HEY. . . . AM A BIT WORRIED HERE, SO, PLEASE HELP A BROTHER OUT.

THERE IS THIS SISTA I VE BEEN KIND OF SEEING, NOTHING SERIOUS YET, JUST MOVIES, HANGS, CALLS AND ALL THEM PRE-DATING STUFF. I LIKE HER AND THE CHEMISTRY SEEMS PERFECT. WE FLOW PERFECTLY AND UNDERSTANDING EACH OTHER QUITE WELL. MY CONCERN HERE IS, I AM NOT SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO HER. DON'T GET ME WRONG, SHES VERY PRETTY ( VERY - VERY, ACTUALLY). BUT SHE REALLY REALLY FEEL LIKE MY SISTER. ( ALREADY ASKED MY FOLKS IF I HAVE ANY OTHER SISTER THO AND IT RETURNED NEGATIVE. . . )

ON MY PART ITS A BIT WORRISOME CAUSE, WHEN I SEE SOME OTHER ENDOWED SISTERS AM MOVED. ( U KNO, I VE STILL GOT MA PLAYER INSTINCTS. . . ALWAYS HAVE!) BUT WITH HER, WE CAN BE TOGETHER ALL DAY, GISTING, PLAYING AND ALL, AND IT JUST FEELS NORMAL, JUST LIKE WITH MY SISTERS (BLOOD, NOW!)

I KNOW A LOT OF U WILL SAY ITS A GOOD THING, BUT I AM NOT JUST THAT WAY. WITH ME, AM USUALLY SEXUALLY ATTRACTED FIRST BEFORE ANY OTHER THING.

QUESTION

1. HOPE IF WE START A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP, I WOULDN'T BE UNFAITHFUL TO HER?

2. WHAT LOVE WORKS BEST FOR RELATIONSHIPS _{( QUITE SURE IS EROS THOUGH )}

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1. HOPE IF WE START A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP, I WOULDN'T BE UNFAITHFUL TO HER?

of course, you would be unfaithful to her. You've already started harboring the thoughts. It starts in the mind

just make her a friend and look for someone you really are attracted to, if not you're just setting yourself up for failure with her

p.s. and why the thread title "love?" when you guys are just in the dating/infatuation stage?

THE QUESTION IS AS TO WHETHER THIS HOW ITS SUPPOSE TO BE. LOVE , THAT IS? CAUSE I WLD HAVE FELT SAVER IF I WHERE INFATUATED WITH HER.
IN THIS CASE, I GUESS I HAVE JUST PHILIA LOVE FOR HER.

AM SO COMFORTABLE WITH HER, THAT I JUST SEE HER LIKE IN A SISTER SORT OF WAY. @MUDLEY- WHAT HAPPENS TO THE ONE BEING your BEST FRIEND?

@COAL_COAL: NAH. . . DON'T GET ME WRONG, I DO NOT HARBOR ANY SUCH INTENTIONS TO CHEAT. BUT IN CASES WHERE WE ARE TOGETHER AND I SEE ANOTHER PRETTY LADY AND AM TEMPTED TO DISCUSS IT WITH HER LIKE WHEN AM WITH MY BUDDY. U KNO WHAT I MEAN? (FEW CASES I ACTUALLY START, LIKE. . . ."THAT GURLS' GOT IT"