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|Re: Regrets by Julivas(m): 8:18pm On Dec 01, 2018|
I hope both of you can let this issue be over now.
|Re: Regrets by Privettoall: 1:28am On Dec 02, 2018|
She should correct the damage done and she refuses, but she is quoting bible verses. Just a single act and peace reigns. I think she knows what she is doing. For good 3 months she left defaming coded comments there which have affected me negatively. And she is quoting Jesus and the Bible. I am not interested in religious stuff now. All I need is what she should do.
This is why Africans run away from them and they say we are heartless. Just a simple act, look at the time, effort, she has used to defend her demonic action. Just simple stuff, they head to the police. Before you open your eyes, they have called immigration officers to harrass you. When things are good, they press you to share private info. And then use it later to destroy. They will be destroying you, yet making references to the scriptures. She has peace with defaming one, but she is calling the Lord to fight those who slander her. I am not just interested in religion now.
She thinks this will be the usual online fights. I have thought well in advance what to do. Before i replied her, i took my time to see how to tackle it. And when she receives the first shock, I will stay silent for over a year. She will run everywhere to get my attention but I will quote even the laws of Moses. They think they know all. She is an online broadcaster she is american bla bla bluff bluff. She is a christian indeed.
One question: if she was Jesus, would Jesus not prefer the peaceful way to end it? She has peace with destroying one.
She has forgotten that "vengeance is the Lord's". "The wages of sin is death". My point: God also strikes back, but He gives cautions before doing so. So, dealing ruthlessly with this kind of stony hearted individual may be necessary after series of private ways of contacting her that she blocked, and this public way as she remains adamant. Maybê she feels it is ending online. When she sees it life at her door step, it is when she realises it is dangerous to mess around with some people.
Before you deal with this kind of person, just be extra careful. She cannot bring the "receipts" out cos she knows I will dock her. And she knows me well that I will never release any private info online, but will definitely get to her. Did I not have my way making her aware of what exactly is going on now? Even people reading can deduce that things are not like how she had been claiming. If she is wise, she will choose the peaceful way. You can imagine if I have not protected myself when the good was good, this kind of person would have released everything just to shut me up. It is good to be smart. She did everything to make me release documents and vital info, but I was smart about it. She resulted to using psychology on me. Lol. I went along. When she realised this person is not a "mumu", she did what she did. I can imagine the damage this person would have caused if she had had a pin to nail me. Thank God for wisdom.
|Re: Regrets by Mobilia(f): 2:07am On Dec 02, 2018|
|Re: Regrets by Mobilia(f): 2:20am On Dec 02, 2018|
Now a threat to kill me...just as he warned me some months back...if I "got out of line".
You really meant it.
I am now officially scared for my life.
|Re: Regrets by Privettoall: 2:42am On Dec 02, 2018|
You are a christian, God is in this conversation. Stop telling lies. And if anyone is pushing you, please stop him/her. It is my business you attacked and not my life. It is your business, your reputation that I will hit back. Do not cover up with this silly lie. Come on! This is cheap. Kill you when we are thousands of miles away from each other?
You have lost my friendship. This is the truth, and a fact you should accept. It looks like I am holding on to you. But in reality, it is vice versa. You are holding on to me. I have expressed myself clearly, do the right thing and you know I will never disturb you again. I do not enjoy this way of talking to you. In fact, I want it over fast with further public display. I want you gone as fast as possible. Please ma, stop holding on to what is not there. Do the right thing, and I am out for real.
|Re: Regrets by Privettoall: 7:25am On Dec 02, 2018|
Thanks to the few people who reached out to me. Most are saying I should not open the details which I am reluctant to do too. And it is clear that neither of us wants to display stupidity publicly. She has tried to correct the damage, but not satisfactory enough. She needs to get in touch, and I will tell her how to do it. If she needs clarification, I will do it like a gentleman.
My own idea is that if she says she has moved on, why not just do what is needed to make me not try contacting her again? But having that in place means she is not yet ready to move on. Why holding on? Or she derives pleasure in harming another person codedly and silently. Your style of investigation is wrong. You do not threaten people you want to trust, and you want them trust you with FBI, CIA, or any law enforcement agent. Trust is trust. Even you think there are issues not clear, you need real patience and not deliberately harm one so as to force the person to say what you want to hear.
Mobilia, just think this well again. What if truly you were wrong? What if truly I knew nothing about all you think? What if truly you get to know you acted too harsh? You know you did not just leave, but you left a real damage. Will you return to say you are imperfect? Do you think an apology can over rule the damage you have caused? Even in imperfection, there is a role common sense plays. Well, all I am going to remind you again. You will not even be able to know where to start your apology. You know how much damage you have caused.
Again and finally, I am asking you to have a rethink. All I want is the correction made now, and I leave the scene permanently.
My last comment here. I will not post here again. I have a strong plan which will unravel everything. It will take some effort. But I am going to suggest again that you make yourself available so as to iron it out privately.
Good luck to you!
|Re: Regrets by Mobilia1(f): 12:15pm On Dec 02, 2018|
I created this moniker only to re-type a reply to you.
I have been trying desperately to keep quiet and not reply you, BUT my hand has been forced.
I had written a very LENGTHY and DETAILED post detailing everything you accused me of..which interestingly enough received a "ban" (for no reason at all) until tomorrow.
