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Thread Closed!!!!! by SweetBuns(f): 2:22pm On Dec 18, 2018
The average nigerian male has been stereotyped and programmed by society to have some bad assumptions about the female gender.

1. Any female that tries to be unique and different i.e Focusing on her career and goals rather than staying at home is quickly termed a bitter woman aka Feminist
This is very true and it is also very evident on this site. Any woman who holds an opinion contrary to that of the males is quickly tagged a bitter woman and shame to society. Try to rear you head up as a woman and they will quickly try to pull you down. That is why some men in this country will never like to see their wives prosper more than them. They will always try to pull her down and bind her with wild societal beliefs like...
"YOU SHOULDNT BE WORKING ANYMORE FOR NOW. YOU HAVE CHILDREN TO TAKE CARE OF. STAY AT HOME WOMAN!"
Some men even take it too far in banning their wives from working at all. Especially if she is richer that him. No work at hand, she will be needy of money and the same men will turn round and call us parasites. Its sickening.



2. Most guys think like this, "IF YOU HAVE MONEY AND BIG DICK, GIRLS WILL FLOCK YOU

This is also very evident on this site as most guys tend to think that if you have money and a big phallus, girls Will follow you around like flies. This is as funny as it is untrue. I don't know about other girls but I myself despise big dicks. Its very painful. My ex had one and I never liked to perform coitus with him. Average is okay and good for girls like me.
And about the money part, most things actually needed and very important for a woman can't be bought with money. We women are creatures of many needs and many layers, and these layers need different needs. Most of which money cannot buy. So not all girls can be freaked out with bundles of cash. Only the loose ones behave like that.


3. ONCE A WOMAN CLOCKS 25 AND ABOVE, SHE HAS BECOME " EVENING NEWSPAPER"
I personally hate this one like shit and only the ignorant use this phrase and thinks they're right.
It has been scientifically proven that woman ovulate I.e produce eggs well into their late twenties and thirties and even fourties for the lucky ones (its somehow rare). So I wonder why some men would open their mouths and say a woman that's 15-20 years away from menopause is "evening newspaper".


P.S :- I dont expect my own opinions to work with every woman or man and I don't expect everyone to agree with me. Kindly observe constructive criticism as you reply. Female bashers are not allowed to comment on this. Thank you.

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Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by SweetBuns(f): 2:24pm On Dec 18, 2018
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Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by Bamidey: 2:25pm On Dec 18, 2018
undecided
Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by SweetBuns(f): 2:30pm On Dec 18, 2018
Bamidey:
undecided
what?
Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by kiddoiLL(m): 2:35pm On Dec 18, 2018
Not all guys think like that... Truth is we all love smart women, personally I love women who can work my mind, simulate my mind and show she's different from the norm. That I want you smart, Independent, strong and beautiful isn't a bad thing is it? That's what most and all guys demand. But here's where the problem arises, most women after becoming Independent, strong nd beautiful, tend to disrespect their men. So it's a thing that most guys now see as a threat. Especially the African woman.
It's when you know you have nothing to offer a guy you'll be seen as a sex object.
I've seen strong women who people might term as feminists with happy and beautiful homes, it's all about balancing it. You can be flaunt you feminism outside there to the world, but keep that bullshit away from your family. I've noticed most girls think guys just see women as sex objects, that's the biggest lie my fellow guys won't admit to. I REPEAT, IF YOU HAVE NOTHING TO OFFER A GUY IN HIS LIFE AND HE'S RICH WHILE YOU DON'T BRING A THING TO THE TABLE OTHER THAN ASS. THAT GUY WILL TAP IT AND MOVE ON UNTIL HE FINDS THE PERFECT AND STRONG WOMAN.
Your point no 3 is true and bullshit, but you won't blame it totally on them, blame it on the African culture. Africans tend to see not getting married on time as some sort of curse or a bad and miserable thing. Not guys alone, that no 3 point is general

