Hello Nairalander,

I have a female friend who has been dating a guy for over a year now... She is in her very late twenties... She is truly involved in this relationship to the extent that she spends time with him in his house and also do some chores as a normal Nigerian.

There was a time she need d to save some money elsewhere because she does not want to spend it, she saved it gullibly in the guy's account (100k to be precise). She said she has been seeing signs that he does not want to be fully involved...by telling her that if she is in a hurry, she should look for someone else.

Of recent, she called him and he didn't pick his call and so, she called his colleague and she heard him saying in the background that "The way this girl dey disturb me ehn, my wife no disturb me reach" ... With that alone, she got courage to challenge him and he said she should leave him and go.

So... She has been in thought all these days and crying all sorts... I have tried in so many ways to explain to her that the guy is a gonner...

I got permission to put this here from here so Nigerians can help me advice her...

Nairalanders, over to you!

NB... When she asked for mer money sometime back, he said he has used it and can only give her some part now...

Tell her Earthbound has an award for her. An award for 2018's Most Gullible Fellow.

1. The guy has broken the relationship

2. He said he will pay her money to her in part. If she isn't comfortable with this arrangement, she should report the case to the police.

Please, tell her to move on.


Men are scum.

That nigga is the bomb, I just like him already without knowing him. The emotional torture Nigerian girls give to guys is way too much and if you check the money the guy has been spending on the bitch it's more than 100k.
Thumbs up to the guy.
You don't need to seek advice for your friend, she was just paid back in her own coin, let her wallow in grieve.

Jayslicky:
That nigga is the bomb, I just like him already without knowing him. The emotional torture Nigerian girls give to guys is way too much and if you check the money the guy has been spending on the bitch it's more than 100k.
Thumbs up to the guy.
You don't need to seek advice for your friend, she was just paid back in her own coin, let her wallow in grieve.

you've just mocked yourself.

highqueen:
Please, tell her to move on.


Men are scum.

Your mum married a scum and a scum fathered you?

I know your father and brothers are scum,, please stop posting rubbish,, is some men and not all men.

highqueen:
Please, tell her to move on.


Men are scum.

ras ras she'll be alright

rove na scam

Some questions pisses me off like kilode? What stupid advice does she want again? If she no collect that money eh.... don't let me finish what's on my mind.

Local scammer , Ogbontarigi Ayanije

Tell your friend to take her mind off him, won't be easy but she'll be over it eventually, I've been there before and it wasn't easy, if she'd like to involved the police, they may as well request for a SHARE .. keep her company and take her out once in a while so she won't fall into depression and eventually commit suicide.

AryEmber:
Some questions pisses me off like kilode? What stupid advice does she want again? If she no collect that money eh.... don't let me finish what's on my mind.

Please finish it

highqueen:
Please, tell her to move on.


Men are scum.

like your dad