All that I had written had been thrown away.
Every detailed line.
Apparently there is a concerted effort by a few people here to 'hush" me and NOT allow the truth out.
This is Nigeria I'm seeing now.
I would appreciate my original reply to this guy to be reinstated.
I now have to address (2) issues very briefly.
1). My post on "Regrets"
2). Accusations against me destroying your business.
The post on "Regrets" was written in response to (2) situations involving nefarious and ill-intent towards me.
You sir requested the following financial information of me: Social security number, Debit Card Number, Credit Card Number, Bank Account Info etc.
To steal someone's identity and wipe out all of his/her money in the U.S. is a capital offense.
I then blocked every means of access to me...my cell number, Whatsapp, Telegram and my email ADDRESS.
At this moment, I have 1 working number..and that is all that I have.
I am accessible to one person on here right now.
2). Regarding your "business":
Sir I asked you for information on an important industry there in Nigeria in preparation for my visit there.
All of the info should be recorded here on N.L. or a cloud/database.
I met you on a thread back in April, checked your profile and asked you a question on your thread.
You reached out to me after that..although I was suppose to reach out to you privately.
I have NEVER, EVER spoken negatively about your "business" to anyone at anytime or in any way, shape or form.
Any info that you feel I wrote to damage you please write it here.
Anything at all.
I'm also asking any people who feel I have wronged you personally (in this matter)to come forth.
I am speaking now unfortunately because I have been threatened with murder.
In the U.S., if a man tells you that he is gonna murder you, then he means it.
Many women got murdered cause they didn't take the man's threat seriously and be pro-active on getting protection.
I have not wanted to talk to Privettoall (privately) because I am terrified of his voice when he is angry. He has verbally abused me through the phone...which I've told him.
I thought that I had made it clear that I didn't want to talk to him AT ALL anymore about anything....but that I CERTAINLY WOULDN'T DO IT PUBLICLY.
The threats, abuse and slander are enough.
This may be how you folks do it in Nigeria, but thus isn't how things are done in the U.S.
I have "receipts" on the harassment, stalking, and threats.
I will go to the proper authorities (on my end) about this because this has gone too far.
Now this is dealing with the law.
Slander and libel are no jokes.
Threatening to kill me is serious business.
I do not take a threat such as this lightly.
I do not bother folks here on this website. I am very vocal and may comment about things that make people uncomfortable, but I do not threaten nor attempt to destroy people's livelihoods.
I have been the target of criminal threat and plan to fight this legally now.
I know that there is only a certain amount of legal jurisdiction that the U.S. has when dealing with a foreign country and I am aware of just the amount.
Mr. Seun Osewa,
I am notifying you as the owner of this forum.
My life is in danger.
This man was allowed to write that he will show up at my door in the U.S. and hurt me.
If possible, I am asking for all the info I have ever posted on this site which would incriminate me as being a "destroyer of his business".
All records of everything I have ever written since joining this site on December4, 2016, should be electronically stamped in a memory bank.
I am asking for an investigation into this matter.
|Re: Regrets by Privettoall: 1:26pm On Dec 02, 2018|
On a Sunday with these lies. I did not want to reply but I never believe you can write the above.
I will personally submit myself to the authority this forum asks me to. And I will open everything up. Please, keep your receipts in place. And be ready to submit them. You will state exactly when I asked you all the info of your credit.
And by God's grace, I can get details of all calls made. Also, I can ask (if possible) for the recordings. I am ready for all forensic investigation on this matter. And you will say exactly where I threatened you with death.
Also, it is very good you made this first move. If i find favor, I will ask for some monikers verification. But before you turn it to that level, let us still see if the christian part of you is there. Your conscience is what I want to address now.
Ha! Mobilia, you wrote these terrible lies I asked for your financial details, banking details and security number? Ha!!!! Jesus Christ! And you said you are a christian. Ha!
Honestly, at this point, if you do not desist from these terrible lies, heaven will not forgive you. I am still not going to spill details here.
I will let you know how you hurt my business, but not publicly. I do not want further damage. But if you force me to say it, just know that I will react. If you call that a threat to your life, it is not. Your business is what I will attack. I said you did the harm codedly.
But really, I felt you were who you are. But for you to write here I asked those info from you? Christ!
Before I move further, I will refer you to your conscience. This is a deliberate sin. Real assasination of my person. Now, search your heart deeply. If you are the christian you said you are, did I really ask you for those things? Presently, not an issue of using law enforcement agent. But at this moment, I want you to go deep into your conscience. What you have written is point of no return oooooo. But at this junction, if you quickly say the truth and that you just wanna use it to make me back off, it will not go further. Let me tell you what will happen.
1. Your testimony as a christian is totally destroyed before God. You may win here.
2. If you are truly a christian, your conscience will never let you have rest.
3. If you really believe in hell and lost of soul at the end of our time in this life for liars, there is only one way out for you. Just say the truth. You may win just because you may think you are at an advantage, but can you really trick God? So, think well. I have told you that you react too negative to issues. Just imagine i had given you all what you demanded for trust sake. I can imagine how much damage you will make.
At this point, I will not take any drastic action. When I meant that I will attack your business, I will go through the right channel. Are there no ways to formally make reports? Note, this thread is part of the evidence.
