Dear uncle, it is extremely relevant that you understand this;
... Sometimes aunty will just pick a fight with you on purpose to get your attention, especially when she's feeling bored; but you will be too angry and too serious over nothing to notice that all she's trying to do is get your attention.
... Most times she'll fake a mood swing and act like something is wrong with her just so you can be caring enough to tear her wall down looking for ways cheer her up and make her happy.
Bae: Babe how are you?
Boo: I am not fine.
Bae: okay. You'll be alright dear.
....... then he starts minding other business.
He doesn't notice the craving in her voice, he doesn't see it in her expressions, he doesn't feel it in her attitude, he just doesn't care to knock on her door and give her the attention she seeks. He soaks it in and care in his hearts, unfortunately assumption is not a love language that everyone speaks.
... Other times she just calls and calls a hundred times within minutes for no reason, even when she knows you're working. But you cannot see the fact that she needs you. You do not understand her love codes, because you are already feeling irritated by her calls.
Every woman has a love code. One or more tricks she uses to get your attention, learn it, understand it, play along with it, and pretend like you don't know what she's trying to do. Don't go getting angry over some attention seeking trick that is supposed to keep your relationship going.

that's why one shouldn't settle for a drama queen

Shaking my head ...OP has spoken like a true blue pill White Knight beta .

No disrespect but my brother you haven't said anything out of the ordinary. I find it weird that a man would even start a thread on this .

Code for attention is provision : they want you to provide something for them .

I don't know you but I hope this doesn't come across as harsh but what exactly are you trying to say here ?