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|Regrets by Mobilia(f): 2:38pm On Nov 02, 2018|
Have you ever regretted anything?
Perhaps a food choice, a wrong clothing choice, a word spoken, a word NOT spoken, a wrong turn etc.
Even stuff such as giving certain people something as delicate as email address and/or phone number too soon.
Trusting too soon and revealing too much about yourself after being asked.
Maybe you emptied yourself (innocently) and too soon only to then be slandered in multiple situations.
Perhaps you have been "baited and baited" numerous times for personal financial information such as bank account info, social security number, debit card number etc.
and preyed upon with malicious and nefarious intent from folks.
But still acknowledged the very folks because of your nature.
Being oneself may have come with a heavy price.
Even God (our Creator) had a moment where He had a regret.
Genesis 6:6 (KJV)
"And it repented the Lord that He had made man on the Earth, and it grieved Him at His heart."
But even if you read the second part of this verse, it shows the compassion of God.
He was ultimately saddened and broken in heart
that His creation had gone so astray.
But you know what?
Although God had that moment, He still fulfilled
His purpose for mankind.
He still ultimately died for mankind (the same ones that He at one time repented for creating),
so that we could one day (if we choose) reunite with Him for eternity.
So although some unfortunate and terrible situations
happened in Jesus' life at times, all in the end turned
out for the ultimate good.
So, in light of Christ' life and examples, perhaps just perhaps, those "fumbles and stumbles" have purposes in your life too.
Let us never forget that "point" in this journey! Be
Romans 8:38 (KJV)
"All we know that all things work together
for the good to them that love God, to them
who are the called according to His purpose."
|Re: Regrets by falcon01: 2:50pm On Nov 02, 2018|
all I know is this is all bullsh*t
|Re: Regrets by LordReed(m): 3:35pm On Nov 02, 2018|
I wish I had had an opportunity to examine religion versus reality when I was younger before the indoctrination took hold.
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|Re: Regrets by Privettoall: 4:18am On Nov 10, 2018|
I decided to open a new account. And I can open 1,000 or even more on nairaland. I know you are aware it is possible. And I opened a new one to explain some issues.
Let me ask a question. Which of the moderators can you verify their identities? So, nairaland is an anonymous forum which is why you must be extra careful. People who put their info here know the risk. Some put their pictures (esp females) to attract people to them. Some other groups put their contacts here for some other reasons. So, this is nairaland. Lol.
You write some things about yourself here which attract some group of people to you. Well, I will not go into details here. A faceless forum is what it is. And the moderators do not want to do anything about it. So, it is what it is. It is your responsibility to know how to attract the right set of people to yourself.
Like other social media platforms, people use facebook also in fraudulent manners. Facebook was used in the last US election for numerous criminal offences. There is the case of Trump's campaign office employing the service of a British firm which used facebook users contacts illegally to influence the last election. So, scams and criminal actibities are all over the world.
Almost everyone has been a victim. Well, I have spoken to you before, so I understand. I did not also open up to you 100% because I was trying to be careful.
There are ways to go about it. The issue of baiting one is not an issue. No one can bait you if you do not allow it. Many times, we take it too far.
Trust is still the KEY. From my conversation with you, I observe you show it that everyone is a potential scam. This might be the reason you had many terrible experiences. But with what I saw recently, I observed that it comes out of you unconsciously to doubt people, and not deliberately. Your default mode seems to be "doubt". You must try to correct it.
There are still many wonderful people on faceless platforms. You are one of the wonderful people.
I opened this new account to say again that I can open 1,001 more accounts. If I am petmitted to say this: try not to write articles from a sincere heart on faceless forums. It is not worth it.