About the calls. Make sure you produce the days you bombarded me with over 60 missed calls when I ignored you. I had called you many times, no doubt. But make sure you say the periods you yelled too. And then make sure you say the days you nagged for hours and I was just silent on minor issues.
Like I said, you just need to delete some things and all goes away. You know it. You have touched it again. But you deliberately will not do it. I am still going to be patient.
Again and finally, what will it profit you to win this argument, public display or whatever it is, and then the devil use these lies you have told about me against you. Think about it. I told you already, on this platform, it is the power of words and good responses I will use. And now, I am using your conscience and your God. If God is your God, and you know that Jesus will never tell such lies, kindly come forward and say you are wrong. After such, I will still even not criticize you cos I take it like you just want to stop me. But such lies are just too much. It can send one to hell. Imagine you win this display, and you dont have peace in your heart.
The Mobilia I know has conscience. I know why I said so. Remember that issue you said disturbed you, and i mistakenly talked about it someday....hmmmm. l had to apologize cos it was a deep pain I touched. That is having conscience. This can be the second cos I will not push it further. I will leave it in the hands of God. But one thing I request is that you quickly say the truth now.
In my past post, i have said you can provoke one to lose his mind. So, I am not going to deny that I was aggressive at some point, which you were many times.
Over to you and your conscience.
|Re: Regrets by Mobilia1(f): 1:39pm On Dec 02, 2018|
Yes...on Sunday. I and my conscience are doing fine.
I am dealing with a subject that I have to fight by myself...(well I do have the Creator with me).
Although I worship on Saturday, the Bible says that if you have an "aught with your brother", then that should be handled first before coming to the altar to praise the Lord.
I was not at peace yesterday because if this situation.
Please, however, don't use the Lord's name in vain.
Yes...I lost my cool with you a few times...and yelled at you.
I did so with a few guys on N.L....(whom I won't name but it happened).
I have an anger issue at times...I have never hidden that.
Sixty missed calls? Are you serious? Lol...
I wouldn't even have that time to be sitting and calling that much.
Five or six missed calls....sure. But 60?
The time I stopped talking to you for 2 weeks straight and you called and filled up my voicemail message inbox.
Please stop this sir.
You keep ranting and putting so much business out there. Why?
But yes...I will say it again.
You asked for my SOCIAL SECURITY NUMBER, DEBIT CARD NUMBER, CREDIT CARD NUMBER AND BANK ACCOUNT NUMBER...back in August.
You threatened just yesterday to murder me.
I hope that wasn't erased like my very long and detailed post this morning.
You are correct: ONE of us is lying.
|Re: Regrets by Mobilia1(f): 1:42pm On Dec 02, 2018|
I really didn't want to go there.
Yes..my character as far as Nairaland goes...it is damaged beyond repair.
I can only apologize to God that I've had to approach this whole thing this way.
Yes sir, you have won the battle here on Nairaland.."the court of public opinion"..
In God's court, you HAVE NOT.
I will not continue to try and prove my innocence to people on the internet.
They have made their decision...as you wanted them to.
Character assasination and spiritual warfare at its finest.
As I said, If they lied and crucified Jesus Christ, the Lord and Savior, then who am I?
One minute they were praising Jesus, then the next they crucified Him.
Sir, I have at least 10 voicemail messages where you threatened me...my life....and to go publicly on Nairaland.
Well it looks like you've done it.
Countless emails as well.
Now please don't let me have to embarrass you on one particular thing.
Please mention whomever.
I cannot erase or delete what I haven't written wrong.
I have not written anything to destroy your business.
I DO NOT WRITE codedly.
The only thing I leave out are names...and sometimes I do not
But I write pretty bluntly.
Please just link right here what I wrote.
WRITE IT ALL OUT RIGHT HERE.
How you have treated me throughout this recent witch-hunt from Friday says a whole lot about you as a "man".
You have a hatred towards 1) Christians, 2) women, 3) Americans and 4) Igbo's.
All of which I am....
You kept promising me that you would "destroy" me on N.L. and make me run away. You kept your promise or at least are trying to.
You have harassed and abused me enough.
You have slandered my name and character.
You have cautioned all these folks on Nairaland to stay away from me.
Many of them are completely afraid to even say 1 word to me...
Even one's who have known how I have carried myself for almost 2 years...which says a lot.
But very, very few people have courage and show bravery.
I know how to stand alone.
You have called me every name BUT a child of God.
This sir, is why I said you are NOT a Christian.
Even if we were to have handled this privately, you do NOT cuckold, strong-arm, harass, bam-call and threaten someone to do something.
That is NOT Christ' way.
Words are one thing...but physical threat is another.
I have to now get protection against you cause you have threatened "bodily harm."
I want you to post exactly what I wrote that destroyed your business....
EVERY SINGLE WORD sir....
|Re: Regrets by Privettoall: 2:17pm On Dec 02, 2018|
Lol to 60 calls. Ok that might be an exageration, but that day you were hot, it was well over 15 or 20. That I am sure.
The issue is that you believe in this cause, but I am saying that just relax and you will see exactly where you are wrong. No matter how hyper volatile you were previously, i had my ways of calming you. So, if you are ready, we can iron it out. All I want is that you remove the damage. So, if the process is lenghty, I do not mind. All i just want is that you see it clearly, and you remove the damage. That's all.
