LadyBeee:
I hate it when u people are saying I'm desperate. Look, I'm not desperate. I'm only sharing my story

LadyBeee:
yes I fear being single and lonely

LadyBeee:
u re very stupid. I'm sure u re one of the hungry broke guys. I'm not desperate and am not in my mid 30s. I just turned 30

Mizk:
The broke guys are looking for a rich lady to take care of them, and you're looking for a rich guy to take care of you, from my POV you're all the same so maybe you should try changing your preferences, you know what they say "opposites attract".

LadyBeee:
u re very stupid. I'm sure u re one of the hungry broke guys. I'm not desperate and am not in my mid 30s. I just turned 30

Epositive:


Little wonder for the desperation and vulnerability.
I think every person is obliged(or must learn) to enjoy his or her own solitude. This will not only protect you from external factor(person) but also give you a clear definition of who you are and what you need.
Also, identify the qualities you want in a man and stick strictly to it. This will guide you not to settle for less.(don't manage o)
CAPSLOCKED O OO

daneni1:


Babe, make we meet up and talk na. Me get work ooo, and I no go ask u for ur money.

kunleweb:



Guy where is Ubunja?

Heartbender:
The answer you seek is not online. As a lawyer and ad hoc counsellor, my advice would be that you have a sober reflection. Review your fears, check your beliefs - from religious, social and sexual, and maybe you should put up a nonchalant attitude about romance. You are not just a lonely person, you are afraid you may end up lonely and it ends up in bouts of depression. Oh, up your self esteem game. I wish I could have a phone convo but it's aigh. Shalom

Goddys:

What does being a lawyer has to do with this or you want to tell nairalanders you are a lawyer...These new wigs sef

Heartbender:
I have been practising for 4 years...and no, I also mentioned ad hoc counsellor but your short sighted foolishness would keep making you unfortunate in life. If you have ever done guidance and counselling you'd know that the first step in counselling anyone is to make them feel safe by introducing. yourself which helps in dissuading fear and doubts and malicious intent. Please, you may be stupid but kindly leave the burden of pain on those within your circle of filth and scum. Now run along, chihuahua

Goddys:

Very unfortunate how Buhari has caused many Nigerians to be excitable at harmless joke. I am not checkmating you bro

LadyBeee:
yes I fear being single and lonelmu y

Heartbender:
Oh a sarcastic ending is a joke?well, so are you...hopefully, you stop clowning, bow to superior argument, mind your business if you have any and drink plenty water....next year. Shalom. E go be

Goddys:

I argue only in court. I don't argue online. It's below my standard. Cheers

Doctoropera:
can I meet U? 07033157985

Erums:
LadyBeee again... Aint saying shit tho

SmellySperm:
Op same with me. Broke gals come my way lately, we are in this together

Goddys:

What does being a lawyer has to do with this or you want to tell nairalanders you are a lawyer...These new wigs sef

morningstar55:
Someone should help me differentiate between being broke and being poor

Ranchhoddas:

See your life. That was a harmless comment. No wonder you are attracting people like that.
Don't change your ways. Na "bambiala" you go settle down with las las.

Emescot:


You say he is very stupid, that shows the kind of woman you are, insulting someone you dont know, but still dull enough to bring ur anxiety to nairaland. Who knows if he is supposed to be your future life partner. Check yourself, maybe its you and not those so called "broke guys".

francis247:
People think you're desperate because you very well appeare to be. Action speaks louder than words. If you're not desperate, you wouldn't have opened this thread in the first place. You would have gone on with your life like this wasn't an issue. As a matter of fact, ladies your age, especially when they look older, get approached by broke guys a lot so your situation is not unusual.

Ladies in their thirties, whether early, mid or late, who end up settling down with guys that are financially buoyant are ladies who have been with the guy from her early or mid twenties, when things were not rosy with the guy, or ladies who are very beautiful, financially buoyant and find themselves in the midst of other financially buoyant guys. I'm just being very realistic here.

Whether as a guy or a lady, if you do not find genuine love with a partner in your early twenties, mid or latest late twenties, it will be more challenging to do so in your thirties, the age of marriage, the age where everyone is expecting you to settle down. And because the biological clock of a lady has time limit, with regards to procreation, it is more complicated for ladies.

Your options here if you want to increase your chances of of settling down with a financially buoyant guy who would shoulder the financial responsibilities as the man while you assist him as the woman, you'd have to make yourself more attractive inwardly and outwardly and consciously make yourself available to such men but without appearing desperate or you can go on as usual. Who knows, things may suddenly change for the better eventually.

LadyBeee:
I guess u re blind. Go back and read the guy's comments. It is u that will settle down with bambiala. Not me. Besides, u re not my God

LadyBeee:
I didn't say I'm looking for a date