You are a wonderful person. I am not flattering you. If you allow me, and you do not mind, I can write 10 excellent points that made me to say you are a wonderful person.
|Re: Regrets by Backfornow: 10:45pm On Nov 11, 2018|
I have had many regrets, some painful, others not so much. But, in each case I learned a lesson and was able to grow in some way as a person. So in that sense, is it really a regret, If something good came out of it? Good reflective topic.
|Re: Regrets by Privettoall: 4:03am On Nov 12, 2018|
Why did you modify your first post? Your initial post was personalized. You wrote that you gave out your numbers and emails too soon. And something like a part of you regretted knowing about nairaland.
You are a wonderful person. Just be yourself. No need to hide your feelings.
|Re: Regrets by Mobilia(f): 2:47pm On Nov 13, 2018|
Thanks for all of the contributions to this thread.
|Re: Regrets by nwanneni(m): 3:58pm On Nov 13, 2018|
Privettoall:carry your asslicking elsewhere!
|Re: Regrets by Privettoall: 2:00am On Nov 15, 2018|
The ONLY way to understand a group of people is living with them for a period of time. Reading news/articles or talking to a very small fraction is misleading. Only I understand why I am doing this. And the "asslicking" guy above does not understand it. And it is why I am going to avoid him. This lady has a strong passion for this nation. She truly wants to know more, and associate with Nigerians. It is a dream for her.
My sincere advice is that you visit via your family. Thenafter, you may meet or talk to other people. This is the only way. Trying to do it with a friend via this medium is not recommended. My second advice is to stick to public posts communication with most people. Do not just talk to everyone privately.
If you can, you may start a thread with questions, comments, or you may want to learn about some things, or share experiences you have had, or you want someone to explain why the case was like that. Definitely, I will join the thread if you mention me, and I am sure more genuine people will contribute to it. And you will learn more. Others like you can learn too.
Best of luck.
|Re: Regrets by Julivas(m): 2:09pm On Nov 23, 2018|
Sorry about what you might gone through sis. Trust in God and all will be well.
|Re: Regrets by Privettoall: 3:58pm On Nov 30, 2018|
I wanted to ignore your message, but after a deep thought, i think it is time for what you asked for. But it will be done in a way you certainly do not expect.
Mobilia:Sorry for bringing you back here. Let's do it here. It is not derailing. It has to do with your write up.
Quite interesting! You are sure someone else is not a christian, and you are certain you are.
Now, I would be foolish to think that every single Nairalander is corrupt.You will carry out the research publicly intelligently now and see the outcome. I am ready to go through it.
The multiple account created was a process to prove something. It is what you still cannot understand. You will understand better. And I will get to that later.
For now. I will stop here so as not to derail this. But I will open a new conversation and make everything publicly. Remember you said that you address things publicly. Now, I will throw everything open.
Mobilia, remember you said you do not even know how to apologize if all is not the way you think it is. First, I will put out a background story of how we met. Second, will talk about everything (the good, bad, beautiful, and ugly). Feel free to mention anything, i will never deny anything. I will personally mention the moniker you know me with and let all your so called religious group readers know me. I do not mind adding links.
Like I said, I will not leave any part untouched. Some moderators will be mentioned, especially that one you know well about.
Finally, it is time to deal with all monikers involved. I will first call out that moniker you said is mine. I will write out the similarities you talked about. I will point to slanders from my side and yours. Then, if that moniker is not me, i am sure you have apologies to make. Then, will mention the "cartel". If they all do not know me, or i do not have anything in common with them, you have apologies to make. And then, that intelligent man too that you inisisted is me. I think the monikers are up to 10. It is time to open up this issue publicly. I have been so quiet. You just make crazy assumptions.
The mistake I made was to go to a thread innocently, and it was a bloody mistake to talk privately with you which was one of the greatest mistakes of my life. And I paid so much for it (business wise). I told you about it but you deliberately intentionally left the damage there. I will talk about it too.
If it warrants me to show the real me, I will do it because I have an integrity to protect. The way people know you is how they know me. Since the day you wrote that nasty stuff, like 20 people called my attention to it. And they still want me to correct it.