About the credit card issue, let your conscience be your guide. But note, private apology will not remove the guilt when you finally calm yourself. Only public apology will. And now, your readers will undestand you wrote that to win. But if you insist I asked, you can press charges, or do anything. And since it is an offence with capital punishment, you will need to prove it. On the spiritual side, if I stay silent on the issue and you also allow it rest, it means you are at advantage. But knowing you well, I will use your conscience as a tool. Maybe you need to take a break, return and just apologize. Then, we can settle it all nicely. All I am after is you remove thr damage. And I also promise that I will make all very clear. You will see where you are wrong. I may not be right in all, but I know that you are too volatile. Sorry if this is a slander, but I know it is the truth.
As I used to make you calm when you were volatile with patience, I will still exhibit it here. But really, you can make one go crazy. Serious.
|Re: Regrets by Mobilia1(f): 2:26pm On Dec 02, 2018|
Between 15-20 in one day? Really? Lol....
But now...how many times did you call me?
It's up into the hundreds....from the time I started talking to you by phone (June-early Sept.).
I hadn't even communicated with you since September 6th.
I only replied to you here on N.L. cause I cut off every other means of access to me.
I don't want to fight you.
This situation has been a terrible 2 days for me.
This all happened "out-of-nowhere".
I really thought we were at peace.
I may be a lot of things...but I am not a vengeful person who would destroy someone's livelihood in a country where people are struggling to eat daily.
I honestly want to know exactly what I wrote that caused people to not patronize you any more. That is one thing I would NEVER, EVER do.
I honestly didn't think that I'd have that much power or I influence over Nigerians.
I barely can get anyone to converse with me here on a daily basis.
The ones who have conversed with me the most are the "atheists". Females are not welcoming at all...never have been since I joined.
So how could people here care what I have to say?
I have no problem admitting wrong and apologizing....but I need to know what exactly it was.
You have split me wide open with a machete.
But I still have to find a way to walk with my injury.
I'm just so puzzled as to how this happened on Friday?
The last thing I knew, (a few weeks back)you had praised me on this thread and suggested I open a thread on questions about Nigeria.
Then this past Friday came and you went from "praise" to "condemnation".
I honestly was and still am shocked.
|Re: Regrets by Privettoall: 2:35pm On Dec 02, 2018|
Well, I do not see myself winning any debate or public show.
Yeah...I threatened you with public show. Of course yes. But who first did it. Do you remember you did it first? Lol. See, every dose of what you got, you gave me first. But I told you that I am a bullet shield. You never believed me. It is not by been aggressive you solve issues. You need to listen well. You must also be willing to apologize when wrong. You have seen where i did not deny some things you said. That is me. See, that is what is called consistency and power. Being too hasty to conclude messes intelligent people up.
I do not see your reputation damaged on nairaland. Lol. Dont be silly. Just joking. Lol. We both did not reveal the main issues, so what reputation are you talking about?
Did I reveal any sensitive info? Neither did you. So, all is well for now. Just that you are hurting me.
The issue is that one needs to be hard at times to make you listen. Well, you know well too you are tough. So, let us keep it at that. I have my errors too. One of the voicemails was actually nasty. And funny, I had a long laugh with your response to it. Lol.
Anyway, what you did hurt me badly. Maybe you do not see it that way..but believe me, it is doing it. It is coded.
This body harm threat is funny. Anyway, I do not mean it that way. And you just want to capitalise on that.
Back to the credit cards, financial details etc you said i asked. You that was always annoyed and said I am proud cos I brag with financial things...lol. you that I ridiculed with the range of your salary because you wrote your profession online in one of your posts. How much do you have in your account that I will bother myself to try stealing from you?
Anyway, just let your conscience be your guide. Take time off and return. I am sure you will apologize for saying I asked for your card details.
|Re: Regrets by Privettoall: 2:41pm On Dec 02, 2018|
I know you do not like public display. Neither do I.
See, I will call you 1 billion times to get that thing removed. Ha! If that canot do it, I will make it trillion. And afterward, I will walk away quietly. So, just do the needful.
Do you really want me to mention it here? Of course, I cannot like that. Reputation goes a long way. But you touched it again.
Well, you have a reason for doing it.
If you have no problem apologizing, just apologize for saying I asked for your SSN, credit card info, etc.
|Re: Regrets by Mobilia1(f): 2:46pm On Dec 02, 2018|
I have always admitted my flaws...and folks (although they may be scared to admit it) over in the Religion section know that.
I had those former monikers cause I kept deactivating and reactivating due to being frustrated with this place.
Even this morning, after I was up early writing an extremely long "epistle" as you guys say, the minute I hit submit and it is banned.
It took 1 and 1/2 hours to write!
You remember when you asked me for those financial details.
You said you would share yours if I shared mine.
I got angry with you..but didn't show it at the time.
At that point, I was done with you.
Regardless of my salary, (and I didn't say you were poor), I got upset that money was talked about. It made me feel like here goes another scam.
|Re: Regrets by Mobilia1(f): 2:49pm On Dec 02, 2018|
Yes..it's ok to post whatever I said that destroyed your business...
