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... by Nobody: 8:51am On Dec 21, 2018 |
... 4 Likes |
Re: ... by elderken(m): 8:55am On Dec 21, 2018 |
Lol 3 Likes |
Re: ... by Adasun(m): 8:58am On Dec 21, 2018 |
eyah broke guys syndrome (bgs) |
Re: ... by dollyjoy(f): 8:58am On Dec 21, 2018 |
Broke guys wanting to get married in this age and time. Sound foreign to me though 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ... by Epositive(m): 8:59am On Dec 21, 2018 |
Are you emotionally balanced? Do you fear being single and lonely? Is relationship the crown of your priorities? Let's start from here 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ... by GuyWise101(m): 9:02am On Dec 21, 2018 |
It seems you are getting old, maybe in your middle thirties and you are well to do so guys are capitalizing on this to scam and dump you later... Don't worry, marriage is not everything, what you should be praying now is to have kids, get yourself a baby daddy or reach me out and I will impregenant you for free 4 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: ... by Nobody: 9:02am On Dec 21, 2018 |
Epositive:yes I fear being single and lonely 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ... by emmydiamon(m): 9:02am On Dec 21, 2018 |
Any guy giving you condition on what you will do for him before getting married to you is not a Serious dude. 2 Likes |
Re: ... by habsydiamond(m): 9:10am On Dec 21, 2018 |
No be small thing ooooo in 2 face's voice |
Re: ... by highpriestess: 9:15am On Dec 21, 2018 |
LadyBeee:What is wrong with men of this generation? Next they will complain that they are being emasculated. At emboldened, I will hire him as a houseboy. 4 Likes |
Re: ... by mrblessed(m): 9:20am On Dec 21, 2018 |
Maybe you are destined to marry a struggling man. This is what many ladies would never brook. However, running away from it will only take you a step closer. My worry is that these men -- according to you -- tend to appear mean, shame, and desperate. Better remain single than entangle yourself with a man who sees nothing in you but only a wad of naira. 12 Likes |
Re: ... by Epositive(m): 9:20am On Dec 21, 2018 |
LadyBeee: Little wonder for the desperation and vulnerability. I think every person is obliged(or must learn) to enjoy his or her own solitude. This will not only protect you from external factor(person) but also give you a clear definition of who you are and what you need. Also, identify the qualities you want in a man and stick strictly to it. This will guide you not to settle for less.(don't manage o) CAPSLOCKED O OO 4 Likes |
Re: ... by richfriendsng: 9:28am On Dec 21, 2018 |
Nobody is supposed to be broke, it is so due to not getting the right information. MONEY abounds everywhere try to think outside the box 2 Likes |
Re: ... by Heartbender: 9:39am On Dec 21, 2018 |
The answer you seek is not online. As a lawyer and ad hoc counsellor, my advice would be that you have a sober reflection. Review your fears, check your beliefs - from religious, social and sexual, and maybe you should put up a nonchalant attitude about romance. You are not just a lonely person, you are afraid you may end up lonely and it ends up in bouts of depression. Oh, up your self esteem game. I wish I could have a phone convo but it's aigh. Shalom LadyBeee: 1 Like |
Re: ... by dingbang(m): 9:43am On Dec 21, 2018 |
You are broke and you want to marry a rich man... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ... by ednut1(m): 9:46am On Dec 21, 2018 |
U are desperate thats y. When some men see ur vulnerable and desperate dey try thier luck. The lion targets the wounded or weak animals in a herd first. If there is none they go for the prime ones. 3 Likes
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Re: ... by Onyeka64(m): 9:47am On Dec 21, 2018 |
I suggest you change something's around you
1.The place you live
2. The church you attend
3. Your anxiety to settle down
4. Where you hanging out 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ... by mikejj(m): 9:47am On Dec 21, 2018 |
eya sorry..bae sweet things most times dont come at the beginning ,..just make ur self happy the right man will come..lower ur standard.. |
Re: ... by CAPSLOCKED: 10:01am On Dec 21, 2018 |
Epositive: I THINK YOU'VE GIVEN HER A SIMPLE SOLUTION. SHE NEEDS TO BE ON HER OWN AND CONTINUE TO IMPROVE HERSELF. BEING DESPERATE WILL JUST LEAVE HER IN TROUBLES. 1 Like |
