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Hi Erin,

I (a woman) made the error of sleeping with a colleague (a man).


It was, hands down, the most connected, sexual, intense experience I have had to date, and was struck by the feelings I had for this person which (having had a number of one night stands) normally don't happen. Despite how I felt, I had absolutely no expectations in the aftermath and was resolved to keep my feelings to myself and just work through it, especially as we live and work in different countries!

However, after it happened, for a couple of weeks said colleague sent me a number of messages about how he felt about me and how much he wanted to see me again, and to be honest, because I felt the same, I responded in kind. We had even set a tentative date to see each other again.


Then, he just stopped talking to me............

https://www.worldgistentertainment.com/2018/10/how-do-i-stay-professional-after-one.html

Stupid move