I would never want to destroy your legitimate means to earn a living.
What is "that thing"?
Cause I promise you that I'm clueless.
If I did harm, I want you to get your customers back.
Now God is watching me so I cannot apologize for the financial part cause it did happen. I didn't give you any of my info, but it happened.
I'm not trying to destroy you sir.
|Re: Regrets by Privettoall: 2:58pm On Dec 02, 2018|
Wait! Maybe you were right. But not sure. Hmmm. I am a plain person and you know it.
If really I asked, it should be after you asked for those sensitive info to prove some thing (my credentials with sensitive info was among what you asked). And really, I relunctantly shared them with self destruction method. I was just being protective. If truly I asked those, it means I wanted you to know the importance and sensitivity of what you are asking. I did not even remember it. So, it means I pushed you away from asking me sensitive info. Maybe I might have said, "provide me with those, and I will share mine further".
Is this the case? You asked too many things so I cannot remember. And you sure asked for info relating to my finance, but not detailed (not my banking details, or cards) but some serious sensitive issues.
Well, I am going to stop here. We are saying too much. All I care is that you erase the thing.
This is my very last post here madam. If you do not want to hurt me further, pls do the right thing.
I am not ready to say more here.
|Re: Regrets by Mobilia1(f): 3:04pm On Dec 02, 2018|
Although I don't ask men about their financial info.
I'm not impressed with money.
I'm impressed by character.
When that's right, then all else falls into place..whether rich or poor.
I have conversations with people (cause that's how you get to know someone), but the two things I don't go into are "politics" and "finances".
Religious beliefs find a way to come forth without me asking.
Again, please state what the "thing" is that needs to be erased and I will rest my case.
I never ever wanted to do this like this sir.
You brought all of this up on Friday out of "nowhere" and unprovoked.
|Re: Regrets by Privettoall: 3:18pm On Dec 02, 2018|
Please, I want to get out of here. Clue: You added a moniker to a recent modified post recently. And it was decoded. I do not want to expose the moniker because it will bring out so many other monikers and things. And then, the issue will be blown open.
If you are a christian, you know what I am saying. I do not want to mention any moniker to blow this out of control. You may say you will correct it, but I know how it should be. You know this issue is what led to this nonsene here and not murder threats, card, SSN issues.
I do not want issues. My own is that I will codedly harm your business back if you do not at least try to solve this issue. You did it to deliberate cause a big harm. And you cannot say you do not know about it. Do the right thing. Please, I need to leave now. Have a wonderful Sunday. Will not ever contact you as long as you correct it to my satisfaction. Something you touched again when I started this issue here is what you claim you have no knowledge of. Please, say something else.
|Re: Regrets by Mobilia1(f): 3:47pm On Dec 02, 2018|
Which modified post?
Yes I am a Christian...but I don't have to prove whether people believe I am or not.
See what you are saying is not adding up.
You have harassed, insulted, maligned my character and threatened me since Friday.
I was at peace with you. I was living peaceably on Nairaland.
The last time you mentioned me (on this exact thread)...a few weeks back...(which was before this past Friday), you were praising me. You had nice things to say about me.
Then Friday came...and an alter ego emerged.
So I'm terribly confused.
I think it's only fair that you place a link or copy of what I actually did to destroy your business.
It may also help if you'd include how your customers were directly impacted by my "nasty words".
Prove how my alleged "words" slandered you towards loyal customers.
When those things can be done, then I will render an apology.
Are you telling me that I, Ngozi, a foreigner on N.L., have that much power?
Why would your loyal customers stop patronizing you based on a silly half-Akata?
You leveled tons and tons of accusations against me.
When you make those kinds of deeply serious accusations, that's extremely serious and dangerous.
Me having issues with my temper at times is totally different from trying to hatch a plan to destroy your livelihood.
Your post on Friday was first about a main moniker (that I said you had)..and then it turned into (on Saturday) an issue of destruction of your business.
I would like to see how you are gonna reply to the threat that you made against me to "endanger" my life.
That truly frightened me...to be honest.
A physical threat is extremely dangerous cause I know women killed by enraged men.
If you are gonna "decidedly" harm my business, (as you say), then please do what you have to do.
Yes I am a Christian...but I will not agree to things that I did not do.
I am truly sorry, but I cannot nor will do that.
I really want to live peaceably with you and I will..but it will not come through admitting to something I didn't do.
Sir I truly have no ill-will towards you at this point. I hope one day we'll meet in the Kingdom..having "overcome all the sin that doth easily beset us."
I have to forgive (with much prayer) all that has happened over the past 2 days....and it has been deeply saddening.
But I want to be done with this.
I drop my pen at thus my juncture...
|Re: Regrets by Privettoall: 4:06pm On Dec 02, 2018|
Note the bolded words. It means you understand me well. It is well. The same way I explained to you in vain with soft words previously. That is all from me on your thread.
|Re: Regrets by Mobilia1(f): 4:15pm On Dec 02, 2018|
The bolded words I "cannot nor will do that" refer to admitting wrong for something I did not do.
As an English major, all one has to do is look at the context of the previous sentence.
I used "pronouns" to restate what I was saying the sentence before
I am not speaking "codedly".
I do not do that.
Perhaps that's why I've gotten into so much trouble on here.
