jumpandpas:
If his in-laws can afford such gifts, why can't they secure an accomodation for them outside the family house.


1. As time progresses in that marriage, your brother will lost all the respects he has both from his wife and the in-laws.


2. He might end up becoming an errand boy to his in-laws.


3. His actions as a man on his wife will be limited.


4. May God help him.

frozen70:
God is blessing someone and you guys want to use family drama to spoil things for him

Pls you people should leave him alone

What will 35,000 salary get for him as married man even if the wife is from a rich home

Do you know that he is going to sacrifice alot to keep that marriage and still be a happy man there after


What ever makes him happy as far as that marriage is concerned, you people must give him the support he needs

Who doesn't like good things?

frozen70:
God is blessing someone and you guys want to use family drama to spoil things for him

Pls you people should leave him alone

What will 35,000 salary get for him as married man even if the wife is from a rich home

Do you know that he is going to sacrifice alot to keep that marriage and still be a happy man there after


What ever makes him happy as far as that marriage is concerned, you people must give him the support he needs

Who doesn't like good things?

Oluromantic:


Would you approve same for your brother?

The familiarity will get so worse dat d wife will see nothing wrong with addressing him anyhow or deprive him of his due honor. And when he brings up a complain, he will firstly be seen as an ingrate who does not appreciate what was given him, then they'll support their daughter's terrible actions especially the mother and sisters-n-law bcus d men might understand except their minds have been poisoned by the women in d house. They will ridicule him to nothing especially with untamed mouth. Where he go hear him matter, him sef go shock.

And if he doesn't go home often, even you(op) and ur parents and other family members would not reckon with him again, because you'l all think its him and his wife alone that have been enjoying their money not knowing he's been suffering ridicule ..this one that you're sounding like a concerned brother now, that will not be d case later.

So if he's wise and doesn't want to lose on both sides, he shd stay in his house or better still, let d father-in-law buy them a duplex somewhere else or just settle him with money so he'll build his house. Its a wife that goes to husband's house not d other way round. For them to even ask u to come live in their compound and their house sef ..bro, they're already selling you off small small. Very soon you won't even be able to make a choice of food in dat house again.

frozen70:
God is blessing someone and you guys want to use family drama to spoil things for him

Pls you people should leave him alone

What will 35,000 salary get for him as married man even if the wife is from a rich home

Do you know that he is going to sacrifice alot to keep that marriage and still be a happy man there after


What ever makes him happy as far as that marriage is concerned, you people must give him the support he needs

Who doesn't like good things?

obonujoker:


Why not get the house outside the family?? things like this doesn't always end well...

frozen70:
God is blessing someone and you guys want to use family drama to spoil things for him

Pls you people should leave him alone

What will 35,000 salary get for him as married man even if the wife is from a rich home

Do you know that he is going to sacrifice alot to keep that marriage and still be a happy man there after


What ever makes him happy as far as that marriage is concerned, you people must give him the support he needs

Who doesn't like good things?

frozen70:


Where you see the money ?

If he can afford to pay for rent, he wouldn't settle for that

If he maintains humbleness to his wife family, he is the one to enjoy

That's what goes with marrying a rich man's daughter

You can't eat your cake and have it

paix:
You're right because you're reasoning like a woman. No reasonable man will accept this. The guy will lose respect even among his male friends and colleagues.

jumpandpas:
If his in-laws can afford such gifts, why can't they secure an accomodation for them outside the family house.


1. As time progresses in that marriage, your brother will lost all the respects he has both from his wife and the in-laws.


2. He might end up becoming an errand boy to his in-laws.


3. His actions as a man on his wife will be limited.


4. May God help him.

frozen70:
God is blessing someone and you guys want to use family drama to spoil things for him

Pls you people should leave him alone

What will 35,000 salary get for him as married man even if the wife is from a rich home

Do you know that he is going to sacrifice alot to keep that marriage and still be a happy man there after


What ever makes him happy as far as that marriage is concerned, you people must give him the support he needs

Who doesn't like good things?

Olalan:
If he wants to be respected he shouldn't live there and truth is the wife's family want to enslave the guy if not they wouldn't do such

kullozone:
In the first place, a guy earning 35k and getting married should be a crime

landmark86:


U make a point too, bro
Tnx

paix:
You're right because you're reasoning like a woman. No reasonable man will accept this. The guy will lose respect even among his male friends and colleagues.

Quality20:
it depends on his type of personality. If he is free easygoing jovial man who care less about trivial unspoken things ,then no probs as he gonna enjoy every moment. Also if d parents and d girl are well up religiously ,morally and ethically, why shouldn't he live with them? But he too should strive to rise up n make more money

landmark86:
A brother of mine got married last week to a daughter of one of the so called rich man in my home town. My brother work with a private organisation were they paid him #35,000 monthly but the wife still in school running a post graduate program.
Yesterday the father to his wife gave him a key to a duplex within their compound for him and his wife to move in and a brand new toyota car has a gift, but my parents oppose him moving into that house.
Please should he reject the offer of accommodation? Cos the family truly like him.

Your advise is needed, thanks.

Oluromantic:


Would you approve same for your brother?

The familiarity will get so worse dat d wife will see nothing wrong with addressing him anyhow or deprive him of his due honor. And when he brings up a complain, he will firstly be seen as an ingrate who does not appreciate what was given him, then they'll support their daughter's terrible actions especially the mother and sisters-n-law bcus d men might understand except their minds have been poisoned by the women in d house. They will ridicule him to nothing with untamed mouth. Where he go hear him matter, him sef go shock.

And if he doesn't go home often, even you(op) and ur parents and other family members would not reckon with him again, because you'l all think its him and his wife alone that have been enjoying their money not knowing he's been suffering ridicule ..this one that you're sounding like a concerned brother now, that will not be d case later.

So if he's wise and doesn't want to lose on both sides, he shd stay in his house or better still, let d father-in-law buy them a duplex somewhere else or just settle him with money so he'll build his house. Its a wife that goes to husband's house not d other way round. For them to even ask u to come live in their compound house sef ..bro, they're already selling you off small small. Very soon you won't even be able to make a choice of food in dat house again.