We all know for a fact that all marriages is not always a bed of roses because there are always ups and downs and its the ability to always overcome these ups and downs that keep the marriage afloat.

As an individual speaking for your own self in your own opinion, what's your greatest fear in regards to marriage?

deceit....

THAT MOMENT YOU DISCOVER THAT YOUR CHURCHY GODLY SPOUSE WAS ONLY PACKAGING FOR YOU JUST FOR THE SAKE OF WEDDING BUT HAS NO REAL CONTENT FOR MARRIAGE...
#Horror

tripplephi:
deceit....

THAT MOMENT YOU DISCOVER THAT YOUR CHURCHY GODLY SPOUSE WAS ONLY PACKAGING FOR YOU JUST FOR THE SAKE OF WEDDING BUT HAS NO REAL CONTENT FOR MARRIAGE...
#Horror

Wow

Fear of barrenness.... I can't endure the shame.

Rexnegro:
mine is that continuous annoying doings of stupid things

What do you classify as stupid things?

Freedom. Not yet ready to thread my freedom for anything.


No thoughts of running back home as a responsible husband when I am not yet done hanging out with my folks.

A married friend of mine was almost in tears one evening when the wife called him while we were together.

He said it without mincing words "I regret getting married this early"...

We laughed to tears that evening...

Giving birth in this country.

...

RESTRICTION

Getting tired of my partner, like seeing, sleeping and having sexx with the same person for the rest of my life, thinking about it sometimes gives me anxiety, i pray everyday i never ever feel that way.

Biglittlelois:
Getting tired of my partner, like seeing, sleeping and having sexx with the same person for the rest of my life, thinking about it sometimes gives me anxiety, i pray everyday i never ever feel that way.

Asked married folks, I was told that you never get tired. They said when you sleep, wake with the same person everyday, you'll get used to it, you'll rather miss the person when the person is not around you.
They advised me to try living with an opposite sex for as long as possible, even if it may not be for marriage and that I'll realize I'll miss that person when she is off me.
The feeling of missing is unintentionally incited, according to them.
I think they are right; I did tend to miss my sister when she was not around while we were staying together, irrespective of the disagreement we must have had.
Although our relationship is not a perfect example of what you're implying but I hope it helps drive home my point.

I used to wonder and scared just like you.

Familiarity and sex styles exhaustion... every other pills apart from those two I can swallow...








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Divay22 I'm eyeing you

Offpoint:
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I'm waiting for your fear

Bluezy13:

I'm waiting for your fear

lol, long time my oga... updated

Bluezy13:

I'm waiting for your fear

lol, long time my oga... updated

Bluezy13:

I'm waiting for your fear

lol, updated boss... long time

It shall not be well with Glo
e no go better for Glo
ba zai zama da kyau tare da su Glo
Koni dafun awon Glo
oga abu nke oma na Glo
Idi fonke no mme Glo
Quod non bene Glo
Ce ne sera pas bien avec Glo
Amen

Offpoint:

lol, updated boss... long time

My brother, was about replying you last night before my battery gave me away.

How your side. ??

Bluezy13:

My brother, was about replying you last night before my battery gave me away.
How your side. ??

Area tight, but man pikin dey drag am go... how your wives and children?

Offpoint:

Area tight, but man pikin dey drag am go... how your wives and children?

Them dey inside church.

I dey outside.

How your family??

Bluezy13:

Them dey inside church.
I dey outside.
How your family??

family dey run dia package go...

I'm actually scared of family problems from in-laws when I get married.

Also the wahala of children too

Wife gets lazy and stops working out, becomes overweight, all flabby and shapeless.

The feeling of becoming accountable to someone can be nauseating you know, freedom is paramount.

Lonestar124:
Fear of barrenness.... I can't endure the shame.

Not shame, trauma. It's very traumatic. Someone told my mum how she has spent millions trying to conceive to no avail. She is now battling with depression and high BP because of the pain of not holding her own offspring. I do not wish such even on my worst enemy.

I hold no true fear. These days, I do things because of God, eating even.

Everything you fear in marriage can still happen while single.
I hate being married in Nigeria though.

freedom and deceit

most ladies pretend a lot and can do anything to get married and after you marry them, they bring out their real self.. when I look at most of my married uncles, marriage begins to scare me. Worse of it is when you go into marriage without money, hmm. that woman go frustrate your life and will make your own children disrespect and hate you.. Fake love everywhere... if I can get a white lady, provided she'll settle with me in Nigeria, I don't mind trying.

Getting married to a cheat and a liar.

pryme:
Wife gets lazy and stops working out, becomes overweight, all flabby and shapeless.

My fear too