I am a very transparent person.
Others on N.L. do the coded thing.
I do not.
You actually haven't spoken with "soft words" since you brought up a "dead and buried" issue on this past Friday.
You ripped me to shreds...through your words.
The way a "man" should never, ever speak to a woman ever.
Then you proceeded to gather up at army of supporters.
You spoke about me in the very worst way..and most of the people here have believed you.
I have done none of that.
I have no supporter here...yet I faced you...by myself.
Believe it or not, but there are a few males here on N.L.(whom I can count on just 1 hand) whom I would never, ever disrespect because they didn't mistreat me. I may have disagreed with some of them on some things, but they never took disagreements with me to a "gutter-level".
As I said, an apology will come when you can deliver evidence in support of your accusation against me.
|Re: Regrets by Privettoall: 4:58pm On Dec 02, 2018|
I will do my best again in the way I always calm you. Let us do it like this again. I have given you the clue. Just a question for you.
1. Do you know the exact thing I am talking about? Yes or No. Remember you are a daughter of Christ. Every daughter of Christ does not tell lies.
It is a different issue why you did it. And we should talk about it. But I do not know how to without getting it nasty here. You know what I am talking about. Give way for peace. Ok! If friendship is what you want again, I can try but cannot promise you cos I really just want to leave in peace. Maybe we can have a way to talk to some mods to help with the clarification of some monikers to throw more light. Or if you have your way, say it. But I do not want to do nasty things publicly.
Please, answer the two questions.
All I want is that you address the issue, and peace will reign.
|Re: Regrets by Mobilia1(f): 5:36pm On Dec 02, 2018|
No sir, as a daughter of Christ, I do not know what you are talking about.
I am not upset...no need to calm me.
Just incredibly shocked and saddened.
There is no issue to address.
I do not go to bed dreaming and thinking about you. I do not wake up doing that either.
You have been lying tremendously even today.
But, please continue.
Are you a Christian sir?
Because initially you told me you were a Christian. You quoted the Bible, claimed to be studying it from 6 pm-12 midnight.
But as the days went by, the layers unraveled.
I stopped talking to you because once you asked for my financial info, I believed you to be fraudulent.
All of this whole situation is because I cut off contact with you. I left you alone.
Never bothered you again.
Again, please give the evidence (complete with your customers' complaints) that I have destroyed your business.
Involve the mods if you want. That's your choice.
I have already asked the owner of the forum.
I don't expect a fair shake, but at least I can ask.
You have threatened to kill me...
Lives may not mean much to some folk, but mine does to me...and to my family/friends.
If I'm not dying for a cause, then there's no need for me to die prematurely.
Again continue this witch-hunt.
Do sir, as you please.
P.S. I have not asked to rekindle any type of friendship with you nor do I desire one.
I don't befriend people who have ill and malicious intent towards me...(once I am aware).
Remember it is me who cut off communication with you completely on Sept. 6th.
You were able to contact me through N.L.
I answered politely cause I didn't want any more problems with you.
I cannot even imagine how I would be treated if physically there...
However, you cannot threaten someone (through bribe, force, insult, abuse, slander etc) into doing anything. That is inhumane.
I am not a captive on any man's island.
|Re: Regrets by Mobilia1(f): 5:39pm On Dec 02, 2018|
|Re: Regrets by Privettoall: 6:16pm On Dec 02, 2018|
No problem if you insisted you do not know. And goodluck with your conscience. What you modified as soon as I started this. Well, you can say all what you want to say. The power of conscience is super high. I deliberately moved to soft words. Whatever happens, when you deliberately tell a lie to cover yourself, it will open. If not now, it will when your creator opens your file someday. When you deliberately pretend to be innocent, and you insist that you never modified that thing, I leave you with your conscience. Before parting ways, I told you about it. You knew about it. And your question was how does it affect me? You have asked again here. I explained the way i could, and you said you did not believe me.
I wanted to take the vengeful approach, but it is an unwise decision. Please, do all what you want to do. I have approached you here again about it. Even you modify it again, the damage is done. All that is needed is to tell you how to do it. And we can agree on that.
Since you said you do not know about it, and that you did not modify any recently, I leave you with your conscience. I am not God, so I cannot say that He will or will not forgive you for telling lies in public and asking for forgiveness in private. But what I can assure you is that you have more respect from your readers if you can be bold to say the truth. And your work for God will be more acceptable.
You can call whoever you want to call. Reach out to anyone. You have my digits, let them call me and I will be there.
For me, I leave you in the court of heaven on this nairaland, religious section. God who knows who is really telling lies between us be the judge. If you can tell this lie that you did not know it, then, I am sure I need to really flee.
Be not deceived, whatsoever a man sows, he shall reap. If you deliberately tell this lies that:
1. You did not modify the stuff recently
2. You did not know about it with the clue I gave you,
then, I let God be the judge. And I leave you with your conscience. No man who ever publicly tells lies has the spirit of God. But if it is the tension, the fear of your reputation that made you tell these lies, I still give you the opportunity till you are calmed. Just like the issue of the SSN, credit card, etc and how you said it like it is fraud when you knew what you had asked were even more sensitive. I did not even remember it cos I have pushed you away with many of your crazy, unprofessional background check. Patience is not in your dictionary. Lol. See, being over-smart takes people to hell ooooo. What if God asks you for restitution on these lies? You then return after many years to say you are sorry publicly. Hmmmm! Just think well.