And lastly you abuse indirectly people who do not have your "americanized" style of talking. Just imagine your last statement. And you want these set of people to accept you. Keep mocking our accent.
Perhaps you do not want certain areas to be discussed publicly, my kind of person will respect your wish if it is not that important. So, you may wish to contact me privately on that before I start.
I do not have the intention of slandering, opening a public thread to discuss private stuff, but it is necessary since you are a pro in making threads which destroy. And when one tries to tell you, that is when you stubbornly continue. Though, this is a faceless forum, but some people still know one another.
That moniker I use daily and well known which you said belongs to me will be mentioned. Ha! The owner will hear the things you said. This is the only way to show you that it is not mine. I wonder how you will apologize to the dude. Well, since you are sure it is me who is the owner, you have nothing to fear. Right?
Afterall, i will prove that this one is the only moniker with me now, and quit this faceless forum permanently which I wanted to do a long time, but people keep telling me to address your issue. It is time to do it.
Hopefully, this night or tomorrow, I will call out all the monikers and let the so called members of the cartel (all monikers in the cartel) speak here.
Note: Sure, no contact or personal information or personal stuff will be there.
|Re: Regrets by Mobilia(f): 6:39pm On Nov 30, 2018|
Sir...I don't understand why this is continuing?
What is your problem with me? Why are you continuing to "beat a dead horse"? Digging up a dead situation? Why?
When I addressed you a few weeks back, I had no ill will towards you at all. None...
The only thing I will correct you on (that you wrote here) is the part about "doing research before taking on a project/venture".
I was replying to your comment about the only way to actually experience Nigeria..other than physically being there.
You said that I could only experience Nigeria by going there.
I was saying that my being on N.L. is the way that I am living right now. Researching the country by means of reading articles here and conversing with folks is an intelligent way until I arrive in Nigeria.
The "venture/project" is visiting Nigeria...which I have been talking about for almost 2 years now on N.L.
I erased that part (of my post)..but that was what I meant..and you knew that.
I did say that you are not a Christian...and there are a few reasons for that. If you are a Christian, then I apologize. Your actions towards me said otherwise on numerous occasions..so I deduced that.
YOU want to fight, but I am NOT gonna publicly FIGHT you sir...nor will I engage in any further communication on this situation regarding us. I have "0" energy to argue with you anymore about anything. Please enjoy your life.
However, please do as you wish here..
Call me names, slander me, and the rest. Mention monikers and all. The one thing I have always been (on N.L.)is honest about my flaws. I have made some mistakes and apologized when I could have approached some situations in a different way).
I have never, ever pledged perfection on here.
However, will NOT be afraid of "what a man can say about me".
I have not spoken with you by phone (since Sept. 6) which is almost 3 months now...and you know exactly why. Tell the truth and "shame the devil" for once.
I have NOT contacted you in any way, sir, at all since early Sept..
Not once..(but you certainly have contacted me several, several times). I have moved on with my life..and have no "ill-will" towards you anymore. You and I both know the complete truth....
I could easily pull out a whole bunch of "receipts" on what you did....but it would be crass and embarrassing for you.
As much as my flesh wants to, I will not do it.
I will respect you enough as a man NOT to embarrass you.
Yet the character assaination has begun on me.
Spiritual warfare at its finest....
It's like the Lord is saying to me, "Ngozi... just be quiet and stand still. Let him speak his peace." "Let him say any and all that he wants. I am with you."
Really sir, standing with God is all that I need.
You want an audience. I do not need one.
However, I stand on every word that I have written here...and since the beginning of my time on N.L.
I am at peace.
Yet it keeps bothering you tremendously.
I brought you over to the "Foreigners joint" as I did a few others here...to discuss..without further derailing this my post. Why you won't go back there is quite baffling to me? You can mention all the people you want to over there..including folks over here in the Religion section.
This is about you needing to prove something to someone.