Re: ... by Nobody: 10:05am On Dec 21, 2018 |
What i see is... u ar a bit desperate abt marriage, n if care is not taken, u'l end up wit a USER. Dos kinda guys u ar meeting ar d most common type nowadays....Dey dont wanna work, but dey want a Superwoman in their life, neverdless, we still av good n responsible guys. To avoid dis user tin, u really av 2 chill...Knw n set d qualities u want in a guy, den strictly go 4 d one dat has dos qualities, it might not b so easy n fast. But remember, alI u need is just 1 MAN. He's somwher out there, dont just rush. 1 Like |
Re: ... by Nobody: 10:21am On Dec 21, 2018 |
highpriestess:Yes dear, dey want som1 dat wil feed, clothe n shelter dem. Dey also want ATM machine n a SLAVE (cook, laundry wom, cleaner dat dey will stil cheat on n maltreat), all in a single woman, i dont really blame dem but d society. Dey forget Laziness brings abt Emasculation. Op sud just relax n take her time as we still av responsible guys around. 2 Likes |
Re: ... by Eberechi24(f): 10:37am On Dec 21, 2018 |
highpriestess:Lmao. babe fear God small 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: ... by Doctoropera(m): 10:58am On Dec 21, 2018 |
can I meet U? 07033157985 |
Re: ... by Nobody: 11:31am On Dec 21, 2018 |
GuyWise101:u re very stupid. I'm sure u re one of the hungry broke guys. I'm not desperate and am not in my mid 30s. I just turned 30 |
Re: ... by solz007(m): 11:33am On Dec 21, 2018 |
What's Wrong With A Guy Being Broke? Everybody Gets Broke some times. Tomorrow Get Belle. The Charcoal Seller's Son Go Wear White Shirt One Day Surely. are you old or something?? I know a woman that got married at her late 30's and she's Happily Married. so don't act desperate, stay Humble, be patient.. Do that which makes you happy, Look good and the right man will locate you. I know a Girl that turned a Broke broke nigga into a Rich nigga and guess what?? his forever grateful to her. no thoughts of cheating on such a Girl cause she stuck witcha when you had Zero. Motivate a broke guy go hard! he'll Love & Respect U More... But when U get a Rich guy it comes with some disadvantage! You Know Better. if broke guys keep coming yo way look for that guy You Love with good character and help each other get better. don't forget GOD comes first. 1 Like |
Re: ... by Nobody: 11:38am On Dec 21, 2018 |
I hate it when u people are saying I'm desperate. Look, I'm not desperate. I'm only sharing my story 1 Like |
Re: ... by TimiRume(f): 11:42am On Dec 21, 2018 |
LadyBeee:If you are lonely, why don't you adopt kids and love them like your own? |
Re: ... by GuyWise101(m): 11:43am On Dec 21, 2018 |
[s] LadyBeee:[/s] Lol, I can feed your entire family for 35yrs. |
Re: ... by Mizk(f): 11:50am On Dec 21, 2018 |
The broke guys are looking for a rich lady to take care of them, and you're looking for a rich guy to take care of you, from my POV you're all the same so maybe you should try changing your preferences, you know what they say "opposites attract". 2 Likes |
Re: ... by francis247(m): 11:51am On Dec 21, 2018 |
LadyBeee:And this is the genesis of your problem. When you show people your weakness, they'll capitalize on it. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ... by francis247(m): 12:05pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
Sorry to ask but what is your age bracket? Because you seem to be quite desperate for a husband hence broke guys approaching and taking for a ride. It is one thing for a guy to want a wife who will assist him in shouldering some of the marriage and family responsibilities financially but it is a different issue altogether when he overtly and covertly puts most of the responsibilities on her. From your story, these men see you as someone who's desperate to settle down hence the eagerness and temerity with they burden you with their financial challenges. If you're convinced that you're not showing yourself to be desperate, then it's just a coincidence. Be patient and make yourself available to your kind of man and see what happens. If you're maintaining a lifestyle that portrays you to be financially buoyant, independent, eager to get married by dressing to flashy for instance, you really need to take a step back. 1 Like |
Re: ... by kunleweb: 12:10pm On Dec 21, 2018 |
2 Likes 1 Share |
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