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Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by sisisioge: 8:23am On Jan 11, 2019 |
Assually, here is how it work... 1. We save our money and spend the bobos own especially when settling down with him is not in the loop. 2. When settling down enters, we spend a lil of ours and theirs and hope there would be savings here and there. 3. When settling down is guaranteed, nobody spends roughly o. We start policing every kobo that gets spends on unnecessary things. The 21 health benefits of staying off sugar, big screens, organic foods, bonding at home etc get embraced. Baa keria fa If you like, let them finish your money...every man for himself, God for us all. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by eyinjuege: 8:24am On Jan 11, 2019 |
pocohantas: Does it mean young girls who work and earn reasonably well don't save? Infact, majority of them do. If you earn 30k, it will be almost impossible to save. But for those who earn reasonably well, I believe they do save their own money. It's very easy to do controller over other people's money, and that's where some young men miss it, waiting for their girlfriend (not wife o) to help them save. These girlfriends too are only after their own personal comfort. Why won't they ask OP to buy a car instead of investing? They have done their calculations, and not only will they have a personal driver to show off with, it will also save them transport costs. They advice based on the direct benefit to them. However a wife or fiancee ( where both families have already agreed to marry) will most times give better advice, as she sees a future. Just my thoughts on the matter. Everyone has to give themselves brain, and make decisions that will benefit you. Don't wait for someone who has no idea how hard it was for you to save to decide what to do with your money. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by folake4u(f): 8:35am On Jan 11, 2019 |
I always dey wonder the kind girls all these Nairaland men meet. Who doesn't save abeg . In this 2019?! Except that girl is young, dumb and broke. By the way, change your circle of female friends and at least try to encourage them to save too instead of castigating them online. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by Nobody: 8:43am On Jan 11, 2019 |
folake4u: Well girls whose names start from folake obviously. |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by folake4u(f): 8:46am On Jan 11, 2019 |
truthsayer009: Lmao no but I'm serious, where do you meet all these kind of mediocre girls edakun |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by Nobody: 9:04am On Jan 11, 2019 |
folake4u: Mediocre? I'm not sure that's the right word sha. The ladies are just selfish minded, not really mediocre. |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by Anfieldboss: 9:24am On Jan 11, 2019 |
pocohantas: Not just plain, they are not attractive most times. Men always like flashy things, na God go help us. |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by Florblu(f): 10:40am On Jan 11, 2019 |
larryking540: The kind of girls you have around you determine who you are. If she's not encouraging you to save, encourage yourself and encourage her. Stop blaming your misfortune on liabilities you acquired with your eyes open 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by Nobody: 11:34am On Jan 11, 2019 |
Florblu: You are obviously in your late twenties for sure, 29 - 30. So I don't think you should think this way. |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by folake4u(f): 12:24pm On Jan 11, 2019 |
truthsayer009: Alright then. Pardon my choice of word but the kain ladies una dey meet and the complaints from you guys always they baffle me sha. I can only speak for myself tho, I'm not selfish at all |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by folake4u(f): 12:27pm On Jan 11, 2019 |
Florblu: Thank you very much for this! I'm always tired when Nairaland men blame the ladies for their fortunes. They're not Siamese twins last I checked so if she's not willing to save,why not encourage her. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by folake4u(f): 12:32pm On Jan 11, 2019 |
Anfieldboss: Lmao. Men are attracted to flashy things? Okay oh. What you see is what you get actually so don't come and be whining online that your partner can't save because you were too shallow to chose the slay queens who don't like saving over the prudent girls who like saving. You attract what you deserve. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by Anfieldboss: 1:43pm On Jan 11, 2019 |
folake4u: As if you don't already know |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by Acidosis(m): 2:59pm On Jan 11, 2019 |
Our saving culture may be poor but I don't think we have people that are ignorant of the need to save. What is lacking in our society is the "how". It is difficult to save money when you lack the right knowledge on finance and investment. When you teach people the power of compound interest, differences between assets and liabilities, the risk of inflation and depreciation, they will naturally begin to act rightly. This is a general view though, and not gender based. However, there is more to those ladies that live for the moments with little or no concern about tomorrow. Fact is, a lot of them will never bother about tomorrow as far as marriage with a money bag remains the focus. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by Nobody: 3:00pm On Jan 11, 2019 |
folake4u: Hahahahahahaha, why are my laughing? Okay I believe you. |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by folake4u(f): 3:02pm On Jan 11, 2019 |
Anfieldboss: Lol of course I do know but that shouldn't be the case anyways. That was my point exactly |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by folake4u(f): 3:03pm On Jan 11, 2019 |
truthsayer009:No wahala |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by daveP(m): 10:33pm On Jan 11, 2019 |
folake4u:The bible is enough encouragement already. oh i forgot, the ratio of ladies that read the bible these days compared to men is low. |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by folake4u(f): 10:40pm On Jan 11, 2019 |
daveP: Oya Dave come and be going biko . But seriously, it ain't bad to encourage your partner to do the right thing. Which men dey read Bible abeg |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by daveP(m): 10:50pm On Jan 11, 2019 |
folake4u:dia num plenty pass ladies. even if na songs of solomon dem dey meditate on always. |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by folake4u(f): 11:49pm On Jan 11, 2019 |
daveP: Oga you're not serious oh . Songs of Solomon ke?! of all Bible chapters to read on. . |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by Assist23: 4:10am On Jan 12, 2019 |
If you are planning to marry her then you both need a crash course in First year marriage basics, savings and family expenses is one of those issues we teach, it is not like normal marriage counseling this is very practical. The training is very affordable. This is important so new couples can avoid first year marriage drama. |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by zed7: 9:45am On Jan 12, 2019 |
pocohantas:Beautiful, God bless you. It's not everything that is war of the sexes, most Nigerian girls are leeches. The first lady I met who actually told me how much she had as savings and how she invested over the years, encouraged me to save and trust me I married her and we've been married for over a decade and we've achieved things together. The others before her were just "wire me money'. It's a shame the way majority of our young girls have become so materialistic. |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by zed7: 9:50am On Jan 12, 2019 |
DonnyE:Put your money in treasury Bill's for a year if you have nothing concrete to do with the money while you figure out what to do with it. |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by DonnyE(m): 11:52am On Jan 12, 2019 |
zed7:Thanks, I just did that, secondary market , 14.2%.But I need a real side hustle as source of second income. |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by justsmile(f): 10:34pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
truthsayer009: Quit rolling with empty brained chicks. Don't come and disturb us here over your poor choice in women. Thank you! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by lilmax(m): 10:50pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
see how women are fooling themselves here because they don't understand simple English..... |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by cococandy(f): 1:58am On Jan 13, 2019 |
She encouraged you to save. How many did you encourage to save? zed7: 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by Flattino(m): 2:02am On Jan 13, 2019 |
cococandy:What’s your problem? |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by cococandy(f): 2:20am On Jan 13, 2019 |
Your inability to take initiative on your own to save instead you’re waiting for someone to encourage you before you begin. Meanwhile you’re not providing the same encouragement services. That’s my problem We good? Flattino: 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by Flattino(m): 2:24am On Jan 13, 2019 |
cococandy:Idk what you talking about |
Re: Why Is That The Average Young Nigerian Lady Doesn't Care To Save For The Future? by zed7: 3:35am On Jan 13, 2019 |
cococandy:Irrelevant to the topic at hand. Create a different thread and you'll be surprised at the stories I have to share. |
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