Again, your conscience be the judge. And if you find grace through private confession of these lies, I congratulate you.
OK. I have been saying no more words from me. This time, because of these lies, I know I cannot make you settle peacefuly.
My only hope is that the damage fades away gradually. Even you come here publicly to say sorry, you will not hear from me again.
I have gone finally. I have flown million of miles away. The only way you can see me again is if any of the authorities you mentioned calls me. And I am confident that I will clear myself. And afterward, I will fly away. I am gone to not ever contact you again. And please, do not reach out to me. I do not block numbers or email, I simply ignore. It is true you have not contacted for a long time, and I was the one trying to get you. But from today onward, no more word from me. May your conscience follow you. Please, just settle it with your God. I release you from talking to me when that conscience fights you to still. No need to contact me. Settle with your God. If he tells you to do it publicly or privately, that is between you.
I leave you with your conscience. Bye Bye!
|Re: Regrets by Mobilia1(f): 6:33pm On Dec 02, 2018|
You have your huge Nigerian audience right here.
They are on your side. That is abundantly clear.
You have their support...so what exactly is the problem here?
What is it?
You have effectively destroyed my thread...which I got banned from! Lol...
I won't modify anything. Just put exactly what I wrote to destroy your business.
I wish that you would state exactly what I did.
It's quite simple.
You brought this publicly..so address it publicly.
These people here support you deeply and have cheered you on behind the scenes.
Nairaland is not my court. It is yours...and here you have won.
I have to answer to the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob in the heavenly court.
There I have won.
I follow the laws of my land as best as I can.
I don't operate in corruption.
You have vilified my country and country men and I find that utterly disgusting.
Now based on this whole incidence, I could say a whole lot about Nigeria...
This whole incidence has left a putrid, vile, repulsive and vomitable taste in my mouth.
Again, I 100 percent stand by every single word I have ever typed on this forum since joining on Dec. 4th or 6th 2016...my original membership date.
As they say in America, "Every dog will have its day".
Christians on this forum..just know this:
You will have to stand one day on one side...whichever your belief is.
You may even have to fiercely defend it.
You won't get to straddle the fence.
How will you stand in that great day when (in the face of opposition and persecution) ALL around you run away?
Food for thought...
|Re: Regrets by Privettoall: 7:16pm On Dec 02, 2018|
|Re: Regrets by Mobilia1(f): 7:33pm On Dec 02, 2018|
[quote author=Privettoall post=73495530][/quote]
"I won't modify anything".
There is nothing to "modify".
Why are you wanting me to erase something?
I have no skeletons sir.
People are free to go through and read all (855) posts that I have written under the "Mobilia" moniker...or any other former moniker I've had.
I will not "modify" anything.
What's written should be "my" words.
I don't think mods would go in and change my words.....
Sir please (for the millionth) time, quote, copy, paste the EXACT thing that I need to "modify" and then draw the correlation between your business losing your customers and what I allegedly said.
These people support you.
Why is this so hard to do?
See what I'm not understanding is your own need to speak "codedly".
What a person who has nothing to hide, and who lives "above-board", would do is to just quote or link the damaging info.
He wouldn't speak secretively..
He would lay it "all out".
I speak directly and bluntly...
I say what I mean...and I mean what I say.
My "yea" is "yea" and my "nay" is "nay".
I have nothing to "modify" therefore I will not "modify" anything.
I had "0" desire to address anything with you ever again....
But you came here (to the thread) on Friday to disturb a person who was at peace with you in the land.
You came to malign me...i'm just wanting to see the actual evidence for the accusation...or damage instead of blindly accepting your words.
The lies are flowing, just as I said initially.
|Re: Regrets by Julivas(m): 9:37pm On Dec 02, 2018|
Hmmm, long conversations between the two main actors here.
Firstly, I applauded Mobilia for coming forth to respond to the series of allegations against her.
@privettoall, I will like you to say here where Mobilia has caused damage to your reputation on nairaland, so that she can do the needful, because I can testify to the fact that she is quick to apologise whenever she acknowledged she has wronged someone publicly here on nairaland. So point it out to her in order for her to do the damage control.
@Mobilia, don't be scared of his choice of words, he can't murder you, I don't believe that that is what he meant, so relax your mind and be calm.
In all, both of should settle here peacefully as Christians because of eternity and move on.
God bless you and do enjoy your day.
|Re: Regrets by Privettoall: 10:59pm On Dec 02, 2018|
I do not have the intention to come here again. Sir, she modified it during this conversation. That is what her conscience will prick her on. If you allow it, give it time. Is it not Mobilia? She will return. When I said she is a wonderful person, I know what I am saying. But she is just too volatile. I have been handling her well. Just relax bro.
Can't you see that we both do not want to cross the line of mentioning monikers and deep private issues? As soon as I point to it, it will be nasty. So, asking me to post it is a trick. Is it not Mobilia? Lol. But leave her for days, she will return to say the truth. She calls herself a "gentle giant". Yeah. I think she is. She comes forth too harsh, but she can be controlled. Of course she will never post it, and she knows I will never. Cos as soon as it comes out, more and more will be revealed. Really, let us leave it like this.
