Pweety4me:

Lolz yea. . .but y don't u just ask him?

I don't know really, I ask if I'm willing to follow up on it, I like the guy, not sure I want to be throwing everything aside if he happened to respond and say yes, with guys, most rarely say no to dating you, especially if they think you're good looking, but a guy who shows interest and can make that clear is always more desirable, I know what I want, not sure if he does.

I think he probably is undecided, there are probably other women he's interested in, and though I understand that that is the typical human being (no one fancies just one person) I'd at least like to be at the top of the list.

Thanks for your response, I thought I might have gone a rant too far.

topup:

I don't know really, I ask if I'm willing to follow up on it, I like the guy, not sure I want to be throwing everything aside if he happened to respond and say yes, with guys, most rarely say no to dating you, especially if they think you're good looking, but a guy who shows interest and can make that clear is always more desirable, I know what I want, not sure if he does.

I think he probably is undecided, there are probably other women he's interested in, and though I understand that that is the typical human being (no one fancies just one person) I'd at least like to be at the top of the list.

Thanks for your response, I thought I might have gone a rant too far.

Pweety4me:

Not @ all. . .dat's just wat u feel your expressing urself. . .dat's gud many ladies don't know how 2 & r very confused about themselves so it's gud 2 know that u know wat u want & your sure of wat u feel.

Don't u know any1 dat knows him?they might be able 2 give him so info on him?

See, I do!! My close friend, when she used to be best friends with him (and was only a distant friend of mine), she used to hint me and drop his name in conversation all the time, telling me that we should really get together etc, she was convinced he liked me (I wasn't), and another friend says that he talks about me in my absence and he highly regards me, recently, when he found out that I would be moving cities, he said he was disappointed, he wanted to 'hang out' with me more in the near future. And once when we were playing the oh-so-mature game of truth or dare, he picked me out of all my friends as the one he could actually marry etc, but he mentioned that he is put off by girls with lots of girlfriends, and I have a strong group of 4 amazing ladies (my downfall ). I don't know really, he doesn't know what he wants, and I def don't spend another moment considering those type of guys, some people have mentioned that maybe I should make the move, but I'm not convinced, and even though I'm female, I can still guard my heart really well, avoid me falling in love with someone who's "just not that into me".

Anyway, I would like some unbiased information someone, like the question about marriage was asked whilst I was there, I would like some info when I'm not around when his guard's down.

I think he's not really moved to make a move, I know he has mentioned that he is really considering having a serious relationship soon, but at times, I just think that he's just a friendly nice guy who appreciates nice girls.

5p1naz:

maybe he really is not just into u. . .  but i am . . . h0lla

deniyor:

He liked you two yrs ago. not confirmed by anyone, not even himI'm guessing you refused him,I had a boyfriend, and he liked someone else too and he resigned himself to being just your friend (probably at your request too). Why would he put himself out there again. If you like him, its your turn to put yourself out there.