In our day to day interactions with different people, it is never unusual to get charmed by someone other than our significant other. Of course, you may already have a commitment to stick to your partner in a monogamous relationship. But just having a crush on someone who isn’t your boyfriend is no big deal, if it stops right there. It happens. Everyone experiences such tempting moments from time to time.

Sometimes, you can have a crush on a stranger that you saw in the gym. You might develop a crush on the barista who prepares your coffee every morning. Sometimes, you might even develop a crush on one of your guy’s friends. You can get curious about what it would be like to be with them.

But you never really take these feelings seriously. You know that you would never be interested in cheating on your man. It’s perfectly normal for you to develop a crush on someone, even when you are in a relationship. It’s a normal aspect of living. You see something that you might admire because of certain traits or qualities that you have.

As you get crushes on other guys, in the same manner, your man has crushes on other girls too. It happens. You shouldn’t have to feel threatened by it, most especially if you are certain that there is nothing going on between your man and a third party.

Yeah, sometimes that really pricks on your self-confidence. But do you have a right to get mad at him just for having a crush on someone else? Definitely not. In fact, you can turn this supposed threat into an opportunity for you to learn more about what your man really admires in women, and this will help you get more intimate. Think about it for a second. He might be attracted to a specific trait or characteristic in a friend of yours – perhaps they might be more adventurous, more daring, more caring, whatever. You can take these as potential traits that you can acquire for yourself as well.

Nevertheless, if you start to notice that the crush is beginning to develop into something more than usual, then maybe you can put your foot down and put a stop to things before they escalate. And if you find yourself powerless in your efforts to stop them, then maybe that’s a sign that you should just let your man go and move on.

Watch carefully for the following signs

His ‘super boyfriend’ persona gets activated whenever your friend is around

He is always asking after your friend

He is so into her social media profiles

He acts like the new 'best friend'

He is always smiling whenever she’s around.

He calls her frequently

He gets rough and frisky in bed after she’s gone

He badmouths every other guys she date

https://chofam.com/2018/12/10-signs-your-boyfriend-is-trying-to-woo-your-best-friend/

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Trust me, if a nigga is kpanshing your friend, you wouldn't know until it's too late.