate nd make sure u learn ur leason?

did u sleep wif her!

guy move on and stop crying like a baby. has any babe told u she likes to be told the truth!!!!!

omo go die

eyah.

wtf!?