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Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by SweetBuns(f): 2:43pm On Dec 18, 2018
kiddoiLL:
Not all guys think like that... Truth is we all love smart women, personally I love women who can work my mind, simulate my mind and show she's different from the norm. That I want you smart, Independent, strong and beautiful isn't a bad thing is it? That's what most and all guys demand. But here's where the problem arises, most women after becoming Independent, strong nd beautiful, tend to disrespect their men. So it's a thing that most guys now see as a threat. Especially the African woman.
It's when you know you have nothing to offer a guy you'll be seen as a sex object.
I've seen strong women who people might term as feminists with happy and beautiful homes, it's all about balancing it. You can be flaunt you feminism outside there to the world, but keep that bullshit away from your family. I've noticed most girls think guys just see women as sex objects, that's the biggest lie my fellow guys won't admit to. I REPEAT, IF YOU HAVE NOTHING TO OFFER A GUY IN HIS LIFE AND HE'S RICH WHILE YOU DON'T BRING A THING TO THE TABLE OTHER THAN ASS. THAT GUY WILL TAP IT AND MOVE ON UNTIL HE FINDS THE PERFECT AND STRONG WOMAN.
Your point no 3 is true and bullshit, but you won't blame it totally on them, blame it on the African culture. Africans tend to see not getting married on time as some sort of curse or a bad and miserable thing. Not guys alone, that no 3 point is general
Thank you for your wise and detailed reply.

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Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by Nobody: 2:49pm On Dec 18, 2018
Darling, the species of nl men do not even take up to 1/4 of Nigerian men. They come online and live a contradicting life in reality. If you take anything that they say serious, you’re creating unnecessary headache for yourself.

I met a guy on nl earlier this year, very outspoken and misogynistic on this site. When I met him in person, very timid and pathetic. No offence, I won’t mention his name, but from that point I just knew nl is not to be taken seriously.

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Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by Eberechi24(f): 2:53pm On Dec 18, 2018
Saffi:
Darling, the species of nl men do not even take up to 1/4 of Nigerian men. They come online and live a contradicting life in reality. If you take anything that they say serious, you’re creating unnecessary headache for yourself.

I met a guy on nl earlier this year, very outspoken and misogynistic on this site. When I met him in person, very timid and pathetic. No offence, I won’t mention his name, but from that point I just knew nl is not to be taken seriously.
Lmao, our firebrand nl misogynist is timid offline. Offline character is different from online in most cases. I don't take some issues serious till it reflects offline.

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Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by SweetBuns(f): 2:54pm On Dec 18, 2018
Saffi:
Darling, the species of nl men do not even take up to 1/4 of Nigerian men. They come online and live a contradicting life in reality. If you take anything that they say serious, you’re creating unnecessary headache for yourself.

I met a guy on nl earlier this year, very outspoken and misogynistic on this site. When I met him in person, very timid and pathetic. No offence, I won’t mention his name, but from that point I just knew nl is not to be taken seriously.
lemme guess.... That Lucifer guy abi? I'm sure him and Dunstan are just online alpha males tongue

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Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by Nobody: 3:51pm On Dec 18, 2018
Dear ladies,

Thank you for the feedback (as listed in your points).

I'm a ''man'' and i don't think i have ever considered,addressed or thought of you ''females'' in the manner listed above.

I have found that a lot of people are bitter and weak. The only way they can find release or feel powerful is by being mean and acting it out (often behind a veil - social media) on people they consider weaker(Females).

Another truth is, men that act this way are usually intimidated by females and have a humongous inferiority complex.

I have 5 amazing queens as sisters and a goddess as my mom....and I will murder anyone that even looks at them cross-eyed, let alone talk trash.

About Age? It's just numbers as far as i am concerned. Real men love and appreciate women. (Smart, Beautiful, Go-getting, MATURE women).


Heck, I love y'all!

Like...what would we ever do without you fine females? wink

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Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by kiddoiLL(m): 3:57pm On Dec 18, 2018
SweetBuns:
Thank you for your wise and detailed reply.
I enjoyed your post
Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by ReinaFarine: 4:14pm On Dec 18, 2018
wink wink

Nice one, OP.

Confusing independence and feminism for disrespect and lesbianism is very common.
I wouldn't say all men have this characteristics, if you are someone worth respecting without patriarchy giving you a platform of lordship because of your gender, a working class, outspoken woman will not be someone you have something against. Like someone above me said, it is inferiority complex. That's the only thing making the guys against this subset of women act out with verbal abusive words.