However, I have no bone to pick with you sir. Yes, I am a Black American/Igbo and have never acted mightier than anyone on N.L.
Address what you'd like, but I will NOT be afraid.
Gather up an army of supporters.
Sir I repeat: Do as you wish. But you will do it alone. I will neither reply nor respond to anything pertaining to "you and me" any further.
I have nothing to prove...but it seems like you do.
I know lies will come forth...to make me look bad.
If they lied on Jesus....who was SINLESS...then who am I? A sinful woman saved by GRACE.
God knows the full and complete truth (regarding you and me).....and I 1000 percent care what only HE thinks about me.
Whether you choose to believe it or not, God is writing down everything that is being and will be said. I deeply care about that.
Now I've said enough. I'm done.
Be blessed sir...I pray the best for you
P.S. Once again folks, I'm sorry for the derailing.
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|Re: Regrets by Privettoall: 7:52pm On Nov 30, 2018|
You are not derailing anything.
Just like you know, I am an extreme private person. And I was the one who has really refused to address the issue publicly. But if you are sure that those monikers are related to me like how you almost swore you are 100% sure, why do you think lies will be there. You are shaking already. How could you just wake up, searched a moniker and found similarities, and that's me.
I even advised you to stop using your.private info here. And it was my advice you took when you stopped posting your pictures.
See, you think scammers are those who keep their private info. And you used to post your personal pictures as your profile pictures. I advised you against it. You argued many times. To me those who put pictures here do it intentionally to attract certain people. What do you expect? You keep posting here you are ibo/american. You know it attracts some people to you. So, why continue doing it? Anyway, i believe you know the consequences, but you continue doing it anyway. You even post your name in some posts. On a faceless forum when mods here are faceless without no pictures and real names. Lol.
See, I will accept all the errors I made. Why? Because i wanted to just be a friend. It was the error I made. And see, when i start, all the guys you have rough handled will be bold to speak. You will be amazed the number of comments that will be on the thread. Just because you think being an American makes everyone here a beggar. Before one says a word, it is your money and green card he is looking for. While talking with you as soon as I heard the name of a man you rough handled, I told you it means he was born abroad. And most likely he has dual citizenship. But that fellow was so matured that he never told you he was born abroad. And you already felt he was after green card. Lol. I do not mind posting stamps of places on my passport here (those ones I was forced to share). Do you even ever think that the way you test and investigate people, they too do not test your character? The difference is that you are quick to judge.
I can confidently tell you again. You have lost good people here on NL. You do not have a sound online communication skill. So, I will repeat myself again, bring your "ass" to Naija. If you desire to meet good people, come down to Nigeria. This advice is only for you.
I do not want to go public and start calling monikers to ask them if i am their leader of a cartel, or i am the owner of their monikers, etc. Really, I do not want to. All I need is an apology so that the people who have been calling me can know that I am still who they know me to be. If not, I will exonerate myself.
If you say there are lies coming, wait...you are not the judge. The readers are the judge. Let them read. Like you always say, Nigerians are intelligent. So, let them judge it. Or will I fabricate lies about the white person and the other black girl? Or will I fabricate lies about the one you neatly talked to publicly to exonerate yourself while I just decided to stay silent.
I do not mind writing everything i told you. And why i told you. Then, i will write the process you took. And why I stayed silent. But you know me well. Don't you? I will write all out accutately without missing anything.
Didn't you say you have strong proofs I am the head of a cartel? I will list all my members and they will come out to say that I am their leader. And you will supply the proof that I am their leader.
Your house phone was bombarded with calls from nowhere. And you woke up to start shouting I was distributing your house number that I didnt have. I will write about the constant changing of your mobile numbers and emails. How many emails have you changed? How many numbers have you used? But till date my number and email remain same.
Do not portray us as bad people. You understand what you are looking for on NL. Ok?
Well, two things I require and I will stop.
