Jollenge77:
Hello guys, let me just go straight to the point.
I had an argument with my girlfriend last week, ok what happened is she said something I didn't like de previous day. She became angry that:
1. I kept it overnight and got angry
2. That I'm always twisting her words.
While we were talking on the phone, my airtime got finished. So called her later with my other line, she kept rejecting the calls. Next thing I knew is she blocked me on whatsapp and Facebook. And we don't live in the same state. I'm just confused now, cos I feel it's rude and wrong to treat someone you love and planning on settling down. Pls I need advice.

tripplephi:
it is RUDE and WRONG to twist someone's words and use it against them.... YOU BOTH are WRONG but again there is no mature counselor in your lives to call you both to order... COMING ON NL here is not the best.

GET A RELATIONSHIP COUNSELOR YOU BOTH CAN BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE TO and KEEP IT AWAY FROM THE PUBLIC.

These petty issues should be handled in maturity.... COMING HERE is not mature..... remember NO THIRD PARTIES.

The more matured person would APOLOGIZE FIRST with SMS and a PHONE CALL.... JUST TO SAVE RELATIONSHIP rather than win on who is right or wrong.

Jollenge77:
Hello guys, let me just go straight to the point.
I had an argument with my girlfriend last week, ok what happened is she said something I didn't like de previous day. She became angry that:
1. I kept it overnight and got angry
2. That I'm always twisting her words.
While we were talking on the phone, my airtime got finished. So called her later with my other line, she kept rejecting the calls. Next thing I knew is she blocked me on whatsapp and Facebook. And we don't live in the same state. I'm just confused now, cos I feel it's rude and wrong to treat someone you love and planning on settling down. Pls I need advice.

Jollenge77:
Hello guys, let me just go straight to the point.
I had an argument with my girlfriend last week, ok what happened is she said something I didn't like de previous day. She became angry that:
1. I kept it overnight and got angry
2. That I'm always twisting her words.
While we were talking on the phone, my airtime got finished. So called her later with my other line, she kept rejecting the calls. Next thing I knew is she blocked me on whatsapp and Facebook. And we don't live in the same state. I'm just confused now, cos I feel it's rude and wrong to treat someone you love and planning on settling down. Pls I need advice.

Jollenge77:

I know twisting someone's words is wrong, but in her case seems she forget things she says. OK what happened that was I told her of a design I'm to do for new client, all she said is shld not go and over charge the client that that's how I always do. I asked when I've ever done dat b4, are said she's not ready for an argument

LuciferKristi:




She'll unblock you in two weeks time - after she is through with the sex romp she promised her maga and you will still accept her.


Mumu.

Jollenge77:

I know twisting someone's words is wrong, but in her case seems she forget things she says. OK what happened that was I told her of a design I'm to do for new client, all she said is shld not go and over charge the client that that's how I always do. I asked when I've ever done dat b4, are said she's not ready for an argument

delugajackson:
I suggest you move on with your life and stop beating yourself up. From her actions, it's obvious she's done with you, the least you can do is whine from now till tomorrow, but the fact still remains that she has left your sorry a.ss. Move on with your life and be a man about it. Don't call or text her any longer. Life is too short to be spent thinking about an egocentric girlfriend.

delugajackson:
I suggest you move on with your life and stop beating yourself up. From her actions, it's obvious she's done with you, the least you can do is whine from now till tomorrow, but the fact still remains that she has left your sorry a.ss. Move on with your life and be a man about it. Don't call or text her any longer. Life is too short to be spent thinking about an egocentric girlfriend.

mezarddinny:
not true, the girl may actually still love him very much, there are some people like that, they like to be free from anybody they are angry with for some time


OP, you are the only one that knows how she behaves with others, if it is something she does to her friends regularly and then they still remain friends then keep calm and free her for some days.


stop bringing your issues to nairaland, people here don't know your partner more than you, they just try to generalise

stupidity:
you are very right! I have a friend that behaves this way too, he and his girl are like cat and rat. They get mad and block each other and you’ll hear him threatening heaven and earth and cursing the girl. Likewise the girl. Next day you’ll see him on phone whining and teasing the same girl. And they been like that since 2016.

godwineli:
you block my line as my woman,you will be sitting on a long thing

stupidity:
you are very right! I have a friend that behaves this way too, he and his girl are like cat and rat. They get mad and block each other and you’ll hear him threatening heaven and earth and cursing the girl. Likewise the girl. Next day you’ll see him on phone whining and teasing the same girl. And they been like that since 2016.

Jollenge77:
Hello guys, let me just go straight to the point.
I had an argument with my girlfriend last week, ok what happened is she said something I didn't like de previous day. She became angry that:
1. I kept it overnight and got angry
2. That I'm always twisting her words.
While we were talking on the phone, my airtime got finished. So called her later with my other line, she kept rejecting the calls. Next thing I knew is she blocked me on whatsapp and Facebook. And we don't live in the same state. I'm just confused now, cos I feel it's rude and wrong to treat someone you love and planning on settling down. Pls I need advice.

Insensitivity.

Unconsciously expecting the man to be all-knowing and bear all kinda rashness just because ure a woman. Expecting to be understood all the time when you don't do same. Expecting him to be answerable to you over all ur needs

Jollenge77:

I know twisting someone's words is wrong, but in her case seems she forget things she says. OK what happened that was I told her of a design I'm to do for new client, all she said is shld not go and over charge the client that that's how I always do. I asked when I've ever done dat b4, are said she's not ready for an argument