There might not be any need advising you because it seems you have made up your mind already
You know what is best for you, follow your heart

Saff:
Men never change. Who they are is who they are. If a man is constantly checking your phone, then that man has deep insecurities, and issues that could possibly affect his partner. She better run whilst she can, God always shows us signs, it’s up to us to listen to them or ignore it.

and when we don't bother you guys say we ain't romantic or caring

holding your phone and giggling while chatting


madam position well o

Checking excessively is not good. Moderately is okay.

jeff1607:



and when we don't bother you guys say we ain't romantic or caring

holding your phone and giggling while chatting


madam position well o

bobokeshington:


guess he wants you back because he enjoyed fu:king your pussy

Really
That's your reason?

Allaboutkatiee:

I wasn't really doing anything bad
Never cheated on him
Just that He takes every little thing serious and gets jealous easily

you're not cheating but you have started deleting chats of you and guys right? why do you think you're doing it?

You think it's when you have sex, that what some people call cheating only.

Saff:
Checking excessively is not good. Moderately is okay.

moderate checking or not shows fear but better to make ones mind be at peace , so no checking make pesin no go get heart attack

Cos you are lonely, you dont want someone else to feel loved
OP if you like follow her advice, you will become just like fine wine

Biglittlelois:
You are considering going back to him, that is why you brought it here, you kinda miss his domineering controlling personality yeah it happens, i know the feeling but sweetie his type are manipulative and he's using his sugar coated words once again to win you back, pls dont fall, his type becomes more aggressive cos they know they can have you at anytime, forget him babe, exes are the past, let him remain in the past.

Allaboutkatiee:
My ex-boyfriend who was controlling and obsesssed with me wants me back.
Initially he was the one that ended the relationship because he said I lied alot and I gave him heartache cuz of the kind of things I did and also my chat, mind you he did go through my fone all the time,he made sure he controlled every other aspect of things I wanted to do. the only reason it ended was because he had trust issues and was very insecure.
Please I need your advice on this.

You are the problem, not your ex-boyfriend.

what did she wants us to do

jobonnairaland:
You are the problem, not your ex-boyfriend.

Explain?