1. An apology here.
2. You will sort out an issue privately which I will never bring up here no matter how provoked I am.
After these two, I will not even ask you to leave my life, I will be the one who will flee. Let me know if you are ready. If not, lét the show begins very soon.
Why will i not stop? You wrote something terrible in that September and it affected me badly. That is the only reason I have tried talking to you. You made yourself a mini god, and i am still suffering it in silence. Yet, i still use style to address you respectfuly. Yet, you always claim the daughter of God syndrome.
Listen, I have never had any friend on NL. I do not believe in it. And after this, I will flee from anything NL. If you are ready to apologize publicly and also solve the other issue privately, let me know. If not, i will exonerate myself, and get my reputation in the right place back. See, no matter all my errors and mistakes which I will admit, I will still exonerate myself. So, do not ever think that any threat of my errors will stop me. Before you even say any, I will start downloading all my errors myself because I want to stop you.
Ha!.that thread will make almost all the people you said are scamers talk.
Let us leave God in His place in heaven. He has given us the brain to judge. We have tools we can use to know who is not saying the truth.
Over to you ma. Pull out all the receipts to embarrass me. It is fine. I am willing to take the bullets. I will not pull out any receipt but it is the power of words and effective writing that Ì will use. I am a man of my words. All you shared, I will never bring out publicly. But go ahead and do it. This is what you use to threaten others. But little did you know that I have protections. Do you think I am a stupid person. So, gather the receipts and post them.
When you slander one, it is the truth; but when someone else says something, it is never the truth but slander.
If you need private means to solve this issue, I am still very much ready. But if you insist you are the one who is right, the show will start soon.
Are you willing to make the apology and do what I ask you privately? Or I shoot on?
|Re: Regrets by Privettoall: 10:58pm On Nov 30, 2018|
Please, kindly not give my contact to anyone again if you did (not accusing you, but just saying they are strange calls). Since I decided to treat this issue, I have received some calls. Please, no matter what happened, I do not share contacts. I am not invisible. I am 100% sure all your numbers are presently not working as you are ready to disappear or make yourself not reachable. How can you change your emails about 5 times in just 2 months. That baffles me till date. And how you register telephone numbers with different names, I do not get it. Well, these are the reasons I became so suspicious of you. Genuine people do not change numbers anyhow. You deliberately register fake numbers (even in the US). How you change numbers easily like a scammer is an issue I still do not understand well, yet you sound like a clean person. At the end of the day, if you not who you say you are; honestly, I am going to really raise my cap for you.
You know what you are doing. My opinion is that you have a motive which is not good.
My advice to everyone is to stay clear of this person. There is a sort of deep bitterness, a strong anger, volatile character operating. All refurblished into a well packaged decent religious person.
I will never be a friend again. Never and never. You have been blacklisted from my life. I do not work with a bittered person. All numbers calling are already blocked.
I am a patient person. It may take me few days to compile all I want to say. So, you have enough time to embarass me with the receipts you talked about. I may not open another thread, and just shoot on with this thread of yours at the right time.
|Re: Regrets by Julivas(m): 2:31am On Dec 01, 2018|
Privettoall:Both of you are matured nah, please resolve this amicably between yourselves privately. Thanks.
|Re: Regrets by Privettoall: 7:04am On Dec 01, 2018|
My first impulse wants to pour my heart out, but I have been restraining myself. She sounded like a wonderful person, and I do not still have anything against her. I have used every method I know to make her see reasons why she has to calm down and listen. Even till now, I know she has been messed up really. But her approach is so faulty. Yet, she does some things in ways that I cannot explain. The next thing is that she is holy, and God is looking at us.
Well, I am still opened to resolve everything privately. And as soon as we both find a way to correct certain things (which are very simple things to do), I am the one who will flee.
