What is a good way to send a lady away so you can get married. There are about three ladies in my life and I want to send them off in order to get married. How can I do it without hurting them? I have tried all I could, but they still keep running after me.

bigmodo:
What is a good way to send a lady away so you can get married. There are about three ladies in my life and I want to send them off in order to get married. How can I do it without hurting them? I have tried all I could, but they still keep running after me.

how did you end you accumulating 3 ladies in the first place?
after eating all the honey in their pots, you now realised they're not marryable abi. ok

Pls which honey in the pot?

The first lady our genotype doesn't match, the second one my parents refused the marriage whilst the third one I don't like her character. But all have refused to go after explaining to them how I feel even after using force.

Let dem catch u cheating

why is this op selfish like this you're just busy thinking about yourself how about them you want to break three hearts at once God is watching you

Just fake your death

bigmodo:
The first lady our genotype doesn't match, the second one my parents refused the marriage whilst the third one I don't like her character. But all have refused to go after explaining to them how I feel even after using force.

for a lady its not that easy leaving someone you once claimed to love out that way without any quarrel biko.the first lady its understandable but the second and third one doesn't really hold water and that why they refused leaving.anyway nah to sit them down and tell them the real truth to avoid them thinking that they are still ur date whereas u have no future plans for them.make them no go swear for you when you go marry another person.