The Big Dick Myth is spot on.
Dick size is not sexual prowess. One of the girl power blogs I follow on Instagram conducted a survey on this topic. It goes Medium, Small and last of all big. But adult film culture that teaches most of us sex education has brainwashed some of us into thinking if you don't love the Biggie-Biggie, there is something wrong with you or if you don't pack some seriously large pipe there, you can't do nothing with a woman. This theory is false. Most women don't like big dick and most men don't have IndecentStar looking dick. Sex is not porn.

Last of all the age factor:
I think with the highly publicized marriage of the Duchess and A-list actress Priyanka Chopra, women in this age bracket have developed more confidence. A male friend of mine said, "no woman above 25 is dumb enough to settle for me that's why I gotta catch them before their eyes tear"
This statement was a joke he was making to excuse his penchant for young women. But there is some truth to it. The logic of women above the age of twenty five being fairly used goods or evening newspaper can only come from the mind of a child. I don't think men actually think like that. The saying things like this cannot even get a reply from the under 18 years old girls they pester on Facebook.

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Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by DanDeeBoss(m): 4:42pm On Dec 18, 2018
Lol... Sweetbuns, you have written intelligently... I am impressed... smileysmiley BTW team "30 inches dick" won't like thisgrin

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Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by xianah(f): 4:58pm On Dec 18, 2018
True tAlk..
kiddoiLL:
Not all guys think like that... Truth is we all love smart women, personally I love women who can work my mind, simulate my mind and show she's different from the norm. That I want you smart, Independent, strong and beautiful isn't a bad thing is it? That's what most and all guys demand. But here's where the problem arises, most women after becoming Independent, strong nd beautiful, tend to disrespect their men. So it's a thing that most guys now see as a threat. Especially the African woman.
It's when you know you have nothing to offer a guy you'll be seen as a sex object.
I've seen strong women who people might term as feminists with happy and beautiful homes, it's all about balancing it. You can be flaunt you feminism outside there to the world, but keep that bullshit away from your family. I've noticed most girls think guys just see women as sex objects, that's the biggest lie my fellow guys won't admit to. I REPEAT, IF YOU HAVE NOTHING TO OFFER A GUY IN HIS LIFE AND HE'S RICH WHILE YOU DON'T BRING A THING TO THE TABLE OTHER THAN ASS. THAT GUY WILL TAP IT AND MOVE ON UNTIL HE FINDS THE PERFECT AND STRONG WOMAN.
Your point no 3 is true and bullshit, but you won't blame it totally on them, blame it on the African culture. Africans tend to see not getting married on time as some sort of curse or a bad and miserable thing. Not guys alone, that no 3 point is general
Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by SweetBuns(f): 5:00pm On Dec 18, 2018
LuciferGospel:



Dear pocohantas,

You are so obsessed with me you have been opening new monikers upandan Nairaland.
Auntie, you nor dey tire?
grin

Sleeping with mods to get me banned seems not to be working again so you've switched to hiding behind different monikers.


I've successfully turned you into a raving lunatic; always creating topics ontop my matter like a coward instead of you to face me.
I thought you said you were crazy, you never see craze yet. I'm just getting warmed.


This is a monster you created by instigating gender war on Nairaland last year.
You, saffi, shugavee, funmisticqueen and all those other broke so-called feminists that have been passed around on NL.
Now that it has grown bigger than you & the guys have decided to call out all you hoes for your bullshit, you are now preaching peace. grin

You have always been a shameless, bitter, frustrated & aggressive evening newspaper which is why no matter how many PMs you send me, I will keep ignoring them.

Stupid feminist.

*spits angry

Lord I wish I had more spit
Dear.... I don't even know what to call you, undecided

First off, I am not Pocahontas. Why is it so hard for you to see that?
Secondly, every thing about you, the way you talk, the way you act, the way you think is influenced by gender discrimination. You form as if you hate women so much and abuse them forgetting that without women, you wouldn't exist let alone live.
Last of all, you called me evening newspaper. This make me laugh anytime, anywhere. I'm a young woman still in her prime and you follow me everywhere like a jobless he goat and tag me a feminist or Pocahontas or any other new term your twisted mind has to offer.