There are scammers, but she needs to know the right approach to handle them. If you can read her past posts, there are signals of what I am saying. Like a long break in communicating some people (meaning she gave such false emails or numbers and deleted them, but she expects others to give her real contacts. And will even ask for addition numbers since she is aware most carry more than one phone. And any slight error, she has concluded the person is trying to scam her. Mainwhile she has learned terrible methods from scammers or maybe one herself. When one gives her evidence of some of her pranks, she wants to know the method one used. Why? To know how to cover her tracks? But I have told her, the best way is to be neutral and keep her identity to herself instead of writing everywhere she is american bla bla bla. Why will boys not try to test and use her. She knows what she is doing). She met me who has one number and she is skeptical till date how possible to have just one number in Nigeria), and many other things. So, I am beginning to think she may be involved in scamming people herself. But I am yet to confirm. What I cannot confirm, I cannot say.
But really, if you talk to this lady, she is a wonderful person to have conversation with cos she is vast in many areas, and very intelligent.
Her stubborness has no part 2 as her part 1 is unending. Lol. It is after she sees the negative consequence she stops her method. She will say this is slander. Well, I have deliberately hit her with posts but in non confronting ways which I know went down well, and pained her. She understands who she is dealing with.
She knows I am a private person. I run away from public confrontation. She is aware. In fact, she has threatened many times to use public approach in some issues. And I have vowed never to bring anyone down on forums like this (she knows this). She understands my skill of usings words. I am not new to her. She has asked me to teach her some things, but I deliberately tested her. Since I know she is not matured enough to handle such, I ignored teaching her. She is not aware why I refused to, and till date she is angry with me for not teaching her.
A friendship which is based on thorough researching the genuity of others will crash fast. Especially, when direct confrontation and threats is the method used. No one is saying one should not carry out any research, but when it is done in awkward way, it is terrible. When done with assumptions, it destroys relationships. It is why this kind of person should quit using such means permanently since she is unskillful in using them
Mind you, if any comes out to make comment she does not like, she says it was arranged. Even she can say I arranged for you to keep the conversation going on here. Lol. Lwt me tell you another strange thing. She sees someone online at the same time I am, and she starts looking for similarities with us. And I delieberately teated her with some things along that issue, and her reaction was just terrible as expected. So, i am not interested in any friendship with such person anymore..
Yes, I have hit her with words cos it seems that is the language one needs to use to make her listen when she is angry.
I am not trying to be her friend again as she portrayed in one of her responses, but let her just correct the nasty things she did. It can be done privately, but she made herself unreachable. The ball is in her court. Who wants to be a friend of a high tempered person who has unconsciously made one become harsh during conversations? I have no interest in such poisonous friendship anymore.
I am still willing to solve everything privately and will wait for her to do the right thing. She knows how to reach me, even with one of her numerous numbers or multiple email addresses. My digits are still unchanged unlike hers. Lol
|Re: Regrets by LordReed(m): 7:11am On Dec 01, 2018|
I almost thought Privettoall was trying to toast Mobilia by all means but as e bi, water don pass garri for this their matter.
Whatever it is, you guys need to move off public channels and resolve your business offline. These are public records that could be used against you in the future.
|Re: Regrets by frank317: 7:19am On Dec 01, 2018|
What nonsense is this... Both of u, get a room and get laid asap
|Re: Regrets by Privettoall: 7:26am On Dec 01, 2018|
There is no need to hide behind any veil sir. Her intelligence prompted me to actually make moves and she accepted, but with no rush approach. I am a plain person. But actually, I pushed her off with a nasty approach from the initial stage (very nasty from a christian angle, but she never realised it was a test), but how she handled the case made me to think "she be better person"
I am aware of the consequence but there is something she must do. She has a clue, but stubbornly did not.
|Re: Regrets by Privettoall: 7:28am On Dec 01, 2018|
I am going to stop here. But it is not everything that is sex. At times, silence is better. She is not a wayward person if you want to know. Perhaps you have spoken to her and one of the people who poisoned her mind. If you have nothing good to say, get out of here. Thanks!
