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Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by tete7000(m): 10:37am On Jan 28, 2019 |
If you don't want a normal life, you can then live an abnormal and insane life. It's your choice... |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by Abu4shizo: 10:37am On Jan 28, 2019 |
Trust your guts,work hard towards that area you got passion for, pray and it'll come to reality one day. above all, this is Nigeria don't put all your eggs in one basket. Goodluck! 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by SpeedGod: 10:40am On Jan 28, 2019 |
Go to school first , after school you can decide not to work or marry. Because you can use still your school training/certificate after your football career. Cheers. |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by Nobody: 10:45am On Jan 28, 2019 |
Op just reduce ur age to 16, then join an academy 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by Jman06(m): 10:46am On Jan 28, 2019 |
Football is one profession that has led many Nigerian youths to their doom! You keep playing it year in year out in the streets, hoping that someday a big club will sign you. Then you get to a certain age and realize that you have lost out as most clubs prefer younger players. You then begin to hide your real age and take all whatnot to appear fit. By the time you realize that you have completely lost out, you are probably in your 40s and with no other skills to fall on. You then join the association of retired street football stars and newspaper stand football analysts. So, my brother, at 19 you have to be very careful in this your football aspiration. If you know you are not that fantastic in it and lack the connection to push you up the ladder, then I'll advise you to drop that ambition and look for something else. But if you insist, make sure you combine playing football with learning other skills or vocation. 10 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by stanliwise(m): 10:52am On Jan 28, 2019 |
futurist369:sadly the answer is simply Yes. |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by lexy2014: 10:57am On Jan 28, 2019 |
nnadychuks: What is not normal about playing football? Messi, ronaldo, neymar all live normal lives...they studied football, play football (which is work), they are married, they kids, they also have e.t.c. U are reading or listening to many of these motivational speakers. U will end up getting more confused |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by Nobody: 10:59am On Jan 28, 2019 |
nnadychuks:Listen If you want to be a footballer then fine,be a footballer Don't let nobody determine your future because that is your passion and dream. Your parents won't be there when you are suffering the Consequence's of not following your dream. My advice(follow your heart) 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by Nobody: 11:05am On Jan 28, 2019 |
kekakuz:thank you... we learn everyday |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by motherfucker: 11:15am On Jan 28, 2019 |
nnadychuks: Read my reply below.
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Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by Chichanwa(m): 11:20am On Jan 28, 2019 |
nnadychuks: OP, you are not alone...I still feel the same way 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by Nobody: 11:22am On Jan 28, 2019 |
Too young to be thinking about marriage and kids. The time for that will come. Go ahead and put your aspirations to action. But always have a backup plan....a very good backup plan. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by alizma: 11:27am On Jan 28, 2019 |
nnadychuks:above 18yrs, you are adult. in as much as you are not going into crime, Pls live your life as it will make you happy. |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by Baselm: 11:30am On Jan 28, 2019 |
nnadychuks: At 19 if you are still dreaming of becoming a professional footballer, them its a mere dream. Are u the most talented footballer on your street,community or state? if u have exceptional footballing qualities, ur parents would have known, even if they don't, people would have spoken to them. U should be in an academy, A feeder team or should have signed ur. first pro contract. I'm not saying you should live a regular life, but u might start considering your other talents, it just might not be football. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by GreatAchiever1: 11:40am On Jan 28, 2019 |
nnadychuks: Study, work, marry and children are all part of a normal life, footballers when they were young in the football academy they go to school and study. Well I feel u should also have something ongoing in case football no work out. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by berbs: 12:15pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
nnadychuks: Endeavor you contact Denrele Edun to advice you appropriately. Cheers |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by umoo(f): 12:19pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
I'm touched by your story. The 1st thing you need is to accept lord Christ Jesus as your personal saviour & Director (pls hear me out before you turn out). This now ushers you into talking to an All Knowing God about it. Destinies are different & also people's cases too.Many may have failed at it but your story might be different. If you are passionate as you implied, ask God( not your pastor or priest) for what he thinks-- if he's answer is Yes. Ask him for secret strategies( remember many have failed at this venture). Thank him. Do as he says. Return his glory later. In Gen 26, there was famine in the land, everyone wanted to run out, including Isaac but because he had a relationship with God. God told him to stay back in the land & do as he says. Isaac had a 100 fold harvest in the same land there was famine. Just DO GOD jare & soar where many others have failed. |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by chisomada: 12:20pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
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Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by Timfreds(m): 12:23pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
I once had that dream of not living the ordinary nominal life, but the reality of life and Nigeria bring me to now struggle to making the NORMAL standard life a man need to lead. |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by baby124: 12:29pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
You better go to school and at the same time, try to follow your dream. You have to be a very talented footballer to drop all for football. Except you are gay, you can have a football career and raise a family too. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by mechanics(m): 12:48pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
That's serious o, he should go for counselling. |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by FlackoJodye: 12:51pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
Haymaykar:im just like you to man can I send you a DM |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by FlackoJodye: 1:01pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
umoo:ur stupid |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by skuribeebo: 1:39pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
You are just a lazy boy. And u will regret it veery sooon. |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by LeonMacJames(m): 1:56pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
nnadychuks: One thing you should know is that, you're the only one holding yourself back from your ambitions... And also, your inspirations Cristiano and Neymar aren't they living normal lives ? First you have to be sure of what you want, is it money you seek or peace of mind, or both. These things are very much possible if you do what you love and love what you do... Whether normal or abnormal, always be ready to take quantum leaps, risks and knowledge, if your ambition is strong, eventually you would find what you're looking for, but if you're impatient you may end up in the wrong path. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by Jolade27: 2:08pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
What i wil tel u z dat u need to kr8 a path dat u think z gud for u, coz if u r waiting for motivation from people around u, my guy u wil wait tire. Just brace up and do ur thing. Like me, i hav decided to start something dat nobody thought of in Naija, i waited too long bcoz i want ppl to motivate me, but now, no time to check time |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by Boss13: 2:32pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
Jman06: The problem is that the sport is not properly developed for grassroot talents. At 19 he should be playing actively in the Nigeria premier league and not thinking about it. However, at that age, you still find players gaining their first break. The OP needs to think it through because his clock started yesterday and he has to work thrice as hard to achieve his goal 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by Slynation(m): 2:32pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
nnadychuks: Work hard u will achieve ur dreams...!! if ur parents is financially buoyant as well it will be a plus in case of unforeseen circumstances!! But if i will advice you oo, get a jamb form this year, apply for a course related to exercise or less stressful course, go to school and join the school football team, from there if u'r good someone will take u up from there...A friend of mine did same thing, he's currently playing in Belgium division II Believe!! |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by Fidelismaria: 3:02pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
Lol Op is really funny Playing football is still a normal life nothing special about it When I saw this thread I was expecting to see things like : invent a time machine, travel at light speed, stop human from aging, explore the solar system and galaxies Lol I wish you well tho 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want To Live A Normal Lifestyle: Study, Work, Marry, Have Children..etc by Nobody: 3:11pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
Eco99:E go wait tire.. He is probably Jon Snow..cos he knows nothing. 1 Like |
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