I love my girlfriend but I think she's taking me away from my family.... Anything I do something for my family she will start quarreling up and down... We are in Italy living with each other. She want me to do for her family the more. Is that how relationship suppose to be? She doesn't quarrel whenever I send money to her family... I have a nice job, and she don't. But the job I have. Came from her. I pay the bills, take care of her and support her in anything. Still yet she interferes whenever I helped my family... Yesterday was the worst.. She collected my money and send it home to her family... I asked her and she said she has right to do anything with my money because she put me there. I'm sad because I have no document yet but she had her own document. her document is what we used to rent our apartment... She have power over the house and I don't want to lose that house because it's close to my work.. Now She's threatening me with the house.. I'm a Benin boy she's esan.. If i tried anything now I may lost my job and that means my documents won't be grant, I'm just tired of some girls in this Europe, I'm not doing anything wrong but she just want to ruin my life.. I'm confused.

Anytime I called her to talk, she always saying whenever I want to send money to my people that I should send it to her family first,, then her family will bring it to my people..

your mistake is telling her you're sending money to your people(or is she in charge of your money too?) , I wanted to say something different but since you've document issues, I won't, bro, try and sort your yourself out please, and after that, let her know that a goat in your family is far more important than her.

This is quite funny and serious.bros is there no way u can send money to your people without letting her know.
You don't have to inform her that you are sending money na


I never see wetin go take me away from my parents.

They call me and my siblings home and abroad more than 5x daily.
U come dey ask if you go send them money.


I get the paper issue Sha
But bros.find a way to send money to your people.only u must know about it .
Finish

daben1:
lyour girlfriend is taking you away from your family" you should be ashamed of yourself

you too... you should be ashamed of yourself.

Won Ti Fi Obo Da Opolo Eleyi Ru.

Nawa she be witch o.
Her type will kill you if you dare leave the relationship

bujebudanu1:
This is quite funny and serious.bros is there no way u can send money to your people without letting her know.
You don't have to inform her that you are sending money na

....
Man!!! think like a woman, act like a MAN, no situation is beyond your control. Come down get wot u want n free d stupid 'Ass'.

K

bujebudanu1:
This is quite funny and serious.bros is there no way u can send money to your people without letting her know.
You don't have to inform her that you are sending money na


I never see wetin go take me away from my parents.

They call me and my siblings home and abroad more than 5x daily.
U come dey ask if you go send them money.


I get the paper issue Sha
But bros.find a way to send money to your people.only u must know about it .
Finish

she monitor me die. I sends money sometimes on code. but she must find out and burst out

It is better to live on the roof of a building,than live with a contentous woman...start looking for another job asap...else,you will forever remain her workchop....stop letting her know you are sending money to your people.

LankyLanky:
she monitor me die. I sends money sometimes on code. but she must find out and burst out

Must be from you or your people at home.
Just help your people.

God forbid bad thing.
Money wey she no want spend now.make u no go spend double tomorrow

Oh No. Why are you letting her manipulate you?

Save money and move out.
She'll drain you dry if you stay.

OP can you listen to yourself. I pray you receive sense IJN not for your sake but for your parents.

U just need deliverance cos she don collect Friday give u Saturday for sense.. b4 she format ur memory u better go meet ur pastor or Alfa to restore ur brain b4 it will be too late...

LankyLanky:
you too... you should be ashamed of yourself.

sorry for the post bro, I modified after I read it to the end

habsydiamond:
U just need deliverance cos she don collect Friday give u Saturday for sense.. b4 she format ur memory u better go meet ur pastor or Alfa to restore ur brain b4 it will be too late...

deliverance? do your brain need reset?

Jayslicky:
OP can you listen to yourself. I pray you receive sense IJN not for your sake but for your parents.

Mr sense pray for yourself

GF for that matter..
Not even wife..

highqueen:
Nawa she be witch o.
Her type will kill you if you dare leave the relationship

and if you see her!!!! she's very calm and simple in face. she didn't behave like this until I got my job..

LankyLanky:
and if you see her!!!! she's very calm and simple in face. she didn't behave like this until I got my job..

Lol.shes insecure.

LankyLanky:
I love my girlfriend but I think she's taking me away from my family.... Anything I do something for my family she will start quarreling up and down... We are in Italy living with each other. She want me to do for her family the more. Is that how relationship suppose to be? She doesn't quarrel whenever I send money to her family... I have a nice job, and she don't. But the job I have. Came from her. I pay the bills, take care of her and support her in anything. Still yet she interferes whenever I helped my family... Yesterday was the worst.. She collected my money and send it home to her family... I asked her and she said she has right to do anything with my money because she put me there. I'm sad because I have no document yet but she had her own document. her document is what we used to rent our apartment... She have power over the house and I don't want to lose that house because it's close to my work.. Now She's threatening me with the house.. I'm a Benin boy she's esan.. If i tried anything now I may lost my job and that means my documents won't be grant, I'm just tired of some girls in this Europe, I'm not doing anything wrong but she just want to ruin my life.. I'm confused.

Anytime I called her to talk, she always saying whenever I want to send money to my people that I should send it to her family first,, then her family will bring it to my people..

she is just plain evil ......why is she being bias.... I mean you are trying ur best tho....are u sure u can marry this lady. ..just be very prayerful..so that all ur efforts won't go in vain....pray dat God changes her or pray that he makes her loose interest in you and go away without any problem.....be positive...wish u the best...

your own mumu no be here.


which kind nonsense be this? girlfriend ooh.

na she de work for me? for the past 25 years plus, I have known my family, they have been there for me through thick and thin, supported me, no matter how little.

and then, one inconsequential fellow whom I met not less than few years ago, will now come to tear us apart or make me forget about them when I am in a position to cather for them? the girl will simply go and live her own life.



some will tell u to go and marry ur family or some will tell u that a man and woman will come together to become one. upe , stop being brainwashed young men, if u know what is right , do it, that is how great men keep living with their integrity intact, some sisi dem met their down fall, because they were doing what the wife wants not minding if it is good or bad,



I am not saying that ur wife shouldn't advice, but u know the good from bad, anytime an advice is one sided, then, there is always a comma. .


plus u don't have to let her know when u want to send money down

LankyLanky:
Mr sense pray for yourself

k

Go to Sicily and get the Mafians to help you kidnap and send her to Kazakhstan, you need peace of mind to survive out there and that Esan girl will never allow you have it

LankyLanky:
deliverance? do your brain need reset?

it needs if ur babe is putting u in a loggerhead position with ur family

Ordinary galfrd,sought out yuh documents issues first,then put her in her place,no woman should ever get in between u n yuh family,yuh family comes first man.... Don't let d Devil decieve you..

She is a DEMON.....

She is a DEMON but you are equally very foolish for telling her you send money to your people.....Is she the one that will control you?

MhizzAJ:
She is a DEMON but you are equally very foolish for telling her you send money to your people.....Is she the one that will control you?

I don't always tell her but she always know.

Triniti:
Go to Sicily and get the Mafians to help you kidnap and send her to Kazakhstan, you need peace of mind to survive out there and that Esan girl will never allow you have it

oga thank you

Hmmm

Lol...