Do men really like independent women? Is it a bug to you when your woman does not ask for your financial support even though you know she is in need but she just tries to keep to herself and bear the burden alone? The woman is not working, still a student or just doing a menial job and still stays with her parents though from an average family.

I have met someone who thinks this only happens when the woman has other man/men she is dating who foot the bills for her. You see a new thing on her, either clothes, shoes, phones etc but you know she didn't ask you for money to get those things and she does not have a job or just doing some petty business, she even makes her hair without asking for money from you.

Do men like this kind of women? Do you feel comfortable dating such a woman?

I don't always wait for her to ask me for money... I know when she needs money and give to her

Most men will be thanking God every night and day, but the real slay kings won't wait for her to ask after all she ain't a beggar nor a love peddler...

Enjoy my siggy

marshalldgreat:
I don't always wait for her to ask me for money... I know when she needs money and give to her

seems you are not dating lagos Bae


Cos they need money evrry time

2dice01:
seems you are not dating lagos Bae


Cos they need money evrry time

No you are talking about when a lady doesn't ask her man for money

A good guy knows when his woman is in need.

If she's my wife, I will somehow feel bad, I might question her faithfulness, because it somehow builds a man's ego to help his wife financially when she's in need, so I won't really be settled.


But if she's one of these hoes disguising and parading as girlfriend. Fvck her, fvck her needs, fvck wherever she's getting money, fvcj anything fvckable about her finacial needs and her independent self.

I just have no reason to bother about the finacial needs of any woman who's not my wife, sisters, mum and daughters.

If she is not working or getting her own money through business, then she is not independent and needs to ask for money. If she is my girl and doesn't ask me for money, I will dump her sorry ass.

some are really happy about It. some start looking deeper into her stuffs and activities btw there are some ladies that even reject when you give them sef

For me shah, any babe that doesn't ask for money all the time, I will cherish and love her. But the day she opens her mouth and ask eeh, I won't hesitate to send it with extra. That's me. I hate ladies taxing and acting as if I owe her anything because I am dating her

marshalldgreat:
I don't always wait for her to ask me for money... I know when she needs money and give to her

Are you new on NL? Or a long time NL member?

ImaIma1:


Are you new on NL? Or a long time NL member?

I have been here for awhile... Why ask?

Larrytrendy:
Do men really like independent women? Is it a bug to you when your woman does not ask for your financial support even though you know she is in need but she just tries to keep to herself and bear the burden alone? The woman is not working, still a student or just doing a menial job and still stays with her parents though from an average family.

I have met someone who thinks this only happens when the woman has other man/men she is dating who foot the bills for her. You see a new thing on her, either clothes, shoes, phones etc but you know she didn't ask you for money to get those things and she does not have a job or just doing some petty business, she even makes her hair without asking for money from you.

Do men like this kind of women? Do you feel comfortable dating such a woman?

Girls that are independent are unique to us and we treat them with respect even if the love is not their.The only reason why men tend to act like an FBI when they see lndependent ladies is because the norm has been altered.
Technically most girls in Nigeria have dependency mentality.I give you sex, you take care of my needs and family

How do I feel? I always tell my self
" BRACE FOR IMPACT "

cos I know it's coming, and when it does...it's coming big

marshalldgreat:
I have been here for awhile... Why ask?

Not the regular NL guy answer. That's why i asked

If she has a source of income, I feel cool. If she hasn't, I feel uncomfortable..

A real man shouldn't wait for his woman to ask him for money.

A real woman shouldn’t depend on her man for money..

ImaIma1:



Not the regular NL guy answer. That's why i asked

Well, guys are different... In as much as a lady doesn't ask doesn't mean one should just relax... At least i should be able to know when she needs to make her hair and also when she needs pocket change... At least it's something...

marshalldgreat:
Well, guys are different... In as much as a lady doesn't ask doesn't mean one should just relax... At least i should be able to know when she needs to make her hair and also when she needs pocket change... At least it's something...

Most guys here would say "Am I her father?"

Good to know you would care about her needs.

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If my partner is stingy, i feel awesome.

Keep ur money, i keep mine.

How will my girl feel if i do not ask her money ? Abi men no like good things too ?