Leave Me alone and stop stalking me. I am not Pocahontas, leave my posts alone and stop following us around.
Thanks.

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Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by pocohantas(f): 5:04pm On Dec 18, 2018
I wonder how I am the one obsessed with you, when you are the one going about creating monikers for me.

Cc; Mynd44.

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Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by SweetBuns(f): 5:15pm On Dec 18, 2018
pocohantas:



I wonder how I am the one obsessed with you, when you are the one going about creating monikers for me.

Cc; Mynd44.
exactly. He has almost 22 accounts on this site alone.

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Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by SweetBuns(f): 5:16pm On Dec 18, 2018
DanDeeBoss:
Lol... Sweetbuns, you have written intelligently... I am impressed... smileysmiley BTW team "30 inches dick" won't like thisgrin
thank you smiley

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Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by bobokeshington: 5:22pm On Dec 18, 2018
SweetBuns:
The average nigerian male has been stereotyped and programmed by society to have some bad assumptions about the female gender.

1. Any female that tries to be unique and different i.e Focusing on her career and goals rather than staying at home is quickly termed a bitter woman aka Feminist
This is very true and it is also very evident on this site. Any woman who holds an opinion contrary to that of the males is quickly tagged a bitter woman and shame to society. Try to rear you head up as a woman and they will quickly try to pull you down. That is why some men in this country will never like to see their wives prosper more than them. They will always try to pull her down and bind her with wild societal beliefs like...
"YOU SHOULDNT BE WORKING ANYMORE FOR NOW. YOU HAVE CHILDREN TO TAKE CARE OF. STAY AT HOME WOMAN!"
Some men even take it too far in banning their wives from working at all. Especially if she is richer that him. No work at hand, she will be needy of money and the same men will turn round and call us parasites. Its sickening.



2. Most guys think like this, "IF YOU HAVE MONEY AND BIG DICK, GIRLS WILL FLOCK YOU

This is also very evident on this site as most guys tend to think that if you have money and a big phallus, girls Will follow you around like flies. This is as funny as it is untrue. I don't know about other girls but I myself despise big dicks. Its very painful. My ex had one and I never liked to perform coitus with him. Average is okay and good for girls like me.
And about the money part, most things actually needed and very important for a woman can't be bought with money. We women are creatures of many needs and many layers, and these layers need different needs. Most of which money cannot buy. So not all girls can be freaked out with bundles of cash. Only the loose ones behave like that.


3. ONCE A WOMAN CLOCKS 25 AND ABOVE, SHE HAS BECOME " EVENING NEWSPAPER"
I personally hate this one like shit and only the ignorant use this phrase and thinks they're right.
It has been scientifically proven that woman ovulate I.e produce eggs well into their late twenties and thirties and even fourties for the lucky ones (its somehow rare). So I wonder why some men would open their mouths and say a woman that's 15-20 years away from menopause is "evening newspaper".


P.S :- I dont expect my own opinions to work with every woman or man and I don't expect everyone to agree with me. Kindly observe constructive criticism as you reply. Female bashers are not allowed to comment on this. Thank you.

my dear sweetburns I want to have a taste of your burns

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Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by ibkayee(f): 6:05pm On Dec 18, 2018
Saffi:
Darling, the species of nl men do not even take up to 1/4 of Nigerian men. They come online and live a contradicting life in reality. If you take anything that they say serious, you’re creating unnecessary headache for yourself.

I met a guy on nl earlier this year, very outspoken and misogynistic on this site. When I met him in person, very timid and pathetic. No offence, I won’t mention his name, but from that point I just knew nl is not to be taken seriously.

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Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by cooluzi: 6:54pm On Dec 18, 2018
Eberechi24:

Lmao, our firebrand nl misogynist is timid offline. Offline character is different from online in most cases. I don't take some issues serious till it reflects offline.
lmao it applies to both gender on nl, not only nl guy for example you can be timid offline
Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by Nobody: 7:23pm On Dec 18, 2018
Like how ladies create some assumptive remarks about my lifestyle.

