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We All Have The Tendency To Cheat, But... - Bamisepeter's Blog by bamisepeters(m): 1:05pm On Jan 19
To many, no matter the number of times a man cheats it is most times overlooked unlike when the coin faces the opposite sex. Most times women are being castigated and termed hoe when they cheat.

The truth is that we all have the tendency to cheat, cheating is not gender fixed. It only takes strong determination and not just ordinary determination as we can fall if not careful.

Many of us have the eyes working perfectly, our eyes are the major culprit here as they send what they see to the senses. Despite the fact that many are married/engaged to what "we" term perfect, those eyes will still see other more perfect being you didn't care to watch before sealing your union, it is the determination that stops whatever thought that might want to germinate.

The Moment any man sees that beauty they want in a lady which can be facial or body, the eyes speaks immediately to other sense organs and those sense organs start making you to imagine how romantic it will be lying with the lady meant for another man. To us this is normal, isn't it?

If that is normal, why should it now be abnormal for woman to see the perfection they want in another man too and also imagine and then complete the series? The chest, height, looks and of course size of pocket are worthy of attraction.

All these are those things we see that makes anyone cheat on their spouse except for cases where either of the two involved causes the other to look out through bad behavior, sexual displeasure or anything best known to the partner. Even if those existed, it is bound to be the growth process and we are meant to adjust, manage in order to make the union stronger as marriage is not always as rossy as we usually imagine it to be. There can be an agreed solution through proper dialogue and consultation if need be.

Lack of Contentment has made many cheat on their partner. Some can not even endure financial downtime for a minute while some will even want to do all they can to get the cash to take care of the other as insecurity is bitting their thinking faculty even when the other person is doing all to manage with the situation as they know it can not last.

The above isn't particular to ladies, many men who sought after sugar mummies and well-to-do ladies are not left out of that.

Apart from those above, anyone has the potential to cheat so far the eyes and other senses are working perfectly.

It has never been easy for those who lived together for years without cheating on each other, they only never allowed the distractions the eyes and other senses can cause to lead them astray and they stayed contented.

There are some that your eyes or senses did not cause directly, but the other person who allowed their senses to act against you probably due to what they see, feel or hear about you or what you are going through, hence they package themselves to make you observe and desire to lost in them, but because you ain't so strong you just fall for their distraction.

Just like anyone can cheat, we can also decide and be determined not to cheat. Cheating is not something of a particular gender, it can be anyone.

Let's try as best as we can to be determined and contented, it will go a long way building a long lasting and successful union.


Source: https://bamisepeters.blogspot.com/2019/01/we-all-have-tendency-to-cheat-but.html

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Re: We All Have The Tendency To Cheat, But... - Bamisepeter's Blog by GOFRONT(m): 1:09pm On Jan 19
Even as a man of God??

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Re: We All Have The Tendency To Cheat, But... - Bamisepeter's Blog by AONE555(m): 1:16pm On Jan 19
Body no be fire wood ..

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Re: We All Have The Tendency To Cheat, But... - Bamisepeter's Blog by Tajbol4splend(m): 2:06pm On Jan 19
Especially when you are in my shoe when your everyday activities require being in facial contact with these beautiful Fulanis, I've come to realize that everywhere there are people of opposite gender, satan dwells there, even if you don't do it, at least it occurs to your mind.

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Re: We All Have The Tendency To Cheat, But... - Bamisepeter's Blog by bamisepeters(m): 5:18pm On Jan 19
Tajbol4splend:
Especially when you are in my shoe when your everyday activities require being in facial contact with these beautiful Fulanis, I've come to realize that everywhere there are people of opposite gender, satan dwells there, even if you don't do it, at least it occurs to your mind.
You are completely right, but try hard so as not to give way for temptation as it might destroy a happy home, that is if you are married, if not, just get one you feel is the best for you to settle down with if you have what it takes. Best wishes my boss.

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Re: We All Have The Tendency To Cheat, But... - Bamisepeter's Blog by Tajbol4splend(m): 10:11pm On Jan 19
bamisepeters:
You are completely right, but try hard so as not to give way for temptation as it might destroy a happy home, that is if you are married, if not, [b]just get one [/b]you feel is the best for you to settle down with if you have what it takes. Best wishes my boss.

I will be a daddy
Re: We All Have The Tendency To Cheat, But... - Bamisepeter's Blog by bamisepeters(m): 8:58am On Jan 23
Tajbol4splend:


I will be a daddy

na so

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Re: We All Have The Tendency To Cheat, But... - Bamisepeter's Blog by Olusheyi1(m): 1:16pm On Jan 24
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Re: We All Have The Tendency To Cheat, But... - Bamisepeter's Blog by Waffarianman(m): 10:29am On Jan 30
True talk
Re: We All Have The Tendency To Cheat, But... - Bamisepeter's Blog by Tinalex(f): 10:29am On Jan 30
So very on point. No gender has monopoly of cheating!!!

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Re: We All Have The Tendency To Cheat, But... - Bamisepeter's Blog by aaronson(m): 10:30am On Jan 30
Gbamsolutely right.
Re: We All Have The Tendency To Cheat, But... - Bamisepeter's Blog by Nobody: 10:31am On Jan 30
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Re: We All Have The Tendency To Cheat, But... - Bamisepeter's Blog by Fxfxfx4: 10:31am On Jan 30
Chai
Re: We All Have The Tendency To Cheat, But... - Bamisepeter's Blog by LalasticlalaPA: 10:34am On Jan 30
We all do, but the society we find ourselves abhors cheating women/wives and in many cases, deem them unforgivable

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Re: We All Have The Tendency To Cheat, But... - Bamisepeter's Blog by dfrost: 10:34am On Jan 30
You have the tendency. Speak for yourself. angry
Re: We All Have The Tendency To Cheat, But... - Bamisepeter's Blog by phem1: 10:34am On Jan 30
Self-control is very vital

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Re: We All Have The Tendency To Cheat, But... - Bamisepeter's Blog by Bizmagnet: 10:37am On Jan 30
If everything a man sees drives him, then he is on a journey to destruction. Marriage should be a commitment between committed and desciplined parties.

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Re: We All Have The Tendency To Cheat, But... - Bamisepeter's Blog by peterjoe23: 10:37am On Jan 30
i totally agree to this

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Re: We All Have The Tendency To Cheat, But... - Bamisepeter's Blog by cqg88: 10:43am On Jan 30
bros na lie oo
Re: We All Have The Tendency To Cheat, But... - Bamisepeter's Blog by Fisher007: 10:46am On Jan 30
Nope men have tendency to cheat more. It is just an instinct to them. Even if a man has everything:

Wealth
Beautiful and God fearing wife.
Secure Job or Business
Well behaved kids or family.

He will still cheat. (Infact with the most ugliest or the least person you will ever aspect).

Unlike women they cheat because of their hypergamous nature ( wanting better). If a woman has all that she wants (which she can never have cause her needs increase over time) she won't cheat.

It takes the grace and help of God.

If not, do you know how many secrets people die with especially married couples. You go lose faith and hope in commitment/ Marriage.

It is just the truth we must all deal with.

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