|Re: Regrets by LordReed(m): 9:35am On Dec 01, 2018|
Well sex seems to be a good resolution of the angst you seem to be expressing here. Maybe a good shag will let you both get over the humps you are having. LMFAO!
|Re: Regrets by frank317: 9:38am On Dec 01, 2018|
U are here trying to lick an unknown girl's ass online and u say its not about sex? Try telling me u weren't attracted to her? Now things didn't work out as planned u are trying to form Mr nice guy, why did u get her number and why are u calling her? Don't give me that u wanna be friends crap... Guy move on, ur plan no work... Stop opening ur own ass on public forum
|Re: Regrets by Privettoall: 10:24am On Dec 01, 2018|
Like I have written, it is not what you are saying. It is deeper. And just shut up and do not look stupid at the end of the day. If she says sex is there, then, we will cross the bridge at the time. If she says money is involved, we will cross it. If she says fraud is there, we will cross it. She will be the one who will bring out the so called "receipts". So, you think i am a fool who opens everything to people online like that? There is absolutely nothing to fear about what some people will use against anyone in any future. If you have licked the whatever of what you are saying, that is your cup of tea. I understand what i want her to correct. Do me a favor, just pretend to be wise by shutting your mouth, or by holding your hands from typing stupidity here. She is a wise person (that I am sure of and she knows I am not a wicked person to bring out stupidity here), and I am sure all will be settled. If you are not wise enough to read where I wrote that there is a damage she has done, and all she needs to do is correct it. What else do you not get? Please, get out of here if you are wise enough to wait till things unravel itself. Or maybe you know about the issue, and you are one of those trying my number with anonymous calls yesterday.
All that is needed is to correct the damage which I will not discuss here cos of the sensitivity of the issue. If she then presses the sensitivity, I always have my ways to report any story in a protective way. She understands it herself. But I am ready to shoot on with the monikers stuff first. Perhaps will stop there. Maybe. So if you still cannot add one plus one, do me a favor, get out of here.
So Frank, what I am saying is that there is a damage she must address. As soon as she does it, I have no interest in the issue anymore. If you are interested in it, be rest assure I will not say what will make her run away from NL excepts she has terrible things in her plans. So, you can still hustle out licking whatever is in your head. But let me tell you again, she is not that kind of person. You will only embarrass yourself if it is in your plan.
Please, do not put sand in this issue. She is taking her time. And she should have it. My interest is that she addresses the damage she has caused. To her, she does not see it as a damage, but it has affected me terribly. And can be done quietly if she is wise. Best of luck.
|Re: Regrets by Julivas(m): 11:38am On Dec 01, 2018|
Well composed bro.
What I can deduce so far between both of you is that there is difference in culture and setting, reason why she can understand the reason why one can have more than one sim in Nigeria. Also, she might have encountered some scammers on this forum which may be the reason for being skeptical sometimes.
However, having said that, you are the man here, please let the matter be settled amicably between both of you.
|Re: Regrets by frank317: 2:01pm On Dec 01, 2018|
Sigh... U lost her bro despite all the ass licking statement in ur long lost...sorry
|Re: Regrets by Evangkatsoulis: 3:57pm On Dec 01, 2018|
Na MsNgo40 be dis?
|Re: Regrets by Privettoall: 3:58pm On Dec 01, 2018|
Brother, you get this issue perfectly. Yeah, I have restrained myself from using extreme measures. All these issues wouldn't come out if she did not do what she did. I am just interested in that correction she must make. But if it warrants me to use extreme measures before she corrects it, I will. The issues of cultural difference are over as far as Ì am concerned. But I have my doubts.
|Re: Regrets by Privettoall: 4:17pm On Dec 01, 2018|
It is wise to reply you for others to really understand the issue. You do not deserve a reply, but just to make everything straight, I will make further explanations.
