In recent times, I have seen so many stories on the social media; stories of people who are in abusive relationships and somehow they all manage to end their post with "I don't know what to do.."!!

This itself beats my imagination!

Imagine someone in the middle of a sea, gasping for life with no help in sight and then suddenly, a ship passes by and all the person says is " I don't know what to do"! Call for help! Run away from such relationships!

Some folks are in relationships that are time bomb waiting to explode! Some are in ships without a relation to their partner. Infact, some are in a relationship all by themselves! This sect, they are the only one that sacrifice in a relationship, they call, give money, visit, reach out to the family members of their partner, sacrifice their time in order to remain in this relationship and the person they are suppose to be in the relationship with is not committed whatsoever! Instead of reciprocating same gesture and more, they complain, nag, give excuses for their actions and complain some more!

Beloved, if the above narratives describes the state you're in now, then know that you're in that relationship all by yourself!

Some folks are in a corporate career engagement with an employer and all they do every morning during resumption of work is to complain, whine and swear! Single joy they don't have! Apply for another job, No! Go out for interviews, No! Start your own business and resign from this current job, No! Do a side business alongside this job so a side money can come in, No! Get an advance certification so you can have more chances at switching jobs, No! For the past ten years, you are still stuck there, nothing changes and daily you keep complaining!

Some others are in an abusive relationship where their partners use them as punching bags! They don't really need to do anything wrong before they get beaten up. 'Bro Tyson' has not married you yet o, but cos you 'talked anyhow', he has released some severe slaps on your face! Each time this happens, he comes back begging, telling you that he is sorry and that it is the devil and even use promises of marriage to do you 'longa longa'! My sister, 'ji masun'!! Wake up!

Remove yourself from that abusive ship! Stop hoping that 'Bro Tyson' will change during marriage - this is a lie from the pit of hell! Marriage is going to amplify every weaknesses! If he gives you one slap per week now, if unfortunately you both end up married, expect to be rushed to the hospital weekly! Run away from such people!

Some will never see anything right about you no matter how hard you try! They will always pick a fault in all you do! They always dampen your mood whenever they're around you. It seems all they bring is sadness into your life! You enjoy yourself more whenever they're not around you.

And if you are already married to such toxic persons and he currently beats you to stupor, and you are tempted to remain in such and keep praying for him, please don't! Don't loose your life inside that ship! Truth is, God might not answer such prayers because of the hatred you have bottled in your inside!

No relationship is worth your life! Do not wait for him to end your life prematurely and put your children (if any) in a worry and sorry state! Wake up and walk away now! Refuse to enter into depression because of the action and/or inactions of anyone!

This year, trust God to break every relationship that does not add to you! Seek for people who will contribute to your life. Don't force yourself on anyone! Contribute your quota to that relationship, but apply wisdom in all!

If it is not safe, don't be in it!

I call you blessed. This year for you will be a year of Obvious Blessings and answered prayers! God's grace and favour will become manifest upon your life in Jesus mighty name! Amen!

God bless you excessively!

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