Some men even assume I am homosexual because I like to look sexy.

I detest assumptions please. angry

Back to the topic. I used to have some ingrained prejudice against women, because from roaming throughout the earth, going back and forth on it, I have not seen any lady who has something to bring to the table than breast and ass. They strongly believe it is a treasure the creator has endowed them with, to weather the financial storms of life. Use what you have to get what you want.

But recently I met a covenant university babe who is a Summer Analyst at Goldmansach, London. Mehn, my raised shoulders came down. Since I met her, she never look at my sexy body, my big preek(which I sent to her out of desperation embarassed) and my sweet mouth. All she cared for was her career. Then I changed my stance and believed there are superior female animals.

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Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by Nobody: 7:27pm On Dec 18, 2018
Let me not talk.
Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by tobechi74: 8:21pm On Dec 18, 2018
lamentation of a bitter woman
Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by tobechi74: 8:25pm On Dec 18, 2018
love is about sacrifice,, apart from what us in between their legs,what can she sacrifice
Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by tobechi74: 8:26pm On Dec 18, 2018
Saffi:
Darling, the species of nl men do not even take up to 1/4 of Nigerian men. They come online and live a contradicting life in reality. If you take anything that they say serious, you’re creating unnecessary headache for yourself.

I met a guy on nl earlier this year, very outspoken and misogynistic on this site. When I met him in person, very timid and pathetic. No offence, I won’t mention his name, but from that point I just knew nl is not to be taken seriously.

many people who always speak online are introvert,
Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by Biglittlelois(f): 8:37pm On Dec 18, 2018
kiddoiLL:
Not all guys think like that... Truth is we all love smart women, personally I love women who can work my mind, simulate my mind and show she's different from the norm. That I want you smart, Independent, strong and beautiful isn't a bad thing is it? That's what most and all guys demand. But here's where the problem arises, most women after becoming Independent, strong nd beautiful, tend to disrespect their men. So it's a thing that most guys now see as a threat. Especially the African woman.
It's when you know you have nothing to offer a guy you'll be seen as a sex object.
I've seen strong women who people might term as feminists with happy and beautiful homes, it's all about balancing it. You can be flaunt you feminism outside there to the world, but keep that bullshit away from your family. I've noticed most girls think guys just see women as sex objects, that's the biggest lie my fellow guys won't admit to. I REPEAT, IF YOU HAVE NOTHING TO OFFER A GUY IN HIS LIFE AND HE'S RICH WHILE YOU DON'T BRING A THING TO THE TABLE OTHER THAN ASS. THAT GUY WILL TAP IT AND MOVE ON UNTIL HE FINDS THE PERFECT AND STRONG WOMAN.
Your point no 3 is true and bullshit, but you won't blame it totally on them, blame it on the African culture. Africans tend to see not getting married on time as some sort of curse or a bad and miserable thing. Not guys alone, that no 3 point is general


Very true
Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by tobechi74: 8:46pm On Dec 18, 2018
SweetBuns:

Dear.... I don't even know what to call you, undecided

First off, I am not Pocahontas. Why is it so hard for you to see that?
Secondly, every thing about you, the way you talk, the way you act, the way you think is influenced by gender discrimination. You form as if you hate women so much and abuse them forgetting that without women, you wouldn't exist let alone live.
Last of all, you called me evening newspaper. This make me laugh anytime, anywhere. I'm a young woman still in her prime and you follow me everywhere like a jobless he goat and tag me a feminist or Pocahontas or any other new term your twisted mind has to offer.

Leave Me alone and stop stalking me. I am not Pocahontas, leave my posts alone and stop following us around.
Thanks.

when teenagers live a gurk,but don't know how to express feeling they go about picking quarell with her. that way they still get her attention
Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by Fourwinds: 9:01pm On Dec 18, 2018
Biglittlelois:



Very true
yes....big diccck
Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by EbukaHades10(m): 9:33pm On Dec 18, 2018
Story. Na una go still dey contradict unaselves

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Re: Thread Closed!!!!! by SweetBuns(f): 9:36pm On Dec 18, 2018
EbukaHades10:
Story. Na una go still dey contradict unaselves
you actually look like the meme you used.

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