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Re: Everything Is Wrong With Married Couples Buying Properties With Individual Names by Nobody: 9:19pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
cococandy: u no get respect bah. make una de talk and support evil. nonsense |
Re: Everything Is Wrong With Married Couples Buying Properties With Individual Names by Nobody: 9:21pm On Jan 24, 2019 |
scholachatcopyw: Will you ..will you:. Who banned you as a woman from having your own property ? I don’t know what’s giving you the feeling that your husband will die first 1 Like |
Re: Everything Is Wrong With Married Couples Buying Properties With Individual Names by Nobody: 9:22pm On Jan 24, 2019 |
babyhrt: She spoke the truth but you a typical Nigerian alpha male will never agree. |
Re: Everything Is Wrong With Married Couples Buying Properties With Individual Names by Nobody: 9:23pm On Jan 24, 2019 |
bukatyne: You lack wisdom |
Re: Everything Is Wrong With Married Couples Buying Properties With Individual Names by Nobody: 10:31pm On Jan 24, 2019 |
Elder0001: Boy-man gigolo u go about telling people say dem no get wisdom but u wey de claim say u get wisdom na little girl with little brain like pocohantas do you 10/10 wey make u wan commit suicide |
Re: Everything Is Wrong With Married Couples Buying Properties With Individual Names by ZIMDRILL(m): 4:15am On Jan 25, 2019 |
babyhrt: its a reaction to how widows get treated, the moment the husband does family membets claim everything as their brother's property (trafitional way) then on divorce its the samething she is kicked out with nothing (traditional way) you find that this all to do traditiona and culture eg in most african traditions and culture they never play fair on widows and divorcees if all people would use constitunal laws on death and divorce these women would never buy house behind their husbands and constitunal laws give them the right to inhert husband property after all she helped indirectly by looking after the property, cooking etc for him so now has the right to the left property besides wife and his kids same applies on divorce they worked together to build the little they have, she cant walk away empty handed, whether she was a housewife he helped indirectly by managing the house eg the house being clean, cooking for him, washing, helping kids etc even if they had a maid still she would manage the maid thats was her input if we all see it thise way we wouldnt have the problems we have today many uncles (brothers of the deseased ) have inherited their brothers property and many failed to look after the left wife and kids what one build with his hand with his wife let his and wife and kids enjoy or manage without brother dipping in via tradition and culture our woman are poor, becoz of that we thing only a married woman should be empowered once the husband dies we strip her of what she played part in building 2 Likes |
Re: Everything Is Wrong With Married Couples Buying Properties With Individual Names by babyhrt(m): 4:09pm On Jan 25, 2019 |
Elder0001: What truth exactly? that people that have my kind of opinion do not have a money to build one brick. How would she know? You are pathetic Now you have her attention....can you leave my front? 1 Like |
Re: Everything Is Wrong With Married Couples Buying Properties With Individual Names by Alennsar(f): 9:39pm On Jan 25, 2019 |
ogawisdom: I bet you've not seen a situation where a woman acquire so much wealth with her husband but was totally stripped of all after the man's death by the family members? |
Re: Everything Is Wrong With Married Couples Buying Properties With Individual Names by Alennsar(f): 9:47pm On Jan 25, 2019 |
bukatyne: issokay. |
Re: Everything Is Wrong With Married Couples Buying Properties With Individual Names by ameenahz(f): 9:27am On Jan 26, 2019 |
OP's submission is what the ideal is. But this is Nigeria. Nothing ever favours the woman. No one prays for unpleasant events like death, divorce, other women/wives, etc, but these things happen. Personally, what I believe in is, we will have family projects (bearing both our first names and which we will both contribute to) and also individual projects (mine with my maiden name). I don't want stories that tickle the oesophagus. 1 Like |
Re: Everything Is Wrong With Married Couples Buying Properties With Individual Names by nnamdibig(m): 1:35pm On Jan 26, 2019 |
scholachatcopyw: what makes you think the man will always die before the wife? Have you ever thought ofyou and your husband's siblings dying before your husband?? what makes you think your husband will be the riches in the family that his whole siblings will depend on him and him will die before all of you? What kind of thinking is this?? My old dead grandfather who was an illiterate prepared a will when he was alive but here you are talking of husband siblings and properties.......haba why will a right thinking man not put his properties in his children's name?? The best is to acquire properties in family name. But the wife will always want the husband to put her name in already acquired properties before marriage. And nothing is wrong with that if there is trust. |
Re: Everything Is Wrong With Married Couples Buying Properties With Individual Names by nnamdibig(m): 1:45pm On Jan 26, 2019 |
from what I just read on this tread, lots of women here believe their husband will die before them. Something is fundamentally wrong with the way we think. same thing OP is writing against. what is wrong is wrong. |
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