I am a 33 years with two kids. I had my first daughter wen I was 25, met her dad in my office and we clicked together and started dating fast forward to some months got pregnant and then he revealed that he's married was devastated. I was scared of a DC.

Told my parents and they had me leave the pregnancy. He was a responsible for the upkeep. The baby till she was 1 years. I moved on with my life without him. He stopped taking care of the girl. I continued my life till four years later I met a young single guy and we started dating. He was all over me and we did our introduction, few months after the introduction I got pregnant and he lost his job.

We were managing together but wen our house tent was due and no money. He advised that I moved in with his mum back in IBadan. So I moved, and he comes once in three months to check on us. During the time he comes to I went thru his phone and saw several chat with different women both young and old. I didn't ask him about it. After a while I found out that he came to Introduce another lady to his mum.

After a while it didn't work out with the lady. And he apologised for all his behaviour. So now he's back in IBadan with us now since he cldnt get a job in Portharcourt. Few weeks after he came back, he made a confession abt having another baby with another lady. I felt bad considering the fact that, all these while I have footing the bills since he has no job.

Recently he got a job, though not that high paying but already to keep body and soul together. He started dating a lady not far from our house. Now he is planning an introduction with her next week. Am emotionally depressed right now

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He's a stupid man

Some guys are unrepentant cheats and can go the extra mile to frustrate a young lady, but looking at the story carefully, it seems this lady is under a curse or something is wrong somewhere. Having endless marital disappointment at 33 is not a pleasant news to the ears.


She needs a break and she also needs help.

SweetBuns:
He's a stupid man

The way and manner most of you jump into conclusion amaze me alot.

You never seek to find the main cause of her unceasing disappointment with men, be it spiritual or a curse, No you never did, rather, you quickly draw a stupid conclusion by calling the man stupid and attributing the whole misfortune to the guy.

The guy might be heartless by toying with her emotions, but she should take sometime to check her flaws.

JasonScoolari:
The way and manner most of you jump into conclusion amaze me alot.

You never seek to find the main cause of her unceasing disappointment with men, be it spiritual or a curse, No you never did, rather, you quickly draw a stupid conclusion by calling the man stupid and attributing the whole misfortune to the guy.

The guy might be heartless by toying with her emotions, but she should take sometime to check her flaws.

Any man who tries to marry two wives and has no future plans for both himself and his family is sick upstairs.
Guys are always trying to make everything look like its the fault of the girls. Its very sickening

SweetBuns:

Any man who tries to marry two wives and has no future plans for both himself and his family is sick upstairs.
Guys are always trying to make everything look like its the fault of the girls. Its very sickening

For heavens sake, must you channel all your arguments to "guys and girls" war?

JasonScoolari:
For heavens sake, must you channel all your arguments to "guys and girls" war?

Check your former statement. You'll see where I'm coming from

SweetBuns:

Check your former statement. You'll see where I'm coming from

Actually, you're not coming from Nowhere, can you please point it out?

this is too heavy for a woman to bear..control ur legs dear..some men are not good from head to toe