My friend just broke up with a girl I loved/love(blind lov). 2 months ago,my heart crashed when my friend n I meet where I had come to express my feelings to this girl I loved. When we met(my friend),I asked him what he came there to do and he told me about the new girl he had got. We decided to relax at a nearby restaurant where he called the girl to meet us there. I had already told the girl that I do come her area and she told me I should call her anytime i came. That day was the day i wanted to tell her that i'm in her area but had not actually done that b4 my friend. While we were waiting,my friend had told me he 'striked' the gal 3days ago. When i saw the girl my heart froze. Didnt know what happend next as my guy was introducing the girl to me. I knew we had feeling for each other bt had nt actually expressd it. I watchd the rel/ship crawled as my love 4 her died inside of me n my mind full of jealousy, They just broke up. Gud 2 go or bad 2 go? What should i do?

i would have advised to stay clear of that gal but since you seem set on going after her let me ask you:
- which one of the two are you ready/willing to loose?!
- you KNOW that you will have to choose between the two, right?!
- do you really think that your friend is going to be cool that you're dating his ex now?!

Guy, if u go ahead and date dat chik, Somewhere down d line d tot of d fact dat ur friend 'striked' her will break u, Personally, I wuldnt

MRbrownJAY:

i would have advised to stay clear of that gal but since you seem set on going after her let me ask you:
- which one of the two are you ready/willing to loose?!
- you KNOW that you will have to choose between the two, right?!
- do you really think that your friend is going to be cool that you're dating his ex now?!

aint think about anybody b4 i could think of myself. I think what is good 4 me 1st.

No, wait until they get back together na.

I beepd their 2 phones 2day just 2 know how cool they were and the guy told me the girl is a witch. I calld the girl aswell 2 wish he happy Sunday and the gal pleaded that we should nt talk about an 'ape' (the guy) when i askd her abt Kelvin(the guy).

think i should tell d girl that 'ape is an understatement. 'Nama' would b beta. I would only feel bad that i'm going 4 what an 'ape' had matchd wt his stinking 'ananconda'. its disheartnin. Crynnhh!!

5p1naz:

u are a b1tch. . . look wat a girl has made u do? ? ? now u call your frend names. . .

gud 4 him. He cozd me 'internal bleeding' 4 a period of 2month. I've nt done any harm.i,m stil thinkn,thats why i seek viewz.

**yawns**, piss on poster**

Posters of these days. Every one of them's trying to be a clown.

bytes2tera:

Guy, if u go ahead and date dat chik, Somewhere down d line d tot of d fact dat your friend 'striked' her will break u, Personally, I wuldnt

I think its a thing of the mind. ''after other girls aint virgin'' that wht i use to console myself bt the fact that it is smbody i know (my ugly friend) stil pertub's me.

, so u're abusing ur friend 'cos of a lady? U dickhead!
Impudent rascal!

Kenis, I would advise that before you make any decisions, why not try and find out what caused the breakup between this gal and your guy. Take time to study the gal from afar. From what you said, I dont think she dated your guy long before he caned her. If my presumption is true, then this girl in question is likely one of "easy virtue".
I think don't she's worth all this fuss.

kenis you already know what you plan to do so enjoy the consequences or lack there of

G_Syntax:

Kenis, I would advise that before you make any decisions, why not try and find out what caused the breakup between this gal and your guy. Take time to study the gal from afar. From what you said, I dont think she dated your guy long before he caned her. If my presumption is true, then this girl in question is likely one of "easy virtue".
I think don't she's worth all this fuss.

I've not known what cozd the brakeup n i don't think it's very necessary. What i think is that they are nt compactible.

omega25red:

kenis you already know what you plan to do so enjoy the consequences or lack there of

i dont know what i plan 2 do. I hav many thinx running on my head about ds issue of which all of the above is part of the thought i hav.
I dont know if i should call my friend 2 esplain things out with him. The issue is that i hav a strong feeling for the girl. I'm nt used 2 going behind my friends back that's why i allowd their rela/ship last.

Poster, leave the girl alone and search for your own missing rib

Omolola1:

Poster, leave the girl alone and search for your own missing rib

how did you knw the girl is nt my missing rib. Evidence hav shown dat my friend n she r nt compactible,meaning she's nt my friend's missing rib.she might actually be d missing rib i was lookn 4.

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Your friend might call you names. Let the friendship with your friend continue and let the babe be.
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what if i let my friend knw of my intentions.i might make smthing out of the the relationship if we 'blend'.