Now that you know. You can keep her. Everything in your brain is relationship. Guy, she wrote something in coded language which people who know me (business relationship) have cut off ties with me. I checked and saw that she has ammended it, but not satisfactory. She must follow what I need her do cos that is what I promised some of my contacts in order to re- establish our business relationship again. I told her that it was going to affect me, but she stubbornly ignored me. She feels that is the right way to handle it. And this habit is not peculiar to her alone, but to most north americans. When they strongly think they are right, they do not consider the other side of the story and they just take drastic actions without thinking, especially when they think the measure will put the other party to silence. This is why I pity those who really do not know how to handle them. On this issue, I swear with my last breath that she will correct it. After the correction, she is all yours bro. I will put mentioning of monikers on hold just to give the benefits of doubts that she will solve this issue. And if done quietly, all will be well. But if she starts defending herself and she metions any moniker or any of the "receipts", she will hear it. No one steps on the tail of the lion and go free. If you know her, tell her to kindly solve it fast and peacefully. The other option is that she can delete this moniker and pick a new one if she is afraid of anything.
I have been so lenient. Let us see what she does next.
|Re: Regrets by Mobilia(f): 6:48pm On Dec 01, 2018|
I am....it's my former moniker...and was no secret.
I stated that on 2 threads here in the Religion section a few months back.
I think I also stated it on a thread in the Travel section.
I think I've had 5-6 different monikers since I joined N.L. in December 2016.
|Re: Regrets by Mobilia(f): 6:49pm On Dec 01, 2018|
|Re: Regrets by Privettoall: 7:21pm On Dec 01, 2018|
I am not fighting you publicly. You know the last discussion we had, and my last request I made. Pls, kindly get in touch so I let you know what to do. It has affected me. I am not interested in your past monikers, and like I have told you, try to write with protection on faceless forums like this. Mentioning your real names, info about you is not the right way to go about it. Even we do not know the real names of the mods. It is the culture of this site.
Anyway, you gave me no other choice but this option. All ways to reach you are dead. You blocked all. And I will not discuss the issue here. You know what to do. If you are the christian you claim to be, kindly follow the road to a peaceful end. You want the episode to roll away fast, please just do the right thing. What I request is that you delete some things. Very simple. When we are still in good terms, you read through some posts and gave me advices to modify somethings. There are some you jokingly pointed me to, and vice versa. And there are those you were firm on that may not be good. And despite my stand they were fine, you took your stand that such must be corrected. I listened to you, and vice versa.
This is not different. Just delete what should be deleted and it is all over. But if you insist you will not delete them, it means you are ready to destroy. It does not matter if you understand how they affect me, or not. The simple way out is simple. If you fail to listen, it means you are ready for a public display which I wil give you decently, respectfully, and nicely. Let us leave God in His place in heaven.
I am not interested in whatever you have in mind. All I need is to re-estabish my business relationship with those who decoded your nasty message.
After this, I am out of the equation. With this public exchange of words, it is hard to even have any private talk with you again. I am going to flee. If this is what you want, please do the needful. And stop making us go about what is not so hard to resolve. Except you have a hidden agenda. And your deliberate stubbornless will nullify all your claims. Show us you are the christian you claim to be by following the simple peaceful end of this episode.
|Re: Regrets by Mobilia(f): 8:11pm On Dec 01, 2018|
Isaiah 53:7 (KJV)
"He was oppressed, and he was afflicted,
yet he opened NOT his mouth: he is brought as a lamb to the slaughter, and as a sheep before her shearers is dumb, so he opened NOT his mouth."
Proverbs 6:16-18 (KJV)
16 "These six things doth the Lord hate: yea, seven are an abomination unto him:"
17 "A proud look, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood..."
18 "A heart that deviseth wicked imaginations, feet that be swift in running to mischief."
Isaiah 54:17 (KJV)
"No weapon that is formed against thee shall prosper; and every tongue that shall rise against thee in judgment, thou shalt condemn.
This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord and their righteousness is of me, says the Lord."
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