Are people really marrying or dating? The rate at which divorce has reached is alarming. Indeed, you can know when someone is courting his fiancee, when they did their traditional wedding, white wedding & when they divorced. Is marriage now a sin? No. The issue is that most people have missed the essence of marriage. We tend to live in a fake world, fantasizing about what is not real, and thinking marriage is all about chasing a lady by the beach.

What are the vital keys to marriage? Love, commitment, godliness, faithfulness, forgiveness, communication & submission. The big issue people face with this is that they can have other vital keys, but miss other ones. E.g. A man or woman may love, communicate & commit; but may be a Chronic Adulterer... So there must be this balance, else we keep seeing marriage loosing it's worth....

Another issue is sex before wedding or marriage...whether with fiance, fiancee or ex, it could ruin the future.

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