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Larrytrendy:
Staying together in the same city, things were going on well at first not until lately that he started giving different excuses whenever I initiate the idea of us seeing on a particular weekend, either he has something very important to attend to or one of his friends his bringing a lady in for the weekend and they would be using his room because his own room is more ventilated and has a comfortable bed.
With this response, the idea of me spending the night whenever he says he would be busy during the day is definitely not going to happen. I'm not free to walk into the apartment anytime I feel, I feel uncomfortable whenever I'm there though he owns the apartment, I still feel like a stranger even with his co-occupants amiability. He claims to love me sincerely still but I have this feeling that he's hiding something from me or rather he's gotten tired of me. Is this how men behave when they share their apartment with friends or do you think there is something else that goes beyond that? Met his people already and he's planning to meet mine soon though he has been saying this for a month now but I still have this doubt in me. I don't want to bug you people with my story so just made it short and straight to the bone of contention.
Please matured minds, I need y'all advice on this. �

abeg ehn
Who be that for your Dp?

Larrytrendy:
Staying together in the same city, things were going on well at first not until lately that he started giving different excuses whenever I initiate the idea of us seeing on a particular weekend, either he has something very important to attend to or one of his friends his bringing a lady in for the weekend and they would be using his room because his own room is more ventilated and has a comfortable bed.
With this response, the idea of me spending the night whenever he says he would be busy during the day is definitely not going to happen. I'm not free to walk into the apartment anytime I feel, I feel uncomfortable whenever I'm there though he owns the apartment, I still feel like a stranger even with his co-occupants amiability. He claims to love me sincerely still but I have this feeling that he's hiding something from me or rather he's gotten tired of me. Is this how men behave when they share their apartment with friends or do you think there is something else that goes beyond that? Met his people already and he's planning to meet mine soon though he has been saying this for a month now but I still have this doubt in me. I don't want to bug you people with my story so just made it short and straight to the bone of contention.
Please matured minds, I need y'all advice on this. �

Are you planning to put confusion between him and his friend. For him to have given his friend such liberty it shows his friend has sacrificed a lot for him. Try to build a healthy relationship with him and watch him extend same gesture. You have not earned his trust my dear. You sound like someone that is competing for love with his friends. What have you sacrificed since you started your relationship? If you don't take time his friend will even enable your eviction. we guys can never break the guy's code.

Love dey turn pple to mumu. He is hiding someting. When friends know ur d main chick dey would as if ur coming before dey can use his room. Hanty u are being played

Agreed you are being played.HE was committed but suddenly lost steam.seek audience and discuss with him. If there is a change cool else Schedule an unplanned visit and everything will be revealed.

Larrytrendy:
Staying together in the same city, things were going on well at first not until lately that he started giving different excuses whenever I initiate the idea of us seeing on a particular weekend, either he has something very important to attend to or one of his friends his bringing a lady in for the weekend and they would be using his room because his own room is more ventilated and has a comfortable bed.
With this response, the idea of me spending the night whenever he says he would be busy during the day is definitely not going to happen. I'm not free to walk into the apartment anytime I feel, I feel uncomfortable whenever I'm there though he owns the apartment, I still feel like a stranger even with his co-occupants amiability. He claims to love me sincerely still but I have this feeling that he's hiding something from me or rather he's gotten tired of me. Is this how men behave when they share their apartment with friends or do you think there is something else that goes beyond that? Met his people already and he's planning to meet mine soon though he has been saying this for a month now but I still have this doubt in me. I don't want to bug you people with my story so just made it short and straight to the bone of contention.
Please matured minds, I need y'all advice on this. �

He has a new chick he's cheating on you With, dump him before he officially dumps you.

Move on girl, it's not gonna be easy, but you just have to do it.

To all the ladies who would open this thread, first of all, never follow a guy to see his people first. Secondly, make yourself scarce for a while and stop trying to instigate any meeting for now, if he's not concerned after a while, then you should get a clearer picture. He might be going through a difficult period, you could talk to him about work and what's happening with him as a way of investing your time in his affairs and letting him know you care. In all you do, be open minded

Can’t you see that he is tired of you

Is there anything wrong in meeting the family of a guy you are in a relationship with at an early stage? Maybe there's something i'm missing here. @Apina

Larrytrendy:
Is there anything wrong in meeting the family of a guy you are in a relationship with at an early stage? Maybe there's something i'm missing here. @Apina

Nothing wrong but as I said "Never follow a guy to see his family FIRST" officially or unofficial. I'm just thinking that's the source of her present experience

frbona:
abeg ehn
Who be that for your Dp?

You keep presenting yourself cheap to him. must u beg him to go spend the night with him? Ignore him n if u r important to him, he would keep loving u. He only wants u to be expensive.

Larrytrendy:
Staying together in the same city, things were going on well at first not until lately that he started giving different excuses whenever I initiate the idea of us seeing on a particular weekend, either he has something very important to attend to or one of his friends his bringing a lady in for the weekend and they would be using his room because his own room is more ventilated and has a comfortable bed.
With this response, the idea of me spending the night whenever he says he would be busy during the day is definitely not going to happen. I'm not free to walk into the apartment anytime I feel, I feel uncomfortable whenever I'm there though he owns the apartment, I still feel like a stranger even with his co-occupants amiability. He claims to love me sincerely still but I have this feeling that he's hiding something from me or rather he's gotten tired of me. Is this how men behave when they share their apartment with friends or do you think there is something else that goes beyond that? Met his people already and he's planning to meet mine soon though he has been saying this for a month now but I still have this doubt in me. I don't want to bug you people with my story so just made it short and straight to the bone of contention.
Please matured minds, I need y'all advice on this. �

Quick question when u first started the whole relationship, did he have flat mates? Or this flat mate thing is a new occurrence.

If the answer is yes he always had flat mates with him and you noticed this new behaviour all of a sudden then 99.9 % he wan disco you or he is trying to fit you to his schedule of babes.

If its the other way and the flat mate tingy is a new occurence I'll say you give it time and try to make your self as friendly as possible with the flat mates till they reason you as dere personal pally. You don win the battle be that.

Op follow this advice above. Disregard the childish advice telling you he is cheating. Observe and study him, then talk to him. Communication is key, don't go with hunches. All the best