The best option for her could have been she allowed it solved privately. I know her well. She does not want private until I prove somethings beyond reasonable doubt which were mix ups. And she knows me well. Bro, do not push it further to be nasty. We discussed it well. Infact, there are posts I made she would politely ask me delete or modify. We worked well like a good team when the good was good. And I was the one who ruled the line of no return we must never cross even if things go wrong. I will not cross it. But she wanted to use that to shut me up.
In all, her anger issue is just what is the main challenge. It can take one to threaten her before she calms. And at times, she responds well to soft words.
Mobilia1:She needs to go for anger management classes and therapy. She needs help.
Here are the issues:
For me, it is the correction that is vital to me. I am hurt badly.
For her, there are monikers that have harassed, double played, or maybe she had friction with which she is saying I know about. She always search for them. She is of the notion that everyone has more than one moniker. She got an intelligent man from nowhere and started asking me who he is. How do I know? Heaven knõws how she was able to find out the moniker is not me. Then, she moved to another. Kinda complex to explain. She regards nairaland too much as a tool most Nigerians use. But little did she know that most people are leaving nairaland because there are many loopholes on this faceless forum. If I am able to prove that I have no relationship, or not an associate of those monikers, believe you me, she will run a lengthy apology. This is the main issue. And as crazy and senseless it is to me, and to anyone who understands nairaland, she takes it very serious. How do I start saying these monikers are not mine? A beg, make she carry her wahala go. I want long life. I do not want to be hypertensive. Funny thing is that she engages with some of these monikers. And she had had friction with others. See, I do not want wahala at all. She even met some before me. Over skills is the issue here.
Do you still want me to cause commotion?
I wish mods can assist here. If they can do the verification privately for her, it will be perfect. But will nairaland do it? Or is there a tool in place for such? I doubt it. If there is a way out, believe me, you will read a lengthy apology. She took it too far without having a strong reason. And all the SSN, credit card, banking details, and death threats are just irrelevancies.
The main issue is: how can this intelligent man be among these idiots? How can this person betray me? How can this person I have had the best and most productive conversations with be in the so called non existing cartel? Hmmm! I can never trust these people anymore if this man is among tgem. Prove to me that you are innocent. But how can I?
Can someone help me out? But really, it is a fruitless effort now. Let me put my energy into fleeing far away. I pray the damages fade away. I do not ever pray to meet such a volatile, short tempered, easily angered, and extremely hard to please and establish trust human again.
Mobilia1:Can everyone be wrong? When many people have issues with one, that person should check himself. Being too bold, too vocal, and show of overrpowering make people flee. But someone like me will dock that fellow. I will box the person to a corner. Now, being stubborn has no remedy. Just leave the fellow. Time changes people. Experiences of life teach lesson. Some learn to zip their mouth in hard ways. Some learn not to be over knowing in hard ways. And some learn not to deliberately misinform,tell lies publicly in terrible ways. Conscience pricking is the worst whip. Just leave her with her conscience.
She knows all. When one continues saying I am a black american and blab bla bla at the slightest opportunity she gets on a Nigerian faceless forum knowning scammers are around, who is she attracting? And she has been advised against it. Her claim is that in her country, people do not hide. So, let her continue atteacting yahoo boys naooo. She goes out to chat with them. She gets docks. Then she returns to me to help her investigate the monikers. Who has that useless time? I have told her to keep off from releasing sensitive info. But realy, I think she feels it is the only way she can attract people to speak to her. At the end of the day, it is always sour. And then, the next questions is: "I showed you these monikers and you failed to do anything. Are you collaborating with them?" Then, she starts finding similarities with me. She brings up senseless similarities, capitalizes on them, and then the cartel keeps expanding. "So, this new moniker is among the cartel you are leading."
Many issues will come out. In a post above in this thread she said I told her I want to pray from 12am to 6am. Lol. What do you want me to say and escape ranting, yelling, and stupid investigative conversation which started with her talking and I kept silent from 11.05pm to 11.56pm. I was silent. To keep my cool, I gave her the formular. Will that stop me from doing other things from 12midnight to 6am even if she is aware? Who cares? I just laughed about her rant for almost 1 hr the following day. And she was so sorry. She did not even know she ranted for 3 mins, not to talk of almost 1 hr, and I was silent all through. I stopped her by telling her that, pressed cancel call immediately, and switched off my phone. Seriously, we both laughed and laughed. I had to remind her all she said, and she was like..... " did I say that? Oh...I am terribly sorry. God, help me with my anger."
Please, I need to leave. Bro, I will not respond again. I am not interested in returning. She will not give up. She will return. As a man, I must leave. I have just shown that she needs to find a way to address her anger issue. Yeah.. i gave her doses of how it feels when yelled at. And you can read where she wrote about it. Everything she got, she gave me first. I wanted to give her bad coded defaming post that will hurt badly especially her business but I have changed my mind since i got a better option which is leaving her with her conscience. That to me is the best approach, and far more effective than my initial plan. At least, she claims she is a christain. Relax, and let us see.
Above all, if she changes her mind and gets in touch so I can tell her what to do, I will appreciate it. And if not, I release her from apologizing later. No need for her to return and apologize.
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